Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

2007-01-14 00:49:35 · 4 answers · asked by Thomas G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i went out with this guy for 3 weeks and i broke up with him friday because, i was at my locker getting my stuff for next class when he came around my locker as usual but this time he didn't come over to talk to me,instead he went to chat with these group of girls that's right next to my locker and i heard him chatting with him. at 1st i didn't think nothing of it untill he put his arm around this one girl and i guest he accidently *shocked* her and she's like "ouch you shocked me" and his response was "you know what that means right, that means we belong together" and this is when i got mad and walked away. later he came to talk to me and that's when i said "f**k it we're done".some of my friends say that i over reacted, but i don't think i did...i just don't like being disrespected and that's what he did to me, right to my face. do you guys think i over reacted or not?

2007-01-14 00:46:58 · 20 answers · asked by Gorgeous 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 00:45:08 · 12 answers · asked by Tarek D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 00:44:49 · 18 answers · asked by john t 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife told me 2 months ago that she wanted a divorce, things were getting ugly, both of us saw attorneys, it was really bad. This past Sunday, she came to me and said she was sorry and we started the healing process. There has been numerous physical encounters this week from hugging, kissing, to some of the greatest sex ever. We are going to a Strong Bonds Marriage Retreat in a couple weeks. Everything seemed to be going smooth until she came home from work last night. She said that what has happened this week was foolish and she shouldn't have done it. Says that things are moving too fast.
My question is what is the right pace to reconcile? What do I do, and what do I not do? I'm willing to do whatever it takes to make this work. It's all in her head, her heart is still in love, but her mind keeps overriding those feelings.

2007-01-14 00:42:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been told that when kids spends time at other parents i legally dont have to send them with anything,such as supplying there milk, nappies etc clothes etc etc is this true or not?? ex has never paid a penny toward costs of bringing them up, what i get a week for myself n 3 kids he makes in one day at work,so why should i still be paying all the time

2007-01-14 00:41:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you had a choice between True Love or Security which would you choose

2007-01-14 00:39:24 · 23 answers · asked by john t 4 in Singles & Dating

They are actually my room mates we sometimes share but when it comes to money matters (borrowing) I'm limited. While they themselves share or borrow however they can. They share common ideas also thesame as with me but not counting me in. They know ilike it too but they dont ask me if I wanted thier help to get it but they help each others. But it seems they are trying to be nice with me but I feel internally there is something lacking.

2007-01-14 00:38:12 · 6 answers · asked by francois 1 in Friends

2007-01-14 00:35:03 · 14 answers · asked by steve 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she must be muslem and single and very kind and drea about stapilty happy family

2007-01-14 00:34:32 · 9 answers · asked by wagih g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 00:33:17 · 2 answers · asked by amoooora 1 in Singles & Dating

To You women does size matter? or can you be satasfied with a small worm

2007-01-14 00:32:49 · 9 answers · asked by john t 4 in Singles & Dating

It's gonna be our wedding next week and my fiance continues to piss me off. When I am pissed off by him, he doesn't know why. I would just keep quiet and choose not to talk but we are together so he notices I am pissed off. He would force me to talk and tell him what's wrong. Honestly I wouldn't want to talk to him and look at him but he gets mad at me and would not talk to me anymore, too, so I am threatened he would do it. His relatives would notice we're not talking and they would tell me to talk to him. But I don't want to...it's been like this since last month...dang!!! This guy doesn't know what I am going through...how do I deal with it? Please help me...

2007-01-14 00:30:23 · 20 answers · asked by SHEMH 4 in Weddings

hi i have just joined the gym and have fallen for my gym instructer and now am stuck i have a boyfriend i dont know anything about him what should i do?
thank you

2007-01-14 00:30:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to get married now, I don't know why I want it to happen right now. We set a date in August but I want it in February. Should I just wait or tell my love I want it now?

2007-01-14 00:29:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how well do cancer and pices relationships work?how do cancer and capricorns relationship work?

2007-01-14 00:28:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i get my mum for her birthday.im 14 and i love my mum sooooo much she does everything for me.i dont have a lot of money but want to get her something really spesh.does anyone have any ideas there are usually some good stuff on ebay but that means it would be second hand and i would have to use her credit card.i have thought of brekfast in bed and realised a bhouse on fire isnt really a gr8 birthday present.either post answers here or email me @ becky_liken@hotmail.com thanx xx

2007-01-14 00:27:42 · 15 answers · asked by beccy 2 in Family

2007-01-14 00:27:40 · 9 answers · asked by elshpac2005 1 in Singles & Dating

It's gonna be our wedding next week and my fiance continues to piss me off. When I am pissed off by him, he doesn't know why. I would just keep quiet and choose not to talk but we are together so he notices I am pissed off. He would force me to talk and tell him what's wrong. Honestly I wouldn't want to talk to him and look at him but he gets mad at me and would not talk to me anymore, too, so I am threatened he would do it. His relatives would notice we're not talking and they would tell me to talk to him. But I don't want to...it's been like this since last month...dang!!! This guy doesn't know what I am going though...how do I deal with it? Please help me...

2007-01-14 00:27:40 · 19 answers · asked by SHEMH 4 in Weddings

hi, i'm 25 and i just broke up with my ex bf who was mentally abusing me. recently, i got to know a guy and he likd me as wellbut i told him i can't fall for him now since i'm on my recovery stage and i didn't feel like having a friend. he said he'll wait for me till i recover.past 2 days, he's been quite rude to me and saying tht he's expressing his love but i'm just like a "stone". i told him we can be frens and get ot know each other 1st but he wants to get into a r/shp.shud i have just said YES to avoid him from breaking up with me?i can' t take the pain of my break up from my ex and now this guy is saying he wants to end our friendship coz he said i'm so ego and i dont want to accept his proposal. i am confused and in pain.can't even concentrate in my studies.

2007-01-14 00:27:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, there is this guy named jonathan, all of my friends and his friends say he likes me, but im not sure. recently, ive been noticing things he does to me and for me. here are some of the things.
1. he likes to touch me, grabbing my shoulder, touching my arm, and putting his arms around me, sometimes.
2. he is always really nice to me. one time, after gym he runs up to me and puts both of his hands on my shoulders and said to me, you were awesome today!
3. after band (i play saxophone, and he plays trumpet and he sits directly behind me) he always ALWAYS waits for me, even for no reason. one time i had to wait an extra 5 minutes and he waited for me, even tho he was late to his next class. he invited me to a church event, and a some other events. he always looks at me, and stares at me. i think i might like him to. i see him tonight again at 6. wat should i do to tell him that i like him to? and do you think he likes me?

2007-01-14 00:25:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 00:24:43 · 16 answers · asked by junior 1 in Singles & Dating

The man may not tell me the truth, so how can I prove it if he claims that?

Am planning on a date with him.

Girls first, boys answer next.

Thanks

2007-01-14 00:23:38 · 20 answers · asked by Gilbert M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-14 00:22:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When all you had to worry about was pimples or the guy/gal you had a crush in?

2007-01-14 00:21:37 · 21 answers · asked by peet_henry 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 00:19:17 · 5 answers · asked by Murray 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you think it would be a good idea to send these women to a specified place where they could all be nurotic, bad tempered, snappy and emotional together and maybe have another seperate place where their partners/husbands could all go and watch sports, have a great laugh and get drunk together until the missus has regained her normal state of mind?

2007-01-14 00:17:43 · 17 answers · asked by Mr Tripod 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This woman I've been fancying went away to her own country during the Christmas and New Year holiday, because her husband's working there. She sent a postcard to my house when she's abroad, telling us that she's with her husband at that moment. Don't know why she did this! Now she's back because her daughter's school term starts. She bought my kids some magnets from her country. Does it mean anything?

2007-01-14 00:17:33 · 16 answers · asked by owen 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 00:16:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex broke up with me 3months ago, it was my fault i was needy, she wanted to stay freinds i treid to win her back many times i rang her and told her how feel...eventually i got over that,, so as soon as i stopped calling her ,she started calling me, and staying on the phone for ages i just kept cool i didnt mention anything bout love or anything.. then she asked me to go for a drink with her so idid we ended up in a club and she was really flirty with me, kissing my neck holding my hand n stuff the next day she said she just wants to be freinds, a week later(new years eve) i was out in a bar she was there too. iwalked outside for a smoked and i saw her kissin another guy then she saw me and she stopped kissing him, i didnt talk to her for a few days even though she was txtin me saying sorry n trying to call me... i got over that, i called her and said sorry for over reacting, i esaid i cant stop you, she said sorry for hurting me.. she said can we start over as freinds... i said i need time to think, i txted her the next day and said i still care bout you n id rather have you as a freind than have you as nothing, she txt back, saying that i cant be her freind and not be her freind whenever i feel like it, i just said fair enough, an hour later she called she sounded like she was crying and she was saying sorry for giving out to me.. i said its ok, so we are just freinds now, but if she really wants to stay freinds, y does she txt me, e mail me, call me everying day????
what do you think??
i went to the local bar last night with my freind, and she was there... i saw her first and when she saw me she started dancing(so fake) so i went into the other side of the bar... 2 mins later she came in with her freinds, she was acting really annoying, she came over to me and said hi, i jus said hay hows it goin, and turned back to talk to my freind, for the rest of the night she stayed around the area i was in, she kept comming over to me and falling into me and putting her hand on my leg when she was talking to me.. then she sat down at a table eall on her own with a sad face which was clearly in my view.. she was mad for my attention even my freind said it was so ovious! what do you think about my ex?? do you think she really just wants to be freinds or do you think she could still want me?

2007-01-14 00:16:45 · 11 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Singles & Dating