Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

would you redo your marriage or use it as a easy way out?

2007-01-14 07:17:20 · 10 answers · asked by Meemi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm taller than most guys.. kind of embarrassing.

2007-01-14 07:17:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'd like to know how Indian Malaysians guys look like?

Can u please send me pictures of Malaysian men just to have an idea? I know the look is not the most important thing but I'm curious to know if they look like Chinese or are dark tanned like Indians from India... Thank u in advance.

2007-01-14 07:16:55 · 3 answers · asked by Lolly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's weird. I'm always the outspoken,goofy, crazy, or loud one. But when I'm around a new guy I get so shy! I can't even look him in the eyes. If they ask to dance, I'll run away. No literally RUN AWAY! What can I do?

2007-01-14 07:16:15 · 10 answers · asked by Nerds Rule! 6 in Singles & Dating

My parents are both religious and educated. They want me to marry a guy who is a telugu brahmin ONLY.
I have one of my family friend who is a guy from telugu brahmin. We have had very few acquiantances since they stay in other state. I am now 21. He is 23. He propsed to me a mnth back. He is a very gud guy. He was an irespnsble guy in his teenage. He boozed, smokd but nt much with the females, a prety dcent famly bckgrnd.

Later,wen he was 21 he transfrmd so much to bcom responsble bcoz he was instigated by one of his frnds, abt christianty and jesus. Now, he says nthng is mre thn jesus, bible and thngs like that. He cnt bluf me or nething coz evry1 at my house knws hm and he stayed at r place for 3 mnths and we both studied togther too for 3 mnths.

I have liked him as a person . So, once he proposed i was hapy and said yes.
But, now i realise that my mom is very particular about worshiping hindhu god. And i am sure she will not be happy with this realtionship,

2007-01-14 07:15:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend,ashley, broke up wit her long time bf 3 days ago. my other friend, christy is gonna ask out ashley's ex on tuesday. now, my friend mary is saying christy should wait b4 asking him out but i think ashley chose 2 end it wit him, so christy shouldn't have to wait. what do u think?

2007-01-14 07:14:57 · 13 answers · asked by ceciliaa 2 in Singles & Dating

Boyfriend of 8 months decided that he wasn't feeling the relationship anymore and we talked it out and concluded that it was over. I went to get my stuff from his house and we ended up sleeping together and I cried, he held me, then he said that he loved me but we are officially seperated. But he wants to be CLOSE friends and go out, talk on the phone, have sex, spin the night, everything from when we were together. I realize its over and I've accepted that, so should I do this?

2007-01-14 07:14:34 · 10 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

I know I need to stop and was working myself up to it because it is a vile habit but now im smoking more because im so upset. Im not a heavy smoker and never do it in the house or around him but I feel as though he is trying to dictate to me. He is an X smoker so he should know how hard it is but now im digging my heals in.

2007-01-14 07:13:47 · 28 answers · asked by Jules UK 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 07:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by jignesh g 1 in Singles & Dating

Thank you in advance as your thoughts are greatly appreciated.

2007-01-14 07:12:33 · 3 answers · asked by Maria Gallercia 4 in Friends

when your in a cafe..with your friends..
and a bunch of guys right next to were your sitting
stares at you for the rest of the evening??
isn't it soo annoying..?
today I went to the cafe with my friends..and had this guy fully stare at me...he was really annoying me..
I wanted to tell him..''Take a pic it'll last longer''!!
but thats not my style...

so dont u think its annoying?or am I the only 1 here?

2007-01-14 07:11:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean he already is, but he just doesn't get it, his idea of romance, is, going to dinner, seeing a movie and coming home and going to bed. Which is nice, don't get me wrong, but, I would like to be surprised with candles on the table at the restaruant, and not telling me where he is taking me, or something to that effect. Or taking me by the hand, lead me into the bathroom after dinner, push me up against the wall and making mad passionate love to me. (stuff like that)
Please help,
desperate kitten

2007-01-14 07:11:47 · 12 answers · asked by KiTtEn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i went to a dance last night and my friends boyfriend told someone that i wanted to dance with them. this guy is soooooooo ugly and i don't like him AT ALL. i basically ran to the bathroom and avoided him the rest of the night. i would feel soo bad saying no to dance. HE IS SOOOOO WIERD and i've only talked to him a couple times because i sit behind him in math. i don't kno what to say/do.HELPPPPPPPPP

2007-01-14 07:11:28 · 5 answers · asked by livingthesweetlife 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 14 ok just dont juge me. i just had twinns Summer and Samantha. My Boyfriend wants kids he loves them but i kinda want to slow down since im only 14. ive told him that i dont want any more but at night all he wants to do is make love. he dosent use condoms though and i wish he would. I dont want him to leave cuze i dont want a broken home with my girls. HELP!

2007-01-14 07:11:24 · 6 answers · asked by MUSICGIRL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like whenever I have a serious question, some loser has something mean and nasty to say. Why don't these people get out there and get a life?

2007-01-14 07:11:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Started seeing this guy, not serious yet, barely 1 month. I really like him. He is appreciative of the time I spend with him and is always gentleman. He also calls/texts me everyday. I really admire these things.
We were supposed to get together one day, but that day I had to call him to find out that he had drank too much the night before and that he was not feeling up to it. I was really disappointed. He said he wanted to get together with me in a couple of days, but I couldn't give him a definite answer yet.
If I forget about him, am I being too hard and expecting too much? I know that everyone falls short of perfection and I am not perfect, but part of me feels that if I do not take this seriously enough that I am setting myself up for more disappointment if the relationship becomes more serious. What I mean is, will he be responsible?

On the other hand, I like him so much, but I'm afraid that I'm searching for a reason to excuse him for this. I don't want to settle.

2007-01-14 07:10:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm at a loss here....i've been married for 2 and a half years. my wife thinks that if i want to go somwhere by myself (even to the dumpster) i'm trying to avoid her and don't want to spend time with her. when i tell her i just want to go by myself, she says "fine. i'll just never go anywhere with you anymore" i'm tired of arguing all the time about stupid crap like this. there is never a happy medium. according to her, either i want to spend time with her, or i don't want to be around her. i feel smothered and if i tell her that-even in the nicest way possible- she'll blow out of proportion like she always does with everything else. i love her more than anything, but i can't talk to her about it because of the mountain/molehill episodes. what should i do?
please don't suggest counseling, as i don't want to pay someone to do something that i feel we can get through ourselves

2007-01-14 07:10:02 · 11 answers · asked by squatch 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are always at it. I'm 15 and I really don't want my parents to get a divorce. Can I say anything to make them stop arguing for my sake and for my little six year old brother's?

2007-01-14 07:09:49 · 78 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently writing a novel for teens but can't think of where I should take the book. I would like it to be really sad at the end and the two main characters are madly in love. Should someone die? I don't know where to go. Please help. The setting is near San Diego, present time. The girl just moved there and now school is starting. She is a sophmore. Troy, the other protaganist, is a junior and star of the football team. Thank you! Everything helps.

2007-01-14 07:09:49 · 13 answers · asked by writersblock9 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-14 07:08:08 · 19 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

I am only 16 and I have a baby with my girlfriend, Arynne. Arunne and I had a big fight 3 nights ago and she stormed out with Natalee. She is now back in her own family's place and I have tried to talk to her but she won't give me a time of day. She is one of those girls that are stubborn, independent, strong-willed, and crazy beautiful all in one. She is a one of a kind and I do not know how to get her back. The whole fight started over my working too much but I have to pay for her to eat, for her to bathe and cook, and for her to sleep in comfort. She doesn't understand my situation and I obviously do not understand her side of the story. I know I am only 16 and this type of life is for people much older and out of school, but I would do anything for the love of my life and our child. I miss Natalee and Arynne so much that I have barely slept these past 3 days. I need some advice to get my family back. I need ppl to tell me I doing a right thing by tring to get my family back......

2007-01-14 07:07:16 · 12 answers · asked by Late*Nights*R*Me 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello, my name is Rora and I am from London. I was actually looking for a few mates on the internet. I am 15 years old, but I don't mind your age or gender, I am just looking for someone to talk to. Anyone is very welcome to write me.

2007-01-14 07:06:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hey ladies whats up? i could really use ur advice but none of u will answer my questons....how come?

2007-01-14 07:06:28 · 32 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 07:05:42 · 1 answers · asked by hot chilly 1 in Weddings

ok last night had a couple of drinks too many .told this guy that i have been seeing that i liked him a lot ..he then announced he had been dating another woman as he only wants a casual thing..anyway i kind of got mad and shouted a bit ..today he say,s we need to put our cards on the table .he,s picking me up in 20 minutes for this chat ..do i listen and then walk away with dignity and not say anything ......help ???

2007-01-14 07:05:19 · 25 answers · asked by hawthorn330 3 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 teenage sons, almost 14 and 16.. I have raised them right, they know right from wrong. They are intelligent boys but over the past 2 years they have turned into children I don't even know.. They have turned into theives and liars and unmanageable punks.. I am just so tired of never having peace around them. Neither of them care about school, they couldn't care any less about homework or grades. Its murder even getting them up to go. They used to have dreams and ambitions and now nothing.. It breaks my heart to see the two beautiful boys turn into their father..who cares about hardly anything. They want to live with him and i am to the point of saying.. GO!! I have raised them all alone this far, he can do the rest of it.. The problem is that I am scared they will not be aken care of properly. I know there are fed and clothed and have everything they need when they are with me. Should I show tough love and not worry and let them make this choice?

2007-01-14 07:05:10 · 4 answers · asked by dolphinchick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

In June, my wife and I celabrate our 25th anniversary. I'm going home for our daughters high school graduation and then we're heading off for 'our time'. I work in Europe. We met in Germany once before, about three years ago for a vacation. I suggested going to Germany again, but she thought somewhere else might be nice. I jokeing suggested that I pick the place and just tell her what type of clothing to bring. To my suprise that sounded like a great idea to her. We drove too much when she visited before (her first and only trip outside the US) so I want a place where we would enjoy our time without traveling after we get there. I've thought of so many places, but am open to ideas. India, France, Egypt, Ireland, England, Denmark, Czech Republic… are some of the places I've thought of, but haven't made up my mind. We should have around seven to ten days where ever we go. Where do you suggest?

2007-01-14 07:04:10 · 8 answers · asked by MJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been goin out with my boyfriend for 4 years, everything is fine and we dont argue usually, i love him.

then i have this friend, he has been going out with my best friend for 3 years. then tonight he said he fancys me, completly out of the blue, although i didnt notice something between us. there is a strange spark between us but i denied it when he asked me because nothing can ever happen, what can i say to him to make this better? what should i do?

2007-01-14 07:04:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sorry I re-asked, but i really gotta know

I have very low self esteem at times, and I was feeling sad about me being a boring person to talk to. I guess that from talking to her I sensed she was bored talking to me (we've talked almost every day since christmas, we haven't been able to go out since like the 28th cuz of work, and she has a child to care for). How do I know if she's lost interest in me? I texted her (10 pm when she got off work) to call me sometime and she hasn't (it's 930 am). Do I call and ask? I don't want to sound wierd if my judgement is off.

2007-01-14 07:03:58 · 3 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

Is just under 8inches good or bad.. i seriously dont have a clue and just wanna see what other people think??

2007-01-14 07:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by West-Lnds-Finest 2 in Singles & Dating