I want to get married now, I don't know why I want it to happen right now. We set a date in August but I want it in February. Should I just wait or tell my love I want it now?
2007-01-14 00:29:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
chill out, and relax good things come to those who wait!!!!!
2007-01-14 04:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your lover. It might be possible to move it up. August really isn't that long to wait though and you'll be together for the rest of your lives (hopefully) so it's not that big of a deal to wait (or even not to wait). I'm waiting for another year and a half.
2007-01-14 00:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated my now husband for seven years. I was ready so much earlier than he was. I waited, we just got married last August 13, 2006. It was worth it not to pressure him and to have him ready. I wouldn't want to marry someone who wasn't quite ready. August is a great month!
2007-01-14 00:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how come u set a date in August and u want now..u should discuss this date already with ur future husband.it should be a mutuel consentment?any way something bother u or ru afraid from something to feel this need to be married now?and if u want it now ,are u prepared to celebrate it so soon ,i mean did u finish all ur stuff?discuss this with ur man,and if he agree or see he dont mind to celebrate on february,so no problem.if no.take ur time my dear,and prepare urself to ur new life.good luck
2007-01-14 01:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by lulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd discuss it with him and see where he's at with it. If you're going to be married now or in August or whenever, the first thing you need to learn to do is discuss things. Start now!
2007-01-14 01:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're like me when I was 19.
I am now 33. It really depends on how long you have been dating.
Take this advice- don't get swept up in the "magic" of it all. Living together with someone is serious business.
And please, DISCUSS child-rearing and religion. The littlest of things that you disagree on now become the biggest of things later- NO JOKE.
2007-01-14 01:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by K H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel...you might be suprised he may want to skip the whole big wedding thing and just get it done. Odds are he will probably compromise but you will never know unless you ask him.
2007-01-14 00:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by dcforensics51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what it is you are asking. Marriage is a two way thing, this is the first delimas;of many to come tht you will have to seek advice or consult with your soon to be spouse/hubby. Go to him ask him what it is tht he wants to do...if he's comfortable with Aug. nothing to rush, you dont want to scare him
be blessed, go to God ask him
2007-01-14 00:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Beautynbeyond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to ur partner about it as the wedding is for both of you. write a list of pros and cons.
i dont think it matters when you get married as long as you are both happy.
2007-01-14 00:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would wait maybe he needs sometime to
enjoy the last part of him being single just relax it will happen soon enough
2007-01-14 01:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by john t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋