ex-wife. I already knew that she was in the process of getting a divorce with him. She lives by herself now since she does not see him anymore. But anyway we got drunk and we ended up sleeping with each other. Was it wrong to sleep with her because she was married to my cousin? BTW, my cousin and i are not that close anyway.
2007-01-15 05:36:31 · 23 answers · asked by PD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are both mature adults. If you can be fine with openly telling your cousin about the situation if it comes up then you are fine. On the other hand, if you do not feel comfortable with that disclosure then you may have got yourself into a pickle. You were also drunk and when you are drunk your ability to make appropriate decisions is sometimes foggy. Of course you know that. Did you wake up the next day and say to yourself, "Ah man what the hell did you do?". If so, then it is a problem, if not for anyone else but yourself. you also do not know HER intentions. May be she did it to get back at her ex. Maybe she had different reasons for what she did, other them liking you. The truth is you will never know and over all you ARE only responsible for your actions and your reasons for doing whatever it is that you do....If you think it is no big deal then good, move along. Of you do not feel good about it, then you must try and resolve the problem by finding ways to alleviate torturing yourself too much..Over all I think you are the only one who can truly answer your question. The fact that you are asking it shows me that you are already not sure about your actions . Or you are bragging. lol...either way, I have no judgments for you are the only one who knows you. Hope you resolve this for yourself and no one else.You owe it to you to be good to you......Take care of yourself and try not to allow to much suffering for yourself......have a great night, studlyee. lol
2007-01-15 05:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!
You had an affair with a married woman. And she cheated on her husband, even though they are separated. It's just not good all around. What if they decide to get back together later and your cousin finds out that she slept with you?
I don't exactly know what to recommend except that you should avoid getting drunk and doing things that you'll regret later in the future. No extramarital sex.
2007-01-15 13:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can pick any woman in the club. Why did you have to pick your cousin's potentially ex-wife? You broke the cardinal rule. Never sleep with a man's ex. This just says something about your character. How incestial and smarmy.
2007-01-15 13:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they were in the middle of getting a divorce I think anyone is freegame. Have fun. But be safe. hopefully I won't have to see you on Jerry Springer anytime soon.
2007-01-15 13:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asking a question and making excuses in the same breath on as to if and why it was OK.
It wasn't right. BUT if you really can't find others outside the family lines, then move to alabama and join their family laws.
2007-01-15 13:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that wasn't the right thing to do. Of all the women in the whole wide world to bang, you chose to bang your cousins wife. Killing thing is that she might have banged you to get at him. Don't bang her anymore and forget it happened.
2007-01-15 13:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by s_bodhi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's pretty bad. Even if you're not that close with your cousin, that's still family. Gross.
2007-01-15 13:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way it aint wrong Now all you have to do is find all your realitives x-wifes and x-girl friends and do em all its your duty to save face for your family
2007-01-15 13:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What does PD stand for? Putz-dog?
2007-01-15 13:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its wrong. shes married even ifshe's going to have a divorce.
2007-01-15 13:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by miss mary quite contrary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋