Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

2007-01-14 09:21:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do people survive the cold, 42 degrees without wearing
a down coat and or cashmere coat in the streets? Seeing alot of people just wearing a thin coat without any scarf or hat.

2007-01-14 09:19:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance who is still married to a wife as the divorce is taking forever is going to Costa Rica to his daughters wedding, this daughter is by his first marriage. I have been excluded by him as he has made it that way. However the wife he is married to at the moment is going yet it is not her daughter but is going anyway and has not been told not to. She has verbally abused me over the phone and my fiance will not stand up to her over the sitation I feel very hurt and he just tells me not to be worried, but I am as I know what this woman is like exceptionally pushy and demanding my fiance who is 20 years older than me cannot stand up to her I dont know what to do and feel very down and hurt over the whole sitauation I never realised that he would put me through this what can I do

2007-01-14 09:18:59 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 09:18:55 · 28 answers · asked by Me 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to go to dinner tonight with my entire family. Everytime the whole family is together I canstan it! Its eiether filled with fights or boring as hell! I love them all, but I would rather go clubbing with my boyfriend and friends. Atleast with them there are never fights or a dull moment! Please help me.

2007-01-14 09:18:53 · 6 answers · asked by Barlow 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has an idea to start his own business. it sounds loke a good idea and i think that it just might work but i am employed and making $12/hour in a shop. in order to start this business we would have to move to a place that is a five hour drive from where i work. what would you do?

p.s. we have 4 children ages 1-10

2007-01-14 09:18:52 · 4 answers · asked by dreamer 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been married for 15 years and have two children, 12 years old and 5 years old, my husband left for a business trip, and i found out about his affair.

2007-01-14 09:17:52 · 8 answers · asked by dƒ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy since March 2006 and I really like him, I am actually pretty crazy about him, he has been the only man who has not used me for all kinds of reasons, I have some really abusive relationships and have had my heart really broken. But lately I have met this older man, and the thoughts of cheating on my man, and being with this other man, are driving me nuts. The new guy makes me forget I have a man, and although I have not done anything yet, I am pretty sure I am going to end up doing it. WHAT DO I DO?? I do not wanna break my boyfriends heart, but I have this itch I have to scratch. And it is not like I can get rid of this other guy, he is my best friends roommate, he is everywhere I go! How can I control myself, from loosing a man who truly loves me???

2007-01-14 09:17:40 · 8 answers · asked by ali_cosani 2 in Singles & Dating

i am fed up with her now.....i mean she is very nice and sweet and funny and everything.....but shes just so bad at giving head. its her birthday tomorrow it seems a bit mean to do it tomorrow but i can see no other way. i need some satisfactory head. please advise????

2007-01-14 09:17:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 09:17:09 · 6 answers · asked by luv2syd 2 in Weddings

a guy i dated ill call duke,for a year promised to stop drinking. he was always needing to have a couple of beers. I came out of an abusive situation where an exhusband, i'll call randy, would drink and pound on me, so i didn't want to be around a drinker. I left duke on christmas day and today he sends a message that he is working alot so he doesn't have to think and that yes he is still drinking and that he is sorry someone elses drinking caused me so much pain. he said that he is thru with me because i wont stay around for any holiday. I say i can't stand the drinking. dukes intire family including kids have alcoholic problems. was i right to get out. he had real anger management problems even when he wasn't drinking.

2007-01-14 09:16:59 · 1 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend told me that he is attracted to turtles like the animal. Im concerned that this is not normal and he may be taking it to far. He said that he would rather rape 10 separate turtles than rape one turtle ten times. It totally came out of nowhere I mean we were just sitting eating a subway sandwich and he tells me this. What do you think I should do? Are there authorities that you can report something like this to?

2007-01-14 09:16:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-14 09:16:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He can be really sweet then he'll be really aweful...He gave me some false number once and he'll flirt with other girls and all that...We're not dating or anything but it still hurts..after he's so mean he'll call and be super sweet. What do I do I care about him but sometimes his cons outweigh his pros?

2007-01-14 09:16:14 · 5 answers · asked by Future Mrs. Urie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 09:15:48 · 24 answers · asked by ♥ariel♥ish♥ness♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

My Husbands best friend just admited to me that he loves me, I like the guy, and my husband and I are having lot's of problems, what the h.e.ll should I do?

2007-01-14 09:15:43 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Does he feel guilty for dumping me & wanted to feel better by taking me out or did he miss me & wanna be friends? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends?

2007-01-14 09:15:33 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I see couples and it makes me sad sometimes. Part of it is that I have no self confidence and am extremely shy. I really want a bf and ya.. i just don't see it happening =/ Any good avise.. or ANYTHING? Here's my myspace. http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=7136305
I know I'm not pretty or anyhting.. but ya.. any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

2007-01-14 09:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by AARrox 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfreind will have been going out for 2 years this march 4th, 2007.

it scares me because i still love him so much and i feel like telling him just doesnt do justice.

how do i keep our relationship alive like when it was when we first started going out?

i feel like we just throw around the words 'i love you' as if it will justify everything.

can someone offer some words of wisdom/experience?

2007-01-14 09:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by carly m 2 in Singles & Dating

First date:
1) Art museum, followed by D&B (restaurant/arcade), then comedy club.

Second date:
I want to take her to a Japanese steakhouse
Then, I can't decide on whether we should go see a broadway play (like Wicked or Rent) or a sporting event...she likes sports

Any ideas? suggestions...much appreciated, thanks!

2007-01-14 09:13:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my bf and i had a stupid fight before he left on a skiing trip with some friends. i went to his work to tell him goodbye but he ignored me so i just left. he called me that night saying sorry and i pretty much said whatever and hung up. then he called me in the morning before he left and told me that he had no minutes on his phone and asked me to please call him when i got off work. well i called him and he didnt answer. and he texted me from a friends phone and said he missed me and to please call him. well i havent called him because im still kind of mad at him. he'll be home in 3 days. and i REALLY want to call him but im not. im not sure why.. i guess i just want him to miss me. i know it sounds dumb. but today was our one year anniversary (dating wise) and im kind of mad he missed it to go skiing.
should i just call him?
do i have a reason to be mad at him?

2007-01-14 09:12:55 · 10 answers · asked by vanessa w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 09:12:50 · 13 answers · asked by deepti p 1 in Family

Okay there is this girl and yes shes over weight, not so much where you cant put your arms around her she's got a belly though. She dresses nice, funny, smart, perfect smile, blue eyes and you live in cali. Would you like her or even date her? Why or why not?

2007-01-14 09:12:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am dating this guy for 3 weeks and he's really nice to me. I want to get something for his Birthday but I have no idea what can be the best gift for a guy you are just dating?????Nothing too much or too less :)

2007-01-14 09:12:36 · 2 answers · asked by ELK 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 09:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by the_dark_angel_of_death0123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

actually no i don't have a private personal issue
but while your still here can you answer this question
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what do you think about the Apple iPhone ?
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2007-01-14 09:11:58 · 10 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

If someone says they have been out partying, how many of you would assume that they have been out getting drunk?

2007-01-14 09:10:58 · 10 answers · asked by jenchell1994 3 in Marriage & Divorce

right i have been with this guy for six months, sex is crap...he doesnt talk AT all. He crys leaves me loads of voice mails crying if i dont call him etc etc...I broke up with him 3months ago for 3mnts he went to my worst ex-friends house who has caused me lots of problems in my house to listen to gossip and talk about me for his own selfish needs i guess i dont understand that one...we used to argue as we would b out and he would stress he needs to go home 2 call his mom 2say goodnight at like1130pm i use 2 moan and say this isn't normal..i pick up d house phone (we lived 2gether) and his mom would like have 20 voicemails on there saying where are you..then call again saying i called you 15mins ago where are you dont you love me no more!!!!???? it freaked me out LOTS...im just trying give a little history so you can answer my ? so anyway he stalked me 4 like 3mnths...werid again..i got back wid him at new yr..said ill give it one more try he said he knew he need work on talk to me

2007-01-14 09:10:32 · 29 answers · asked by MissTee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy that I really like. He is the nicest, sweetest person I have ever met. I think he might know that I am crushing on him, but I don't know if he feels the same way. We do talk to each other, but I am extremely shy and would never have the guts to tell him directly that I like him. What do you think I should do?

2007-01-14 09:10:14 · 37 answers · asked by Jovigrl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months and its a long distance relationship. We spend hours on the phone and I go and see her at least once a month.But everyday she asks me "Do you love Me?"

What Up with that? How many hours in the day do I have to devote to her for her to get it?

2007-01-14 09:10:11 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa m 1 in Singles & Dating