We have been dating for awhile and he just told me that he really loves my feet. I wear sandals year round so he can always see my feet, but I am wondering if that is the only reason he likes me. He gives me foot massages a lot, which feel good, but whats next? Toe sucking? Is he a normal person?
2007-01-14 08:42:56 · 28 answers · asked by Kristine777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fetishes are very common, especially among men. This one is particularly harmless. If he had a breast fetish, he might be asking you to get implants! At least he won't ask you to grow bigger feet.
If toe sucking is the worst of it, be happy. You can always wash your feet first.
2007-01-14 08:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you wear sandals year round so he can see your feet, sounds like you are playing along with him. Yes, he could have a foot fetish, but that won't make him a bad person, and it isn't the only reason he likes you. Let it play out and see where it goes. If he starts doing things that you either don't like, or are not comfortable with, then tell him its time to stop. Tell him then that you are concerned about his apparent fetish and while its okay to an point, you don't want him to go overboard with it.
Until then, let him go... he's harmless.
2007-01-14 08:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by David L 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people have fetishes. A foot fetish is not as uncommon as some may think. Personally, I see nothing wrong with a man who has a foot fetish and would love the massages and rubs!
Would you rather have a companion who pays no attention to you or decides he wants to have his cake and eat it too?
If that is the only thing amiss with your beau, count your blessings and let him play away with your feet.
2007-01-14 08:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by cbharr10 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find out would be to wear winter boots and see for fun what would be his reaction? LOL.
If you live in a warm climate of course this is not very convenient, but you could get a pair at the Goodwill store or Salvation Army store to wear them for your test !... The least you could do is having a hilarious time doing it! LOL
He would have a difficult time getting to your toes that way! LOL
2007-01-14 08:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say everyone has there own weirdness. I once knew someone who could not orgasm without his feet in a blueberry pie???? And yes it had to be blueberry. Now that is weird. The feet thing is normal, and it means he likes every part of you. Just be happy it's not feet in the pie!
2007-01-14 08:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Disco Lady 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well as far as fettishes go.......a foot fetish is pretty normal. Nothing really to worry about unless you don't like it then it is time to move on......if it makes you uncomfortable or concerned it is time to put your shoes on and walk out the door! Since you have written into yahoo answers I think you know your answer!
2007-01-14 08:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by looneybinexpress 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would not be worried, my last boyfriend thought feet were gross and I have nice small feet and I keep them clean and manicured. It made me feel horrible because I gave him foot rubs all the time and never got any in return...I'd say live it up. He loves you and your feet!
2007-01-14 08:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
fetishes are part of his sex drive. it's a whole separate thing from emotional attachment, or love, though they might spill over into each other sometimes.
Trust me, it's nothing to be worried about. Just... wash your feet. You're going to have to kiss that mouth later.
2007-01-14 08:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by John C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
different men just have different things they love about women, he just happens to love you feet. but trust me, its probably not near as much as he loves you! take it as a compliment! give him a footjob every now and then, (like a handjob, ya know?) be happy you have a man that loves your mind and your body.
2007-01-14 08:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jesse D 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment for a pedicure!!
Free your mind, and the rest will follow.
2007-01-14 08:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by answers999 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋