2 of my friends like th same guy!!they both told me that if i do not go on there side they will not be my friend any more.All three of us havebeen friends like Forever (even waybefore pre-k).What side should I go on or at least what shouldI do?????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 06:48:55 · 12 answers · asked by Taryn R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them that if they were your true friend, they wouldn't put you in the middle.
Ask them if that guy is gonna be around when you guys are 30.......because you will still be around then, unless they decide to keep you in the middle.
2007-01-15 07:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, girl, this sucks. I've been in the same situation some years ago. My two best friends were fighting for a guy. I think te right thing to do is not to take a side. Don't interfere, it's senseless - you can't help anyone of them just being on her side. And one more thing - your true friend wouldn't be pushing you to pick her side.
2007-01-15 07:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by milena_cub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they r not true friends if they r trying to make u choose when its their problem not yours. Tell them if u all of you r suppose to be close friends that u shouldnt let a guy get in the way of your friendship! Remember, Boys come and go but true friends are a dime a dozen!
2007-01-15 07:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were you true friends then they would not make you chose either or, I would say that your best bet is to tell both of them that you are going to stay out of the situtation completely because your friendship means more to you then this guy that they both like! I think that sooner or later they will realize that they were worng to try and make you chose anyway! Best of Luck1
2007-01-15 07:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by randyssgirl25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say best friends before boyfriends!
u shouldn't take a side!
there is always drama with friends and u don't want them to become friends again and the other friend is mad at u for picking the other side! just do whatever u can to stop the drama!
try to get them intested in other guys ! or something like that!
just don't pick sides!:)
well i hope this helps
good luck :)
2007-01-15 07:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple attraction can break down a relation? Slap both of them, as hard as you could when next time they ask you this. Grab their neck & shake it as if you were making a milk shake. In short, tell them that you love them & cannot leave anyone for a stupid guy who doesnt even knows about this situation.
2007-01-15 07:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them true friendships can last forever. boys come and go all the time. don't get stuck in the middle. Let them sort it out. Don't hang around them dont contact them. your not choosing sides which is good. There going to have to sort out their little mess and come to you TOGETHER. They will miss you and put their differences aside.
2007-01-15 06:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by shiningstars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 04:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that
1. Its the guys choice
2.You arent going ot pick
3.They shouldnt be manipulating you like thus
2007-01-15 07:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by bluecolouredflames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should bring both of ur friends together to just sit down and talk
together inculding u buddy . but just talk to work it out cause i know love the both of them like family but just be cool with it
good luck ... : +)
2007-01-15 06:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by tyty baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋