ok so i just started talking to this girl about 2 weeks ago, been going well, met her thru my brother (dates her younger sister) anyways, shes perrrfect for me, shes not a major partier like me, shes down to earth, smart, gorgeous, and most of all is really really into me, theres only one thing, and i was warned by her sister and my brother,shes completely different on the phone and with her communication skills, for example, when im with her, shes always all over me, wants to hug, kisses me more than i kiss her, holds hands, flirts, etc its great...shes a shy girl, but, on the phone, she never really pays attention, i have to repeat myself, and when not on the phone ill be cute and text message her, but she wont text back or anything, shes wierd when she calls, it will start off good like "hey gorgeous" but after that shes really quiet, and is the "i dont care, if you want to" type of girl, and i always have to make the plans to come over or vice versa and i want more attention, help?
2007-01-15 05:32:12 · 7 answers · asked by clownwitafrown2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
more to the story, i understand its early, havent actually went on a date yet, but she wants a boyfriend, i want a girlfriend, and i know we want each other, and i may be overreacting, but it just seems like she goes thru moments, i mean ive been over her house the last few nights so i understand theres a space thing, but when i was, its almost like she loves bein with me as long as i come over to her and sit and cuddle with her, but when i dont, she doesnt come over and sit with me, but when im with her shell keep cuddling with me, pullin my head in to kiss me, giggling flirting, but then say i go to sit in the kitchen, if she comes in, shell go to the other side of the room to watch tv, and wont come and sit on my lap or etc.. and i dont know it just confuses me, cuz she really really likes me and all, but this stuff happens like she has bad a.d.d. or something, its just complicated getting together with just her (meaning to come over alone--shes best friends with her sister?)helpplz
2007-01-15 05:41:32 · update #1
so basically long story short, what can i do to get her to be more attentive with me, like i want her to start calling me or textin me asking me to come over or askin me to come over my house, or u know when im with her for her to come and sit on my lap or watever..it drives me crazy and im sure im overreacting but...i think shes a virgin, not sure, but i dont want her to think im in it for sex, although shes always wanting to make out grab me and suck on my neck and ears when im with her, and when i leave shell pull me back one last time to kiss before i walk, and its great, but i want more communication from her, cuz on the phone or when im not with her shes not one to call me or watever, and i want her to, what should i do?? she seems lazy cuz like last night her sister came over, and i didnt kno about it, so i called her as soon as i culd and asked her and she said she wasnt sure if she wanted to cuz her sister just left n could have got a ride so she said shed call me after work
2007-01-15 05:47:18 · update #2
If she is a virgin, keep her that way, she probably does not know what to say with your stupid small talk.
2007-01-15 05:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by victorschool1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand im dealing with that (back) today yet im 14 about to educate 15 and anyhow, i understand how u sense. however the purely way i'm able to go by it truly is get my recommendations on something else. often at the same time as a females says there is not something incorrect, then there is really something incorrect. basically search for suggestion from from her on the phone or meet her someplace and observe the position it is going from there. basically supply her yet another probability because it sounds like u and her have an pretty solid time putting mutually and yawl r into one yet another. If u somewhat like this lady like u say u do, u ought to offer her a probability. Like at the same time as my boyfriend txt's me i do not continually txt him decrease back till eventually like an afternoon or so later. Itz not the same as calling someone. basically call her and observe what occurs. Hopes this helps.......
2016-12-02 07:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oo..just one thing to ask..is she..i mean psycho or what? Anyways, depends on time you can spend with her..depends on your preference..like wht you really love to do? Meet her face to face everyday or talk on phone?
2007-01-15 05:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i guess she like physical contact rather than talking one the phone.
2007-01-15 05:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by sweetmeansour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her dad links himself on the phone to listen to your conversatins.so she has to behave like this .
2007-01-15 05:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by monu2003_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pamper her!!! she obviously wants more attention 2!!!
2007-01-15 05:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by spakleflakle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have sex
2007-01-15 05:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by icy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋