ok me and my x i guess bffl nori were best friends for 4 years and all of a sudden this year she stats ditching me for cooler people and today i told her im going to go get bella and thats my name and i guess she got confuseds cuz i was talkin about my ipod and she thought i was my parents and then she gets all mad at me for no reason or bcuz of that i mean really how retarded is that!!! then i tell her i really dont think shes much of a friend anymore bcuz all she does is ditch me everyyday for her new "cool" freinds and we had a fight and my dad even addmitted it shes all i have... i felt like a loser what can i do!!!
2007-01-14 01:49:12 · 5 answers · asked by bella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok me and my x i guess bffl nori were best friends for 4 years and all of a sudden this year she stats ditching me for cooler people and today i told her im going to go get bella and thats my name and i guess she got confuseds cuz i was talkin about my ipod and she thought i was my parents and then she gets all mad at me for no reason or bcuz of that i mean really how retarded is that!!! then i tell her i really dont think shes much of a friend anymore bcuz all she does is ditch me everyyday for her new "cool" freinds and we had a fight and my dad even addmitted it shes all i have... i felt like a loser and now she KEEPS going on and on about sam L. who is really kool and keeps talking non stop about her to me oh my god shes geting annoying
2007-01-14 03:21:29 · update #1
she keeps talking about sam L THE coolest person in school and wont stop cuz shes like best friends with her and now shes talking about oither cool people she hangs around with... im triend not to care but its annoying!
2007-01-14 03:29:49 · update #2
If she is ditching you she is the one that should feel like a loser, not you. A true friend would not want you to feel left out. Im sorry but your dad is wrong to tell you that "she" is all you have.
Talk to your friend, dont argue with her or start a fight. Just tell her that your friendship means alot to you and you felt left out so it made you mad. Tell her your sorry for fighting with her, and that it is good that she is talking with other people but you hope that she knows that your there for her and you still want to be friends as well.
The next step is start doing things with some of your other friends. If you really arent around anyone else, now is a good time to start talking with other people and getting involved in activities that youd like to try.
Try to be friendly towards your friends new friends also. You keep your friends close and youre enemies closer. If they think and see you happy that is more of a burn to them cause you will come across cool and it will show them that they did not get the best of you. good luck!!
2007-01-14 02:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shoudl try to talk to her.... not online mind you. fights online can get vicious, tlak to her in person...or if you cant do that on the phone. just be like "did i do somethign wrong? i miss you being my friend" let her talk, and really listen to what she has to say... and most importantly dont judge her. and let her hang out with those other people,and dont force her into being you freind. she obviously isnt that great of one anyways. try to go out and make new friends.... join a club, play or sport. youre sure to meet people on there... so nori wont be your only friend. ive been in your position before, just give it time and most importantly be yourself.
2007-01-14 02:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by newyork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
similar right here. in case you somewhat thinks sh's a biatch then educate it. next time you witness her being a ***** say this " Why do not you stop being a phony and get a sensible each and everybody elese!"
2016-12-02 06:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by gnegy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont force anyone into friendship,if she wants to have other friends,then dont feel bad.enjoy your friendship with her.
2007-01-14 01:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need exercise-go for a long walk
2007-01-14 01:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋