would u chose to be with the girl u like & care bout & wanna be with and lose ur best frend or would u rather keep ur frendship with ur best frend for yrs and lose that girl u want? the reason i ask is cuz me & my best frend have been buddies for awhile now, we go drinking, partying, & just kick it like guys. he even says im gonna be his best man at his wedding when he gets married, but he doesnt really like this girl im talking to cuz he knows her from the past & knows her hist & he says she aint good enough 4 me, but i really like her and i wanna date her but i know if i date her hes gonna stop kicking it with me or he wouldnt want me to bring her round whenever we hang out, but if i decide to hang out with my frend, then she gets mad cuz i dont spend enough time with her. so im stuck in between. and i dont know what the right move would be. cuz if i chose my frend, i lose her. if i chose her, i lose my frend. & i dont want to lose either of them. Any suggestions???
2007-01-15 06:52:49 · 8 answers · asked by oc 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's REALLY your friend like he says, he will accept ANY girl you choose to date, no matter what. Talk to him about your decision then GO GET THAT GIRL!!!
2007-01-15 06:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by wjigga22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she was good enough she would respect teh fatc that you want to hang out with your friends. and If your best buddie there was ur true best buddie he would support ur decisions even though he doesn't like them. You decide. they'll be plenty of other girls.. but you're bestfriend is you're bestfriend.
2007-01-15 06:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the girl. if your best friend has a problem with her, he isn't much of a friend at all. maybe ask your friend if you can have a six week trial period dating her, you may find that your friend was right, and if he was wrong, tell him that if he can't accept that you care for this girl, then he isn't really the guy you thought he was either.
2007-01-15 07:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally guys don't give advice about other girls, so might want to take his advice. Anyways....you should talk to your friend. Girls will come and go, but your friend will always be there.
2007-01-15 11:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Bluie, The Big Plastic Whale? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is telling to be cautious, I think you should listen. Guys don't usually get in each others business, so, you might want to take his advise.
2007-01-15 06:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell about ur feeling...well,i was in something like situation and this guy became my husband but i lost ALL of my friends coz he doesnt want me to communicate with them and everything starts with one friend...thats difficult
2007-01-15 07:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by sin_talk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i had to chose. blood (or in this case 'brothers') is thicker. girls will come and go, but bros are for life.
2007-01-15 06:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only suggestion...Friends are forever; there will be other girls.
2007-01-15 06:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋