Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

when the guy doesn't get the hint. I ain't interested. I've already had my hell thru relationships, and that is the last thing I need. But he still won't stop, and I've already told him 'no.' Don't wanna date, nothing. Why can't men understand?

2007-01-14 08:06:47 · 6 answers · asked by Bobbi 5 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend wanted to have sex the other night. and i didnt, i just felt gross. like my legs were hairy.. n whatnot. i just didnt want him to see me like that. we've been going out for over 15 months.

he says he felt really "cut" that i didtn want to have sex and that he feels really sad n upset about it.

is there any way i can make him feel better. without having sex.
he says he lost lots of his confidence n ****..

2007-01-14 08:06:37 · 17 answers · asked by krimson.suicide 2 in Singles & Dating

My father and I have a strange relationship, I'm sure that goes for many relationships in the world. However, I'm trying to anylise why my father has a serious problem with the smallest things. For example: I went out to get coffee in the morning, rather than brewing my own. At the cafe I decide to bring home a cup for me and my father. I figured no big deal and you may think that also. So, I get home, at the time my father was ironing shirts and I let him know I got him a cup of coffee. So far nothing wrong right? Well he shook his head in disbelief or dissapointment, I asked him if there was something wrong and if I offended him by bringing him a cup of coffee. He didn't say much besides "I don't want coffee everytime you get a cup". I walked away confused... What ever happened to Thanks for thinking of me... I just noticed my father has some serious issues, recolecting many instances of this similar nature. Thank God I have the sense to become a better father/person.

2007-01-14 08:05:03 · 13 answers · asked by smash5212 P 1 in Family

i always just am looking for a o ne night stand with a girl and nothing more. how do i tell her that?

2007-01-14 08:05:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 08:05:01 · 17 answers · asked by Natalie 2 in Singles & Dating

Women claim that they want men who are confident, healthy, intelligent, hard-working, romantic, honest, and appreciative. Those same women intentionally date and marry men who are the exact opposite. Then they have the nerve to feel sorry for themselves, even though they are 100% to blame for their choices.

Why is this?

2007-01-14 08:03:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently got engaged on October 13th. My fiancee and I were planning our wedding for next year July 19th 2008. We went to look at reception halls, I've told everyone about the wedding and everything. But we havent booked a place as yet. However, I just found out a couple days ago that I am pregnant. I am so depressed. We thought we were being careful. I do want to be a mom, but I wanted to be married first before. My mom is also very religious and was just settling to the fact that I was going to marry someone not in my faith, now a baby!! The baby would be due in October 2007, and the wedding would then be 9 months after that. What would you do in this situation. I am happy but scared at the same time.

2007-01-14 08:03:01 · 28 answers · asked by Life Goes On 2 in Weddings

That's what my chick friends and guy friends tell me over and over. I tried mojito (rum/lime juice/lemon/mint/sugar) last nite. After two drinks, that crap got me buzzin. But, I like beer better. Is it true tho about liquor converts boy into man?

2007-01-14 08:03:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend got left at home by her self with a sister who tends to have parties with achol when her mom is not at home. The mom has known about this but still leaves the kids at home for long periods of times. Like this weekend she has headed to Flordia her kids are not sure what part or why? Just wondering

2007-01-14 08:00:17 · 16 answers · asked by amazing 1 in Family

i've been wondering, do girls like sport? which one?

2007-01-14 07:59:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf of 6 years left me and our son last week for the 2nd time.
We had only been back together for 5 months,he says he still loves me but only because i`m the mother of his child,he says this the last time to but then told me he fell back in love with me again which he now says is lies.

I do still love him as he was my first serious bf,i was only just turned 18 when i met him,i then fell pregnant 2 years later.He was never much of a father or partner since he started working in a call centre and met different people who like him like staying out drinking and taking drugs,they have no ties and are all single,i think he just wants that sort of life for himself now.

I know he has treated me like crap and doesn`t love me..which hurts as i thought he was teling the truth when he came back.I just don`t know how i`m going to get on with my life if he still wants to see our son.I haven`t let him yet but not to be nasty to him,for my son as he didn`t handle it well and has learning diff

2007-01-14 07:59:18 · 20 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 15 and there is a girl who i think is really beautiful both on the inside and out.about a month i introduced myself and started to speak to her like for two minutes once every three days . i cant really explain how she is but she doesnt talk that much but it isnt like she doesnt talk at all since then all i could think about was her and everytime i spoke to her she smiled and was very friendly. but now i feel like i am loosing her she is getting bored of me she doesnt smile that much around me .is not that i said anything dumb or stupid but i want her to like me , make her laugh and make feel more comfotable around me and i want to get closer to her and be her friend first and guys like me dont usually get girls like her.im not ready to tell her how i feel just yet but i do wanna get close to her. tommorow is school what should i say to her and do

2007-01-14 07:58:56 · 2 answers · asked by Josh j 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just thinking:

How would diaper checks be run in a daycare type of enviroment? Tons of kids, how would you know who made a mess, or if any of them made a mess?

What method would be used to check?

2007-01-14 07:58:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-14 07:58:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okayy... well. I liked this guy for a REALLY long time and he had a girlfriend. But, even so... all of my friends wanted me to wait for him and her to end so that we could be together saying we were "perfect" EVERYONE said this. well, last friday i was at my best friends house when he called me and said he wanted to chill so we invited him over too. when he came my friend dared me to kiss him even though he had a girlfriend... so i said "No!! you kiss him" trying to keep cool so he wouldnt think i told her to dare me that. so about fifteen minutes later SHE DOES!!! She kissed the guy i have liked longer than anybody!!! && she has called me crying and begging me to forgive her. He was telling me that he has no feelings for her but he has broken up with his girlfriends and is single. I know we will get together, but should i forgive my friend??

2007-01-14 07:57:45 · 17 answers · asked by curry_lover4ever 3 in Friends

i fell in love with my best friend of 5years... but he said we will always be friends and nothing more and he values my friendship a lot. and he was in love with his ex gf.
it took me a month to get over the pain. i told him i need some time off cuz its difficult for me to handle things now...
in the second week of timeoff now he texted me saying he is missing me, and has been thinking about me alot.
i dont know wat that means.....but the heartache is back.
should i reply? or should i just ignore it.

2007-01-14 07:57:34 · 2 answers · asked by vegas l 1 in Singles & Dating

like his whole bedroom is totally white, even his sheets, kind of freaks me out a bit that there's no color. He says this is the way bedrooms are supposed to be. Does it mean he's dull?

2007-01-14 07:57:34 · 8 answers · asked by ash 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 07:56:16 · 8 answers · asked by chuck 3 in Family

I know some guys who wait a year before revealing their feelings. Do any of you do that?

2007-01-14 07:55:52 · 6 answers · asked by Oublier 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so me and this guy are really in love with eachother. He told me hes in love iwth me but...he has a gf. He said that hes in love with both me and his gf. But i dont that. I told him today that if he really loves me he would let go of hs gf to be with me. He got really mad and was like I do love you I love you alot. He said he was going to kill himself.... :(. What do I do??? Does he reallly love me?!?!?!?! I need some answers!!!!!!!

2007-01-14 07:55:48 · 17 answers · asked by dancingurl_22 1 in Singles & Dating

Btw,I am a mature woman--not a teen.

2007-01-14 07:55:19 · 21 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 07:54:57 · 13 answers · asked by Curious 5 in Weddings

i know its stupid because im 19
and hes 20
its just i love him so much and i dont want him out of my life
weve been on and off for years but yeah
idk i kno its stupid and id never act on it
but how do i get this idea out of my head
cuz im scared one day i will act on it
idk i know its all emotions but its scaring me how much i want a baby sometimes

2007-01-14 07:54:53 · 7 answers · asked by yourguardianangel88 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Does he feel guilty for dumping me & wanted to feel better by taking me out or did he miss me & wanna be friends? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends?

2007-01-14 07:54:27 · 4 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there is this guy I was talking to that I know, but I didn't want to tell him who I was...I've been talking to him for a while, but I still wont' tell him. He keeps guessing, and he even told me that if I told him by the end of the night, I could ask him "2 very very personal questions, no matter how bad they are, and if he doesn't answer them, next time I see him I can punch him in the face."
He even tried top get me to go skating with him just so he could figure it out. I don't really plan on telling him, but I like talking to him. What do I do?

2007-01-14 07:53:19 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you guys pick up a girl? i have my own way but i want to hear how you do it. and what do you say, how do you approach her, and what person do you go after? and how long does it take you to close the deal?

i perspnaly. go for the drunkest girls thats dreeses very promiscious and has no respect for herself.

2007-01-14 07:53:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've got the opportunity to get in touch with a former close friend - we fell out in a bad way - not spoken for 3 years.

We both got very close, sort of started dating, she got jealous if I showed interest in another girl - she would literally pull me away from them! Back then I never told her how I honestly felt about her - so neither of us knew where we were headed.

In the end, she saw me leave a club with a girl and she assumed that I stayed with her--which I didnt.

We lost contact by her saying "she wants a BREAK" --- MEANING???

THIS HAPPENED 3 YEARS AGO

Should I attempt to get back in touch???Would she be ok now or still hurt?

2007-01-14 07:51:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This chick friend of mind called me hour ago and asked me what are the plans for Feb 14th? She is currently not seeing anyone. I told her look chick, I don't make plan for this evening and u expect me to make plan for next month? Besides I don't go out on that day coz it can get pretty expesive. She started screaming on the phone and hung up. What a psycho.

2007-01-14 07:49:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i fell in love with my best friend of 5years... but he said we will always be friends and nothing more and he values my friendship a lot. and he was in love with his ex gf.
it took me a month to get over the pain. i told him i need some time off cuz its difficult for me to handle things now...
in the second week of timeoff now he texted me saying he is missing me, and has been thinking about me alot.
i dont know wat that means.....but the heartache is back.
should i reply? or should i just ignore it.

2007-01-14 07:49:35 · 9 answers · asked by vegas l 1 in Friends

don't tell each other about the other one, does that make me a whore or just American?

2007-01-14 07:41:25 · 30 answers · asked by Tiffi Poodle Pie 69 2 in Singles & Dating