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This woman I've been fancying went away to her own country during the Christmas and New Year holiday, because her husband's working there. She sent a postcard to my house when she's abroad, telling us that she's with her husband at that moment. Don't know why she did this! Now she's back because her daughter's school term starts. She bought my kids some magnets from her country. Does it mean anything?

2007-01-14 00:17:33 · 16 answers · asked by owen 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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2007-01-14 00:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by dragonwithpurplepants 3 · 0 0

It would not matter if it did or if you fancy her. we can all fancy some from time to time it is human nature. However we have a choice as to whether we act on that attraction and there are too many marriage breakups these days because people think they are entitled to do what they please with no thought to the consequences. She is married to someone else. She was probably simply being friendly. Learn to take things at face value without looking for hidden motives and your life will be much simpler. If you are single yourself then find someone else who is.

2007-01-14 01:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by D B 6 · 0 0

To be honest i don't think her bringing magnets home for your kids means anything apart from friendship.
I know you like her but you have to remember she has a husband so even if she was to like you back she is still married.
I think in the future if you feel she is acting more friendly with you then you should speak to her about this and tell her she is sending you the wrong signals.
Think of your kids first, good luck xxx

2007-01-14 00:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0 0

She probably picked up on the fact that you are into her. She sent the card to remind you that she is married and she bought magnets for your fridge to also remind you that despite the circumstances, she feels fondness for you and wishes to keep a friendship going. Be careful not to read your own desires into her actions.

2007-01-14 00:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't ever cheat to your wife. You maybe fancying whoever that girl is but the thing is you are married too. She's just being nice at you and that's all. She might have done the same to her other male friends too. It does not mean anything unless she tells you outloud. Please do remember what goes around comes back around. lol

2007-01-14 00:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by Stresh 2 · 0 0

shes just trying to be friendly,
say thank you for all the presents and postcard and i hope you had a good holiday, then some work orientated small talk.

2007-01-14 00:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by jimbob 1 · 0 0

Hiya,
Maybe she is just looking for friendship while she is away from her husband, then again, she might want more than friendship, only she will know this, so see what happens, hope this is of help..xx..

2007-01-14 00:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by yessart1956 2 · 0 0

I would thank her for being so thoughtful about buying gifts for your children. Since she is married I think that she considers you as a good friend and leave it at that

2007-01-14 00:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0 0

maybe she is just being friendly. Stick to the family friend status for a while, when you see her say "it was nice of you to send me a card. good to know someone cares", as a joke.

2007-01-14 00:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0 0

I'm pretty sure shes just being friendly.
If shes married, you should try and keep your distance.

2007-01-14 02:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It means friendship. She has husband and she didn't lie you that she is a lone. But, you should ask her about that.
Good luck!

2007-01-14 00:31:54 · answer #11 · answered by Jamesbern 1 · 0 0

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