Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

I have been texting and callin him for at least a day and i cant get an answer or text what should i do . Should i text him again, wait, and if i do text him wat should i say? This is streesin me out

2007-01-15 06:57:36 · 13 answers · asked by deyaunna 2 in Singles & Dating

so i liked this kid and kinda hinted to him that i liked him and he ended up liking me too! all great until i didn't really like him anymore, but he still really likes me. What should i do? and i can't just tell him that i don't like him because that's not me, that's too mean. i don't want to hurt his feelings but i definately don't want to lead him on. help, please.

2007-01-15 06:56:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23, male.
I think a lot about sex, yet I don't have a relationship with a girl...
I am not very successful with girls... It is because of many things... I guess this is life... I look for a girl that likes me and all I find are girls that are not interested sexually in me... but yet I don't know... I had a GF 6 months ago although we met just a few times... I am self conscious about myself and I know that I will not find a GF in the next 4 years.
And it makes me terribly unhappy and unsatisfied. I think very much about sex (almost all the time). And I never had sex with a girl.
How long can this fantastic depressive situation prolong into the future for me? I know I will go insane at one point in the future. When will that moment come?

2007-01-15 06:56:27 · 11 answers · asked by iDontKnowWhatToDo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-15 06:55:11 · 7 answers · asked by Sylvia B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have already posted a question on this once and got a lot of great responses...but I have more information to add. This past weekend I went to my parents house for the weekend. I came back home to find a sink full of dishes, dirty kitchen counter, a messy bathroom, and a trash can almost overflowing. I feel as if its like "oh well she will clean it up just leave it for her." It takes 2 seconds to load a dishwasher! On top of that the roommate that I was telling you about....he is WAY behind in rent that he owes to my boyfriend and I bought a brand new thing of laundry detergent a week or so ago and it is GONE! Its like everytime I buy something whether it be food or whatever it is GONE! Also he started working thirds so he drinks in the mornings instead of at night now and he was drunk as a skunk today! And my bf says don't get mad at him! Should I say its me or him. He also wants to put our checking accts together and we are not even married. WHAT DO I DO?

2007-01-15 06:54:12 · 28 answers · asked by hawaiiansun_82 2 in Singles & Dating

Just a relazing massage nothing to do with sex. She just gave birth to our third child 1 month ago so I still have a couple weeks left before I can get lucky again.

2007-01-15 06:54:11 · 6 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I just don't see how somebody can fall in love with someone at first sight. It has to be lust at first sight. What do you think?

2007-01-15 06:54:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always been a very independent person and have always told myself that I don't need anyone to be happy. Truth is though, I am at a point in my life where I'd like to find a special man to settle down with. I'm not good at letting people in and opening myself up to love though. Any advice to get over that? Thanks :)

2007-01-15 06:53:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. He told me when we first started dating that he used to be an alcoholic. He still drinks, and at first I thought he had it under control, but he never drinks before work or during work, and he never lets it affect his work, however, at night and on the weekends, he starts with a glass of beer, and then goes through almost two bottles of wine. He has promised that he has cut down, but I don't see that he has. We have had a very up and down relationship. He's very moody. He seems to start arguments out of nowhere. Sometimes he is open, honest and sweet after drinking, sometimes he's impossible. I don't know if it's his personality, or his drinking. I've never dated an alcoholic, so anyone with personal experience with this, I appreciate your replies and feedback. I care about him, but I don't think I can do this for much longer.

2007-01-15 06:53:36 · 6 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 06:53:13 · 4 answers · asked by BebeLove 1 in Singles & Dating

well i herd that girls look for alot of things like love and romance it that true.

2007-01-15 06:52:50 · 7 answers · asked by itachi 2 in Singles & Dating

would u chose to be with the girl u like & care bout & wanna be with and lose ur best frend or would u rather keep ur frendship with ur best frend for yrs and lose that girl u want? the reason i ask is cuz me & my best frend have been buddies for awhile now, we go drinking, partying, & just kick it like guys. he even says im gonna be his best man at his wedding when he gets married, but he doesnt really like this girl im talking to cuz he knows her from the past & knows her hist & he says she aint good enough 4 me, but i really like her and i wanna date her but i know if i date her hes gonna stop kicking it with me or he wouldnt want me to bring her round whenever we hang out, but if i decide to hang out with my frend, then she gets mad cuz i dont spend enough time with her. so im stuck in between. and i dont know what the right move would be. cuz if i chose my frend, i lose her. if i chose her, i lose my frend. & i dont want to lose either of them. Any suggestions???

2007-01-15 06:52:49 · 8 answers · asked by oc 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 06:52:49 · 13 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating

My grandmother is 76 years old, and unless I beg to take her shopping or drive her to the doctor's, she will insist on taking the bus and then complain about it endlessly. I do not want to make her take two buses to go to the doctor's (for a check-up, mind you. She's not ill) but when I offer, she'll look miserable and then say no, she'd rather take the bus. "Really, it's only two buses dear. It's good for my poor old bones."

I HATE when people hint that they want something and then refuse my help when I offer. I don't want her to think that hinting at me will always work, and I've mentioned this to her before and she won't change. But she is getting old. What should I do?

2007-01-15 06:52:32 · 3 answers · asked by EvilFairies 5 in Family

2007-01-15 06:52:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't get a lot of free time....with studying and working - and I'm always on the computer with both - so thought online dating was an idea - but a lot of people say it's a bad choice.....any other suggestions? :)

2007-01-15 06:50:59 · 16 answers · asked by Emsy 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my kids, don't get me wrong, but it just seems that i have a void in my life that I need to be filled in order for me to be truly happy. I thought i had found my true love, but he was not what i thought he was. will I ever find my true love???

2007-01-15 06:50:04 · 9 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

What do men really think about when they are having sex with their woman... Meaning, are they picturing someone else or daydreaming that they're making sweet love to Jessica Alba (or whomever)... Curiosity, I just really want to know...

2007-01-15 06:49:29 · 6 answers · asked by Shannon Kay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Did girl feel that a person that was shy and untalkative but got a talent of play football and brilliant in academic is an enigma one? He is also handsome but dont like to talk with girl...What will happen to him in the futere..

2007-01-15 06:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 of my friends like th same guy!!they both told me that if i do not go on there side they will not be my friend any more.All three of us havebeen friends like Forever (even waybefore pre-k).What side should I go on or at least what shouldI do?????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-15 06:48:55 · 12 answers · asked by Taryn R 2 in Friends

We've been together for a year, have been friends for over 5. We are in love and he makes me very happy, except he's a pothead. He functions like a normal person, he's very successful and ambitious. I've never asked him to quit, but he knows that I don't like it. It actually never bothered me until we got serious and started talking about marriage...I refuse to be married to a stoner. He knows it's a problem and he wants to quit. He has asked me to be patient in this matter and has asked for my help. I want to be there for him, but I don't want to waste my time either. Should I get out now, or should I be there for him?

2007-01-15 06:48:48 · 4 answers · asked by Ladybeth 3 in Singles & Dating

with her boyfriend. And she doenst like my other friend becuz she talks to her boyfriend.

2007-01-15 06:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you really like to wear thongs or is it just for us guys?

2007-01-15 06:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by dbroncos1234567 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with my cousin overseas, he is younger than me and I fell sometimes as being older, and living far from home I should protect him.

But tha fact is that he just don't recognize this.

Once I lended him a considerable amount of money, he promised to pay back but, almost one year later he did not make any effort to pay me back.

He is very, very selfish.

I never met one person so selfish like him, and it breaks my heart because I did so many good things for him, and he just don't recognize.


He is selfish in little and important things as well.

He also never say thank you! I am so sick of it but I don't know what to do.

Should I just break our relationship? Or shoud I being a selfish person with him as well??

2007-01-15 06:48:04 · 14 answers · asked by EVANS S 1 in Friends

becuase i asked a girl if she liked me in the same way as i did becuase i realy like her and she said i duno but not ust once girls always say it to me when i ask them out and stuff do you know?
please answer
:)

2007-01-15 06:47:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's circumcision has 100% healed; he's 22 and he had it done six mos. ago (I know I know, it should've been done as a baby). However, ever since the surgery I've noticed when he's soft there seemed to be a lot of skin bunched up under his head...eventhough the head was always exposed, there seemed to be a lot of loose skin under the head. I thought maybe it would tighten up once it healed though.

But 6mos. later and when he's soft there's still a bunch of leftover skin under his head when he's soft---so much that the scar is only visible when he's HARD. I've had sex with one other guy and his circumcision was tightly done...when he was soft there was no loose skin under the head---just a scar down the shaft. That's how I like it.

I talked to my current b/f about it and he agreed there was a lot of loose skin in the way. He got circumcised for medical reasons so his insurance paid for it too.

2007-01-15 06:47:37 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Because I look in the mirror and see this beautiful thing staring back at me, but people don't have that same effect. The beautiful people at my school flock together, and all the people who aren't beautiful fly solo, and I'm flying solo!! Am I crazy for seeing myself as beautiful if I'm not really?

2007-01-15 06:46:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's crushing on my best friend, but she doenst like him, and I do but I dont think he likes me. I have my pic posted, I HATE my hair and i try to look the best i can but i always look like crap. How do i get him to notice me.

2007-01-15 06:46:19 · 13 answers · asked by Chrissie 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds a bit ridiculous, but we don't really have many choices of where can 'do it', we both live at home and neither of us have cars. Neither of us hardly ever have empty houses, so it's becoming very frustrating! Any idea would be cool, ps friends houses isn't an option.

2007-01-15 06:46:15 · 6 answers · asked by flower 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and I love him very much, he loves me very much. We have lived together since june of 2005 and now live in a nice house his parents bought for us in a different state. We both talk about getting married after we graduate in 2009. When should we get engaged? I love to plan, and have so much time to. I always have people asking me, why arnet ya'll married yet? As to which I reply, I'm only 20! Even though it has been a while. I wish soo bad he would propose this V-day (its our anniversary too).

2007-01-15 06:46:11 · 18 answers · asked by ♥RN♥ 4 in Weddings