How do I get him to talk???!?

Question

Ok I told my crush that I liked him about 1 month ago! Then he told all his friends and they tease him and they went up to me and said so you really told him you like him. I said yea I really fooled him didn't I! I still really do like him I don't know why I said that! Now when I see him and try to talk to him he always says I am tired ! How do I get him to talk to me and act like everything normal I want to tell him you still have not told me wheather or not you like me

Maybe I should says you know what you need u need to get laid that will catch his attention ! I am not going to have sex with you though!

Answer 1

I'm gonna be very blunt with you, so try to listen to what I'm saying, and don't get all offended with my intentions. It sounds like you're really young and not mature enough to handle being straight with a guy. What you should have told his friends is the truth, no matter how much they were teasing you. This sounds very much like what happens in junior high, where kids just don't know how to handle their emotions, and hate to be teased. Now, he doesn't want to deal with you 'cause you hurt his feelings. You need to tell him the truth, and stand up like a woman. If you truly like this guy, you should stop worrying about what other people will say, and only be concerned for what he says. It's about you and him, not you and his friends. Who you trying to impress? You say you want everything to be normal. It can only be normal when you stop trying to save yourself from embarassment, and be truthful to him and to your feelings. It's what mature people do. If he still doesn't want anything to do with you after you 'fess up, then move on. Learn from this experience, and don't allow anyone's teasing to get you to change you. So what if they tease you. That's what immature people do. Live your life the way that's best for you. If you allow others to do the living for you, you'll continue to be miserable. Tell the truth and stand firm. <*)))><

Answer 2

Open mouth insert foot!

You really blew it didn't you? Sorry but if you really look back at it, it's kind of funny in a way. You stabbed yourself in the back on that one.

Don't stoop to the level of a (yada yada yada) by catching his attention with sex. You're better than that. You need to pull him off to the side and let him know how much of a mistake it was to tell his friends what you did. At that point you'll have his attention and you can go on to tell him that you really did like him. You might have to prove it to him but that shouldn't be a problem. Kiss him if even on the cheek.

Answer 3

Well, I don't know. You may have messed this one up for good. The teasing he got from his friends when they thought you liked him probably wouldn't have pushed him away. When he found out you told his friends that essentially it was all a joke, he was likely very hurt and embarrassed. It's possible that he will think its all just another one of your hurtful pranks if you bring it up again. If you feel you just have to, then make a point to tell him the whole story, but try to understand if he still doesn't trust you.

Answer 4

U broke his heart!!! that guy most probably liked u but ur single lie messed up his dream. Now u have to solve the problem. Next time when u will c him alone go right way and kiss him. Nobody can be rude or angry after kiss except some kinda girls. Then tell him u r sorry for that incident and ask her for a dinner.

Answer 5

Well, he thought you liked him and then you denied it later on so now his friends thinks he is an idiot and you look all good, how would that make you feel? Playing with a guys feelings...not good. I don't blame him if he doesn't want to talk to you.

How do you get him to talk? How about confessing and apologizing first. I think that is the least you could do for make him look like an idiot in front of his friends.

Answer 6

Well for one thing you need to apologize to him for chickening out and telling his friends that your were just gaming on him. But you sound pretty young. So your crush may not be ready to handle a direct expression of attraction like you have put out there. You may need to move on to someone a little more mature emotionally.

Answer 7

i hope you see where your play around got you its time to grow up why are you try to be the class clown and why would you say you need to get laid where your self respect you should say youre sorry by what you say to his friend that you really fool him? what was your thinking maybe your not ready to date

Answer 8

Let the man take the lead. If he likes you he'll tell you and then you decide if you still like him or not.

Answer 9

try to talk to him when no one is around. but nmabe your effort would be in vain dont spend all your energy on one person I sure ther is a lot more guys out there.

Answer 10

if you want to be another abused woman, go after him. if you are in your right mind, you should avoid guys who are playing hard to get. don't feed him with wrong signals' you should realize that, abused women went that way!