Ok well. . .my best friend broke up with his girlfriend about 2 months ago, and he's moved on I think but, I'm in love with his ex, and I don't know what to do, or how he'd react if he knew? Would he hit me? I mean its not like she broke up with him, which is why I don't know how he'd react if he knew. . .please help?
2007-01-14 01:52:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rule number one of friendship---you don't pee in the same pool that you swim in. So if you don't want to be friends with him fine--go ahead. But, as far a he had planned it--he didn't want to be around her anymore------and now your going to bring her back in so you can be one happy group---lol, Your in love---really did that take a look, a kiss, and what point did it become lust. Face it--your in lust, you don't really even know who she is---and maybe doing this she can get back at him by breaking up your friendship---ever think of that?
2007-01-14 02:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by redrepair 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever betray your best friend. Talk to him, ask him how he feels about his ex girlfriend. If he doesnt really care for her anymore, ask him what he would think if you asked her out. A true best friend, can deal with the situation, without getting too upset.If, of course he has strong feeings for her, please back off. If your love for her is so real, and if she is feeling the same....your love may be worth more then your friendship. Think about why he broke up with her too....if he loved her and cared and wanted her, why is he not with her? It souonds to me, like everything will be ok.
2007-01-14 02:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are more women to date than your best friends ex. Unless you dont want him to be a ex best friend. How can you love this female ? I would assume that you like her(crush) but do act on it. Respect your friends feelings if you being his best friend dont know if he has moved on them he probably hasnt. What makes you think that she would date you she might respect him and herself and see you as a the person you really are uncaring for others.
2007-01-14 01:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, why put yourself in a potentially ugly situation? There are so many other gals around what is the sense of risking a friendship over some dolly? If I were him I'd be annoyed to say the least...what were you doing, just waiting for a prime moment to move in on me?
2007-01-14 01:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all does she have any feelings for you? Or do you just have a crush on her? How hot is she? And if he broke up with her......then what the heck is the difference??
2007-01-14 01:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by Carl P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him. b all like i was wonndering if it would b ok that i go out with your ex. if you dont want me to then i wont but she seems like a nice girl and id like to get to know her better
2007-01-14 01:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by make_way_4_the_last_king_of_may 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As he has already broken up with his girlfriend, he should have no objection at all. go ahead if you really like her.
2007-01-14 01:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are interested in her and have thiought about asking her out. don't ask him for his permission just tell him your intentions. If he is a good friend he will support it.. Good luck.
2007-01-14 01:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anne D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww uhm well u can ask him if he would care if u asked her out and if he says no DEFFINETLY dont do it if hes a real fiend of course...
2007-01-14 01:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GO FOR IT
2007-01-14 02:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋