They are actually my room mates we sometimes share but when it comes to money matters (borrowing) I'm limited. While they themselves share or borrow however they can. They share common ideas also thesame as with me but not counting me in. They know ilike it too but they dont ask me if I wanted thier help to get it but they help each others. But it seems they are trying to be nice with me but I feel internally there is something lacking.
2007-01-14 00:38:12 · 6 answers · asked by francois 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, they are really not the true friends of you and I think they dont wanna mess with you so they just keep themelves to be nice with you.
2007-01-14 00:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by koRngear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know how you feel. You've been given a brain, a mouth, and a heart, so why don't use them? At times like that, you must step up and let them know that you don't like how they treat you.
You can analyze their answer.
If they say, "No, I treat you as my friend, you're just the same as us". It means they lie.
When they say, "Oh, my. Sorry, I don't realize that you feel that way". It means that they don't realize that you're unhappy, but now they know, and they will try to repent that. However, if there are no improvement in their attitude toward you... well, you know what it means.
2007-01-14 00:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by Shaka Mahottama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know,in life if you come out with one true friend,thats really all you can ask for.Maybe they have been friends longer or maybe they just have more of the same interest.Dont let it bother you too much,after all they are primarily there to help with rent.Everybody cant like everybody.Its ok.
2007-01-14 00:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by GranGran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your constant contact and interaction with them may remove your internal feeling of lackin g. keep doing it.
2007-01-14 00:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, right now im tryin to understand the question...well if u say that when it comes to money ur limited, then so be it...if the want to leave u out because of that, then maybe they really arent ur friends..maybe they just dont think ur that important...hey idunno, ask them, find out, have a talk buddy.
2007-01-14 00:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there just tryin to be nice to you so it dus'nt cause any awkward ness i wud talk to them and ask them face to face
2007-01-14 04:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by beth f 4 eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋