My fiance who is still married to a wife as the divorce is taking forever is going to Costa Rica to his daughters wedding, this daughter is by his first marriage. I have been excluded by him as he has made it that way. However the wife he is married to at the moment is going yet it is not her daughter but is going anyway and has not been told not to. She has verbally abused me over the phone and my fiance will not stand up to her over the sitation I feel very hurt and he just tells me not to be worried, but I am as I know what this woman is like exceptionally pushy and demanding my fiance who is 20 years older than me cannot stand up to her I dont know what to do and feel very down and hurt over the whole sitauation I never realised that he would put me through this what can I do
2007-01-14 09:18:59 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let him go find another chap asap nearer to your age and with your thoughts at heart
2007-01-14 09:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by saintyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend like he said don't worry i tell you what to do, get yourself a real nice dress (where all eye's are on you) Smile! Next get your hair done in a style that he has Never seen! Smile just make yourself so Beautiful that they'll think your the one getting married about her Speak with a Smile cause you Look Damn Good. If she wants to go there at the wedding your to much of a Lady to trip but in a nice way let her know I'm not threatened by you he might be scared of you but as you can see ALL EYE'S ON ME(Smile) and walk away. Find you a crowed to mingle with and smile at everyone whatever you do don't let them see you sweat(Smile) by your happy self. Good Luck
2007-01-14 09:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by deezbrats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he really respects you and he needs to especially if you have told him how you feel about it. Did they exclude from the wedding or was it just him? He sounds very suspicious! I think he may have something else going on or wants something else to go on while he's there and don't want you there. Be very careful he seems shady.
2007-01-14 09:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You reap what you sow... He's having a blast in Cost Rica with his wife and family. Leave him the h*ll alone. If he wanted to be with you he would have taken you. Not only is he a cheater, he's a coward too... but maybe he just loves his wife.... LOL
2007-01-14 09:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let the rat go he doesnt want you thats for sure hes going with his WIFEand its not her daughter enough said take all our ADVICE and when he comes back =========DUMP HIM on the spot good==================luck
2007-01-14 11:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a nice SINGLE man who will properly appreciate you and defend your honor and dignity.
2007-01-14 09:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about him and look elsewhere
2007-01-14 20:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by The tagg master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want you in his life
2007-01-14 09:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by Pebbles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋