In my twenties it never occured to me to get married life was all about work or somthing and I always saw myself as being a stable person before I got married i.e. regular income and finding a great guy. Last year I have been dating many guys and have not found the right person. At the sam time last year it has also occured that maybe my person is someone I have already met. A guy I knew at work who was the same age etc asked me out a couple of times and I was not interesed but indoing the dating game I missed hime actually because a) he was usually talking or concerned about me and not himself and he was definitely more grounded and definitely spot on about worldly matters. The problem is this is seven years ago at work where I have left. I really want to get in touch with him just to go on a date and see how it goes but he could be married and I feel really stupid phoning him up and asking years later. Is this right or should I leave it to destiny?
2007-01-14 02:05:24 · 21 answers · asked by Pandora 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ring him, that could be your destiny........
2007-01-14 02:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Alicat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's so tricky to find a decent man. I'm 28 & still looking. You have nothing to lose by trying to track him down. The easiest way is to look on www.friendsreunited.co.uk. You could find him by name, age and the company name you both worked. If he is married or attached then leave him be. If he is single, email him! Remember if he's single he will be in the same boat as you and will jump at a chance of a date with you! Go for it! Good luck!
2007-01-14 02:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you could do is if you know other people there, stop by and say hi to them. While you are there visit him as well. It looks like you are visiting old friends. While you are talking to him you can check the finger out or see if there are pics of family around. Comment if you do see a pic like saying "She is pretty. Is she your wife or something?" This leaves him to answer "yes" or "no, that happens to be my sister. Im not married yet." (or the dreaded "am married but that's not her.") At least you will know one way or the other. If he isnt, mention that it was nice seeing him and you guys should get together and catch up on old times. See what he says.
Good luck!
2007-01-14 02:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tina
This is difficult are you looking for love or a man that fits a criteria!
Wake up and smell the coffee!
If something was going to happen,it would have happened within the last seven years!I certainly would not have given up if it was true love.
There are lots of men who listen and are not selfish and there are a lot of men left on the shelf as well in exactly the same position as you.
Remember as you continue to seek you partner,there looks will fade ,however there true persona will not.
2007-01-18 00:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah sweetheart - give him a call if he is in a relationship at least u have tried, u never know he might want to get in touch with u but is having the same doubts.
Destiny? sorry to tell u this but u have to make thing happen for ur self. Call him what have u got to lose?
If that doesnt work have u thought of trying speed dating or a dating agency.
Good luck
2007-01-14 03:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call. He might be pining over you. Just ask what is new in his life. If there is no involvement with a specific partner, suggest meeting for lunch or something. You will never know until you try if this is the person for you.
2007-01-14 02:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm in making contact and ask how he is.
Just don't jump the gun, as like you said, he could be married or in a steady relationship and you don't want to make a fool of yourself.
If he is interested, he'll make an effort to return your call and you can take it from there.
Good luck.xx
2007-01-14 03:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL typical woman.
Act like a princess in your twentys and never gave the guy a proper chance now your in your thirties and no one wants to know you ,you'll accept anything that comes your way.
Moral-Dont be so stuck up when your younger.
2007-01-14 02:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in movies its always romantic if people call 7 years later (i.e. a lot like love). but in real life its... not the same...
2007-01-14 02:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by celine marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably settled down, leave him alone
chasing up old colleagues from years ago is just plain weird.
Face it love, you're on the shelf, go buy some cats
2007-01-14 02:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont hesitate. Go ahead and call him. Maybe he is still waiting for you.
2007-01-14 02:11:49 · answer #11 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋