There's this guy that I really like. He is the nicest, sweetest person I have ever met. I think he might know that I am crushing on him, but I don't know if he feels the same way. We do talk to each other, but I am extremely shy and would never have the guts to tell him directly that I like him. What do you think I should do?
2007-01-14 09:10:14 · 37 answers · asked by Jovigrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him a short hand-written note alluding to your feelings and asking him how he feels. If he is as nice as you think he is he should have no problem making you feel special.
P.S. I apologize for "White.Devil's" comment above. He is clearly a moron and not even worthy of note. Too bad you can't deduct 10 points for his sorry pathetic response.
2007-01-14 09:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Engineer Guy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
IF your too shy to tell him directly then write a letter. Sometimes no matter how much we show in body language (smiling, looking into his eyes, being really flirty) that we like the guy, the guy always seems so slow in picking up the hints and this sort of thing would go on forever. So i suggest just writing him a note expressing your deepest feelings for him, give him the note when nobody that he knows is around or you know so its just the 2 of you and let him read while you see him or stand near by somewhere so you know forsure hes reading it only in a clear concionse and not with a bunch of other peoples input on what they feel on the situation. Be calm, smile be polite.
best of wishes kesha.
2007-01-14 09:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy is becoming more and more of an excuse...I'm guessing that you just don't know how to approach the subject. The BEST thing for you to do is talk to him, ask him to hang out or something, invite him to go to see a movie, etc. and see where it goes from there. I have a friend who is "shy" and has problems initiating the 'first date' and stuff. (And as funny/stupid as this sounds...)She went to a local bookstore and picked up The Complete Idiots Guide to Dating. She felt kinda dumb about buying it but it really has helped build her confidence and feeling more comfortable about initiating the first move.
2007-01-14 09:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl I know how you feel. My dad and I are extremely shy, my dad says its a curse and you are the only person who can ever make the curse go away. Tell the guy how you feel, i know it will be hard but you will feel so much better afterwards. Don't just blurt it out, hang with him privately and say what you feel. I hopethis helps, good luck!
2007-01-14 09:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your too shy to tell him, write him a letter and explaining to him how you feel about him. ANd if he feels the same about you he will tell you. AND make sure it's in an envelope so in case you drop it and somebody else picks it up can't read it. But be carefull because what's going to happen if he doesn't feel the same about you. SO good luck.
2007-01-14 09:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me when I say to you that there is nothing more expensive in this life than regret. If we must look back with some displeasure it is FAR easier to live with the things we did than the things we failed to do.
What I am saying is, if he is as nice as you say, he may be too shy to approach you. He may be incredibly relieved if you made the first move. If it turns out that I'm wrong then I have to trust that someone sweet enough to catch your attention would have the social presence to honor your approach.
As hard as it may be when you're young, life yields its greatest rewards for those who are willing to go take them.
2007-01-14 09:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this happens to every girl. If you are shy just leave hints but if you don't really mind asking him and don't mind what he will say just say to him. I was just wanting to make sure of something, Do you like me? . Whether its over IM , Text or to his face you decide. Otherwise what ever will be will fall into place.
Goodluck !
2007-01-14 09:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by missdramatick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a playful kinda flirter. Ask him to rate you on a scale of 1-10 of niceness & prettyness & then say well your around a 10.5 and wink ;) then say your a really cool guy we should soo hang out? is saturdayy good? ♥ it will work :) trust me from manyyy experiences
2007-01-14 09:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Chevy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and hang out with him more and more until eventually u will have those guts. And ask him out. But u won't have to do that if he asks u out first. But i'm still not sure whether that's the answer to ur question. u weren't very specific.
2007-01-14 09:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by Produh G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation. but im wondering r we talking about the same guy? cuz if we are i will send chinesedolleating rabbits after u and depressing gnomes wil depress u and u will cry 4 the rest of ur life. and then the easter bunny will come and give u poisoned chocolate bunnies. we better not be talking about the same guy...
2007-01-14 09:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by gimmealsliceo'[jennypie] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋