He can be really sweet then he'll be really aweful...He gave me some false number once and he'll flirt with other girls and all that...We're not dating or anything but it still hurts..after he's so mean he'll call and be super sweet. What do I do I care about him but sometimes his cons outweigh his pros?
2007-01-14 09:16:14 · 5 answers · asked by Future Mrs. Urie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, my suggestion is to keep a scorecard. See what really outweighs what. Either tell him to straighten out his act or you will straighten him out with a baseball bat.
2007-01-14 09:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Erica R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bigger question might be "why would you choose to love someone who is an ***?" We all deserve to love someone who loves us in return, wholly and unconditionally. Do you look at yourself and know, deeply and truly, that you are a WORTHY person who DESERVES to be treated well, with respect and kindness and consideration? If not, it's time to do some "self-work" on your feelings of self-worth!
You won't get better if you don't demand better for yourself. So ask why you're willing to settle for a "sometimes sweet" jerk, instead of being alone long enough to figure out who you are and waiting for someone who's a "sometimes jerky" sweetie?
2007-01-14 09:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by zoni_tonya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with your gut if you feel madly in love with him ask him out for a casual date or something but if your feel its just going to be a fling go fishing maybe you'll get the right fish this time!
2007-01-14 09:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by tay h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone!!!!
2007-01-14 09:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him.... n
2007-01-14 09:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋