My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Does he feel guilty for dumping me & wanted to feel better by taking me out or did he miss me & wanna be friends? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends?
2007-01-14 09:15:33 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is he still attracted to me if he wants to hang out even as friends? He's 26 in grad school while I'm 21 & finishing university.
2007-01-14 09:16:20 · update #1
you are just that good. he still wants you
2007-01-14 09:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you guys only went out for a month, I would say he just wants to be friends.There was a reason you guys got together in the first place, he liked your company. But there is also a reason that you broke up. Maybe you were not the type of person he is looking for in a relationship but enjoys hanging out with you.
2007-01-14 09:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by sproutsmomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THere are many possibilities. If he is single he might have been lonely, and wanted to see someone comfortable. He might still have feelings for you, maybe not. There is no problem in asking him out for coffee. Go out with him, talk to him. If you ask he will probably tell you how he feels. Unless he is a nice guy I doubt he felt bad for you. Since it has been a year. Maybe though. Proabably just wanted your company:)
2007-01-14 09:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by michael b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still loves you either that or he wants to sex you up
2007-01-14 10:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has future endeavors....
2007-01-14 09:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your easy
2007-01-14 09:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by 12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's horny.
2007-01-14 09:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋