I have been dating this guy since March 2006 and I really like him, I am actually pretty crazy about him, he has been the only man who has not used me for all kinds of reasons, I have some really abusive relationships and have had my heart really broken. But lately I have met this older man, and the thoughts of cheating on my man, and being with this other man, are driving me nuts. The new guy makes me forget I have a man, and although I have not done anything yet, I am pretty sure I am going to end up doing it. WHAT DO I DO?? I do not wanna break my boyfriends heart, but I have this itch I have to scratch. And it is not like I can get rid of this other guy, he is my best friends roommate, he is everywhere I go! How can I control myself, from loosing a man who truly loves me???
2007-01-14 09:17:40 · 8 answers · asked by ali_cosani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hello, you need too think about how you felt when your heart was broken do you want your boyfriend too feel that hurt ??
Sounds too me that you are missing something in this relationship with your boyfriend so you need too found out what it is are sit down & tell him it's over cause you are lusting over someone else alway's honesty in a relationship because if not you have nothing anyway Honesty, trust , love all comes first in a relationship & if any of these are missing then it will never work . Also the grass is never greeener on the other side like you think it is . Most women or girls alway's have a tendency too seek out at sometime or another the wild men or boys why who knows but we do but if you really love your boyfreind you need too let the other man stay just in your mind only . Think of it like this you treat other people how you want them too treat you & that goes for ur boyfreind or anyone & everyone .Good Luck
2007-01-14 09:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by sweettexasangel12001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You'll be sorry. It's just lust. Lust passes, like a crush. Maybe you're missing the lust in your relationship. Every time you think of having an affair, think of your boyfriend's face and what it will look like when he finds out. If you can't stay faithful, break up. Or, imagine your boyfriend doing the same thing to you. You okay with that? The grass is not greener on the other side, just a different shade.
2007-01-14 09:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
under no circumstances cheat on her - it is going to in trouble-free words make element worse. in case you do not love her, chop up which includes her. It exceeded off earlier you've been relationship. So, she did not cheat. search for suggestion from her, and say it truly is not any longer your fault 'reason u have not a lot adventure. in case you cheat on her and he or she would not study it, it's going to make no distinction and also you may sense undesirable. If she DOES locate out, it's going to be over for you 2. do not act like a baby and quit desiring a revenge, it truly is immature and could no longer provide some thing to you. Take it like a guy, compared to a toddler. it is going to deliver you no longer some thing, believe me.
2016-10-31 02:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down & talk to your boyfriend....heart-2-heart. Tell him how you're really feeling inside. And tell him the TRUTH!!! I've been in this situation before. It does hurt...A LOT!!! But, you've got to do the right thing. Don't go behind his back, because you will do more damage than good. If he really loves you, he will understand. Tell your boyfriend that you want a little time to think about things. Also, talk to the other guy---BUT, not until you talk to your boyfriend. Tell the other guy how you feel about him. There's a chance that the other guy isn't really what you want.
Good Luck!
2007-01-14 09:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't cheat, because all what you have been through in your other relationships has made you the person that you are today.
you have been dating this man that has been good for you, somewhere inside you, you want to ruin it with him..cause you don't understand or believe '' you have the real thing'' there is a future with this man, see what happens..just don't cheat, your better than that.
you can control more than you think.
All the best.
2007-01-14 09:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your pass relationships first. Do you want to hurt your man? Is it really woth it to risk and/or loose everything?
2007-01-14 09:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by wish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are evidently searching for something that you don't have in your current relationship. Don't be hasty in making a decision.
2007-01-14 09:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont, you are on self destruct and It will happen no matter what advice anyone gives you.
2007-01-14 09:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋