I am 23, male.
I think a lot about sex, yet I don't have a relationship with a girl...
I am not very successful with girls... It is because of many things... I guess this is life... I look for a girl that likes me and all I find are girls that are not interested sexually in me... but yet I don't know... I had a GF 6 months ago although we met just a few times... I am self conscious about myself and I know that I will not find a GF in the next 4 years.
And it makes me terribly unhappy and unsatisfied. I think very much about sex (almost all the time). And I never had sex with a girl.
How long can this fantastic depressive situation prolong into the future for me? I know I will go insane at one point in the future. When will that moment come?
2007-01-15 06:56:27 · 11 answers · asked by iDontKnowWhatToDo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How about we start with looking at life different. I don't think there's anything wrong with thinking about sex but there is when you make it sure an issue that it doesn't let you move on.
Come on dude your freaken 23 you have your whole life ahead of you. Smile more, Laugh, Work hard at things that are important to you. Don't give up so easily. That Lovely girl your looking at will come for you sooner or later.
And if you ask me I don't think your weird.
Good Luck and Best Wishes!
Betty =]
2007-01-20 12:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worrying too much. It is good that you are waiting to be in a relationship to have sex. It has more meaning this way. Don't worry about the pressures of society to have sex. You do not have to do it by a certain age. Just wait for the right time, and you will know. just tell your partner that you are inexperienced. She might be more understanding and guide you trough it if she is experienced too. if you are both inexperienced, it will be a great adventure as you both discover it together. It will be memorable as long as you do it with someone you love and loves you back. Don't rush. The time will come sooner or later. Meanwhile focus on getting to know any female relationship; building comfort and intimacy. The sex part will come naturally. And also, always be prepared by having a condom ready. You never know when you might click with the right person and feel the desire to be sexual with her. Relax and enjoy any female company. Eventually you will find the romance that will lead to the experience you are longing for.
2007-01-15 15:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably think about sex all the time because you've never had it. You should seek relationships with girls for happiness not sexual gratification. And just try to keep your chin up, a girl will come along eventually if you get out there and try to meet new people. A positive attitude is the most important thing. Don't let this bother you so much, there are other things in life that can bring you happiness.
2007-01-15 15:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by nitespector 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about sex is normal. Having low self-esteem is not. Until you develop as a person you will not be attractive to the opposite sex. Who wants to involve themselves with someone who just wants them for sex? You have intimacy and esteem issues. Seek counseling. If you don't think that is a reasonable suggestion, it may be that you have arrived at the point of insanity that you fear.
2007-01-15 15:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should start changing your look and its seems like you have a problem with confidence. You need to be secure about yourself and that way girl will want to. Also when you have a girlfriend...do not try ti rush for sex or anythingl.
2007-01-22 15:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by bkg92403 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Satyr is the word for you you are not a sex addict or perv.In the dictionary it's described as a male who thinks of sex too much.So what do you want to do?Buy a hooker or wait till that majic moment with your love?Victorio
2007-01-15 15:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
23, male, thinks about sex constantly. You sound pretty normal.
You need to be more agressive in the dating game, I think. It's what it sounds like, at least. I mean, walk up to them and talk to them. Really.
2007-01-15 15:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen,looks to me like your picky on girls.just give it some time she,ll come.your still young 23 -just beginning.everyone thinks about sex especially at that age,i know i did.good luck bro.
2007-01-23 14:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call Dr. Phil or you could try some paxil it may help
2007-01-22 17:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by steelrzs1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be confident,,,and stop thinking about sex all the time,,,
2007-01-22 11:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by loving_caring20052003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋