Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

My boyfriend and I live together. I am going through divorce. My boyfriends wife wants him back after previously agreeing she wanted a separation and abusing him. I have told him to go back but he wants to be with me.

2007-01-14 08:52:49 · 9 answers · asked by laura s 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had guys call me pretty, and guy friends call me attractive. This drives me absolutely insane, because I'm 16 and have never dated anyone. I'm studious, take school as seriously as one can, practice the flute a lot, ski race, and other normal things. I have an atheltic body, not fat and good skin. Wear clothes that complement my body and aren't inappropriate. I gave up on guys for a while, but then decided not to. Now I don't know what to do. It always seems as if guys who are too old intrigue me and they are attracted to me. It's like the person I'll some day meet and date will be older than me, but how hard is it to find someone my age? What can I do? And I do flirt, but just friendly stuff nothing yucky. I'm just really frustrated, and I've been told I'm too straight edge or serious by people. Trust me I'm not very serious even if I am straight edge. So what if I've got drive at school and in my life, it's junior year so what's to be expected? This whole problem depresses me.

2007-01-14 08:52:27 · 7 answers · asked by infusionismusic 2 in Singles & Dating

i met a guy in the summer, and we had loads of fun and stuff, but since september, we've been in opposite ends of the world.
we keep sending each other emails and keep in contact, but i dont know if i'm ever going to see him again, i will always keep in contact with him as friends, but do you think that there could ever be something one day, i rely liked him.
ps hes in australia im in uk.

2007-01-14 08:51:57 · 2 answers · asked by pheebs 2 in Singles & Dating

'for xmas this year I wanted' .........Simple but useful gifts.........Like a simple box of "good" chocolates for me, or a nice bottle of Cologne. My wife uses "Realm" perfume which costs about $20.00 at Rite-Aid. We are all too old as adults at this point in time to be "getting and giving" useless gifts that are never used and eventually just tossed out (like that watch that broke as soon as I tried to wind it last Xmas Day). We certainly don't expect any expensive gifts from you, but we are adults, we buy our own clothes, watches, gadgets, etc., ( usually at the quality adults expect to get for a price). So therefore If "It's the thought that counts" then "think",......... think about what I've just said, and what is being said in the article below. By the way, even the cat didn't want to get near, or sleep on that funny smelling housecoat you got my wife. I don't want to appear to be mean and nasty, but enough is enough. We spend a lot of money on your family for the holidays

2007-01-14 08:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by Nmatt 2 in Family

My girlfriend of 10 months' Russian father sat me down the other day for a talk. I was sort of blindsided when he asked me what my plans were for having children and the future with his daughter. He said he thought it would be good for us to move in together close to their house so they could take care of the grandkids (which we dont have) and baby sit down the road. I do live 45 minutes away and she lives with her family still . She is 27 im 35. Thats just a small part of the conversation but i think you get the drift. It was pretty funny and was like something out of a "meet the parents Russian version movie. ANy comments is this normal in Russian families, this"talk"?

2007-01-14 08:51:30 · 16 answers · asked by slumlordo 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl .....should i ask her out on aol and if you say yes then how should i do it?

2007-01-14 08:51:27 · 15 answers · asked by CrippledFingerz 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm the sweet romantic type and can't find the same type of woman. I end up dating the ones that like to dominate me. Is this normal? I am the type of guy that likes to concentrate on her needs, but I want to find a woman that wants to concentrate on my needs also. I must be asking for too much, Please give me feedback.

2007-01-14 08:50:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which ones and why?

2007-01-14 08:50:18 · 14 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Friends

The old rule, never let them know you like them (for girls). Now, if a guy makes the first move and talks to you, how would guys be enticed to go back and talk to this girl more often? Good personality and charm works, but how would it be possible for the both of you to talk more often? Thanks!

2007-01-14 08:50:17 · 10 answers · asked by thenightsky_isblack 1 in Singles & Dating

How does it feel for them? does it hurt? my boyfriend said that he pissed out blood.. just curios guys plz share your experiences.

2007-01-14 08:49:19 · 8 answers · asked by hotpinkpunk2009 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married abroad on what will be my fiance's 50th birthday. Does anyone have any ideas of something extra special I could get him - apart from me!

2007-01-14 08:48:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-14 08:48:06 · 12 answers · asked by Gemmy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have developed a relationship with a guy who has a girlfriend. They were dating for about three months when I started spending more time with him. He wasn't totally miserable with her, but we would talk for hours and go out from time to time. He confided at that time that he knew he couldn't stay with her because she had emotional and drinking problems. I was in a new relationship too, and wasn't satisfied. When I started to develop feelings for this guy, I ended my other relationship. He said he would be breaking up with his girlfriend, and that he wanted to be with me... at first I declined dates- I didn't think that it was right to see him on the side. But as time has gone on I have let myself spend more time with him, and am smitten. We have amazing chemistry. He said that he was waiting until after the holidays to go through the breakup with his girl, for the sake of his demanding job and her feelings. the holidays are over....nothing. Should I keep waiting? I really like him

2007-01-14 08:47:14 · 30 answers · asked by smarty 2 in Singles & Dating

i remember this site a while ago and you used to put the names of each yourself and your spouse and the percentage that you would stay together would come up and how compatable you are together...does anyone remember this site??

2007-01-14 08:45:06 · 3 answers · asked by lisa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My co worker stays on the computer all day at work and answers these questions. and today he has not done controls, like he is suppose to. He use to be a meteroligest and quit his job because he was covering a hurrican and was hit in the head by a pice of tin. since then all he wants to do is play like he is a phycoligist. what should I do should i tell him he is a falkenat or should I make him think he is Dr. Phill?

2007-01-14 08:44:30 · 8 answers · asked by joe b 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats your answer?

2007-01-14 08:44:26 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 08:44:20 · 6 answers · asked by curious 2 in Friends

Just a thought?!!

2007-01-14 08:44:19 · 4 answers · asked by oop139gg 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 08:44:09 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I are dating and he has resently moved out. But we left it open so each f us can still date other people. Is this a way of just putting off the inevitable or do we still have a chance?

2007-01-14 08:43:59 · 12 answers · asked by ridenitroughly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been dating for awhile and he just told me that he really loves my feet. I wear sandals year round so he can always see my feet, but I am wondering if that is the only reason he likes me. He gives me foot massages a lot, which feel good, but whats next? Toe sucking? Is he a normal person?

2007-01-14 08:42:56 · 28 answers · asked by Kristine777 1 in Singles & Dating

He hasnt been working much lately, talking with his friends or me.And now he's been sick and only was at school one day last week. He said hes having a rought time. How can I help him without smothering him?

2007-01-14 08:42:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 08:41:35 · 6 answers · asked by lovesaragon 5 in Weddings

Im a year older than this this girl at my school and i really want her to notice me

2007-01-14 08:41:26 · 9 answers · asked by Just a guy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 08:41:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the most romantic thing any guy could ever do for you?
What is the most romantic thing any girl could ever do for you?

2007-01-14 08:40:59 · 9 answers · asked by Love_Forever 3 in Singles & Dating

well....i`m talking here about the case that the girl has "exceeded" the age of 25 and the guy..is just starting his 20s.....is it possible to occur different issues from here? what are the major ones? thx!

2007-01-14 08:40:28 · 17 answers · asked by Jessica Rabbit 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl wrote me this: your someone that will be there when I get my heart broken. your someone that I can call no matter what time it is. your someone that I can tell everything to.
your someone that will make me smile by your sarcastic comments. your someone that has everything but for the first time that doesnt scare me. im used to rejection, i even got rejected by my own father after 14 years, but our friendship has gone through alot. im glad your not rejecting me as a person because it would be easy to do, and im glad that we're not like we were freshmen year ♥ thanks kyle for always helping me when i need it and im glad our friendship is coming out of the dark <3 jenn. what should i do?? im a junior in hs. im a little confused, any advice would be great, thanks

2007-01-14 08:40:02 · 2 answers · asked by Jake W 2 in Singles & Dating

After 8 months we broke up yesterday. I vented to him how I was angry and hurt, then later on I went over there to get my things and he grabbed me and held me, I asked for a kiss and he didn't hesitate, then we had break up sex, I broke down crying afterwards, he held me & kissed my forehead, wiped my tears. Then we had sex again and afterwards he said, "I love you little lady" and I asked him to tell me it was over and he said, "we are officially seperated." The he stated we gon be close friends and we can still do everything like before, then I talked about the future and he said that IF he doesn't marry me, he'll be at the wedding. What could any of this mean?

2007-01-14 08:39:04 · 5 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

dont you just find it annoying when girls your not interested in try to get your attention by trying to act funny, cool, pretty, etc? i just think its annoying.

2007-01-14 08:38:58 · 3 answers · asked by Endorphins? 2 in Singles & Dating