Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

2007-01-14 02:12:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Every time I try talking to him about our relationship, he gets frustrated and irritated.

I had a possible job offer 1000 miles away and an interview in the city we live in. I asked him what I should do about the jobs and about us.

He said that if I don't get the job close to him, I should take the job far away. Then in another breath he says he wants me close to him.

It seems that he is confused about us, and it confuses me even more. I asked him to open up aobut us, and the only thing he could say is "if it's meant to be, I want it to happen". I told him that's the meanest thing he has ever said to me.

Am I wasting my time? He acts like he cares and doesn't like me to be upset. He really tries with me by planning fun things to do, giving me affection and saying nice things to me. But when it comes to talking about us...he can't open up. I don't understand.

2007-01-14 02:11:47 · 13 answers · asked by torn 3 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-14 02:11:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my brother is 18 and he has sex extreamly loud. i want to tell him to quiten down but i dont want him to get imbarrassed. please give me some advice on what i should tell him !!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-14 02:11:24 · 4 answers · asked by the_heaven_dragon 1 in Singles & Dating

She told me she found farting a big turn on and asked me to go home with her.

Should I tell her it was the dog and not me ???

2007-01-14 02:10:20 · 26 answers · asked by William H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-14 02:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by samin shateri 1 in Friends

thats my name and i dont kno what it means!

2007-01-14 02:07:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Tell me some qualities of a good friend

2007-01-14 02:06:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Donna donna
you are like summer
life is never a bummer
sometimes i feel dumber
I am not a plumber
I am a lover
of Donna Donna

2007-01-14 02:06:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I took our daughter to see his parents for 10 days during Christmas. We had a horrible time and fought constantly due to his 2 year affair and us being separated. The tension was great and we did not get along well. We decided that we had enough and said we would get a divorce.

We returned home and didn't see each other for a couple of days. Then he came over on Friday and ended up spending the night 2 nights in a row (we are separated). We got along well and didn't mention the argument we had on vacation.

This week was kind of hectic but we got along fine. Then on Friday, he was supposed to be here, but he was out of town. Last night I went out with friends and he ended up watching our daughter at our house and spent the night.

He seems to be trying in a way by being here all the time, but he doesn't do anything to try to win me over. He doesn't buy flowers, etc, and he tinkers in the garage. What is going on with us?

2007-01-14 02:05:43 · 18 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In my twenties it never occured to me to get married life was all about work or somthing and I always saw myself as being a stable person before I got married i.e. regular income and finding a great guy. Last year I have been dating many guys and have not found the right person. At the sam time last year it has also occured that maybe my person is someone I have already met. A guy I knew at work who was the same age etc asked me out a couple of times and I was not interesed but indoing the dating game I missed hime actually because a) he was usually talking or concerned about me and not himself and he was definitely more grounded and definitely spot on about worldly matters. The problem is this is seven years ago at work where I have left. I really want to get in touch with him just to go on a date and see how it goes but he could be married and I feel really stupid phoning him up and asking years later. Is this right or should I leave it to destiny?

2007-01-14 02:05:24 · 21 answers · asked by Pandora 5 in Singles & Dating

theres this boy i like and he goes to my school. I talk to him on the computer but i cant seem to talk to him in person so i need some tips on how to talk to him !! PLEASE help me thanks

2007-01-14 02:03:49 · 10 answers · asked by wow!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 02:01:35 · 18 answers · asked by binayi 1 in Singles & Dating

Wonder if you making the right choices? Like im in that spot with my boyfriend we have been together for 4yrs now and he doesnt want to grow up. He want to move to vegas and I don't . We both have been like well maybe we should split bc things are just getting worse with us. Either of us are really that happy. We have a yr old baby together and He makes me feel gulity b/c he says if i dont move with him im taking the baby away from him. We fight and Argue a lot. The reason of not wanting to move is b/c he wants to get back into smoking pot and gambling. If he can't get a good paying job here, then how do i know he can get one there and be able to support me and the baby. ya know. I have a fear of what can happens if we move and split and his sister has money and would try taking the baby away from me. He wants me to move 1400 miles away from my family. I need some advice on what to do, what do you think is right. Do you think Im wrong in what im doing?

2007-01-14 02:00:30 · 11 answers · asked by Kristy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 02:00:01 · 18 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Weddings

See there is this guy in my class who laughs and makes fun of my face. Should I kill him?

2007-01-14 01:58:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is a doctor with a lot of student loans and credit card debt. Will I have to take on his debt or is it debt before the marriage which I am not responsible for? This is not a matter of love. This is a matter of if, God forbid, something happens to him, his debt is all on me. I do not have any outstanding loans or debt at all. I am just concerned that if things happen, I would be paying $120,000.00 in bills that I did not make. Please help.

2007-01-14 01:58:09 · 15 answers · asked by mecca2lux 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 01:57:51 · 3 answers · asked by Incredible 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 01:57:16 · 8 answers · asked by hala 1 in Family

why does this happen?

2007-01-14 01:56:28 · 23 answers · asked by Suriyah 2 in Singles & Dating

i cant stand my parents anymore.....i definetly cant stand my siblings, everything they say and do gets on my nerves! i dont feel like im happy or comfortable living with them...its a pain to wake up in the morning knowing that nothing new is going to happen, and if something does happen it isnt worth waking up for. I dont even want to study anymore.....this is my third year of college and theres definetly alot of work that im suppose to do. Its not that i dont understand my lessons because i do, its just that ive lost interest all of a sudden. nothing seems worth anything at all.....im sooooo bored i cant stand it

2007-01-14 01:56:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-14 01:55:18 · 13 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

I want to get my boyfriend a gift for our 2 month anniversery(im only 15 so dont be shocked) / valentines day. what should i get him? He is a big fan of chain link tennis bracelet things....im not sure the real name of them. but my only problem is that i only have 21$$ to spend on this gift. my mom MITE pay maybe....5 dollars but, not much. What and where can i get something for him? our anniversery is the 22nd.

2007-01-14 01:54:56 · 8 answers · asked by xgunsxgoxbangx69 1 in Singles & Dating

i was playing cards w/ my gf late last nite and we made a bet that if she lost i could decide and if i lost she could decide. well she wants me to dress like a girl for the whole weekend and go places w/ her. shes not sure what to make me wear or where to take me so she wanted me to ask here. Don't be too harsh.

2007-01-14 01:54:55 · 10 answers · asked by john deere 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well. . .my best friend broke up with his girlfriend about 2 months ago, and he's moved on I think but, I'm in love with his ex, and I don't know what to do, or how he'd react if he knew? Would he hit me? I mean its not like she broke up with him, which is why I don't know how he'd react if he knew. . .please help?

2007-01-14 01:52:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 01:52:05 · 4 answers · asked by Nghtygirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my husband is on tour right now in the Army, he has been gone now for 5 months he told me befor he left that he didn't want me to go out to the bars and I havent not even once I have stayed home. well my b-day is comming up and my mom and her sister ( My Aunt) wants to take me out to a bar for my b-day, I told my husband of this plan and he told me not to go in a very serious tone. Personaly i dont think that it is fare for me to stay home and be alone for my b-day, I have respected his wishes on this since he has been gone but I also Feel that its my b-day and its not like im going with the girls im going with my family so what do you guys think I should Do?

2007-01-14 01:50:43 · 31 answers · asked by mstycain 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 01:50:23 · 12 answers · asked by GHarold 1 in Weddings

ok me and my x i guess bffl nori were best friends for 4 years and all of a sudden this year she stats ditching me for cooler people and today i told her im going to go get bella and thats my name and i guess she got confuseds cuz i was talkin about my ipod and she thought i was my parents and then she gets all mad at me for no reason or bcuz of that i mean really how retarded is that!!! then i tell her i really dont think shes much of a friend anymore bcuz all she does is ditch me everyyday for her new "cool" freinds and we had a fight and my dad even addmitted it shes all i have... i felt like a loser what can i do!!!

2007-01-14 01:49:12 · 5 answers · asked by bella 1 in Friends

just a woman who know what the meaning of love and romance and marriage life and . no matter about her age .coz it's just a nuber for me ... im really seaching for a woman who need love and need 2 make a good family .

2007-01-14 01:47:47 · 13 answers · asked by Warm Candles 1 in Marriage & Divorce