Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

After our divorce my x got fired from a job he had for 15years. He utilized friends from my work to fenagle himself a job where I work. he works there full time and I work there part time. he now is some times my supervisor It may be petty but it really irritates me that he even works there let alone that they would let him be in a supervisory position. I want to seek revenge ie get him fired report his lazyness and incompetence but know that this will just come off as looking childish, My other supervisor says that I should just ignore him, but sometimes we are put in emergent situations in which we are required to communicate and cooperate in order to accomplish our job He acts as though this doesnot bother him in the least
any suggestions as to what I should do? just because I work part time doesn't mean I don't need the job and shouldn't mean that I have to take a backseat to him
the people I workfor are big into good ole boy policy's so his being a man gets him more.

2007-01-14 23:17:44 · 11 answers · asked by jumpingbea58 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been in a serious relationship for almost 5 years and have always loved him faithfully and with all my heart..But unfortunately,after researching via embassys etc, i can not marry him as there are so many problems to overcome which i can not resolve. he is under impression that we are getting married in march but i can not go through it and i dont know how to tell him.please reply with advice which will help me please, no silly replies bcos i really need help and cant handle it anymore.

2007-01-14 23:17:36 · 17 answers · asked by soft 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have a girl that is a virgen,gdly and religiose carater,but of a short stature?and not romantic and beauty to my tast
i also have a girl of not relegioce and not strong in religion as of the orther,she is not a virgen and she is just like every other normal person ,but she is roma ntic and sexy,and tall and beautiful,pls WHOSE ONE OF THE TWO GIRL SHOUL I CHOICE AS A WIFE ,PLS AM CONFUICE

2007-01-14 23:17:30 · 7 answers · asked by evangelist s 1 in Singles & Dating

Girlfriend of a couple of months told me that she had a few thresome's when she was 15 with a couple of guys. She was going through a rough patch with parents divorce and used drink, drugs and sex to get over it. It was along time ago(10 yrs), but i still feel weird about it. We have great sex but I have never tried a threesome. She also told me that she contracted herpes from a long term boyfriend a couple of years ago which has flared up due to the flu.

2007-01-14 23:17:29 · 6 answers · asked by Marky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

about dating they have to write a paragraph with a bunch of drama instead of keeping the question simple.

2007-01-14 23:15:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My problem is that my partner is a lovely man, until he drinks.
I have stopped going out because of this. I want to, but he wont drink coke and it is a downward spiral from there. He starts off with good intentions then gets another drink, then another and sometimes two at a time, then he buys a bottle of wine from the bar "to save money" so on until he gets hurtful to me and does not come home at times and is rude to be with. Tried all approaches such as him getting help at AA, he went once. He only drinks at wkends, but it ruins my sat/sun most weeks if we go out. Help please from people who know what I mean

2007-01-14 23:11:36 · 28 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Singles & Dating

plz help it all started a year ago me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 days HELP

2007-01-14 23:10:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a gal

2007-01-14 23:09:15 · 13 answers · asked by Black 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-14 23:07:44 · 7 answers · asked by date doctor MR. thala 1 in Friends

By giving more will the other half take the upper hand in a relationship? and will he/her appreciate

2007-01-14 23:07:19 · 14 answers · asked by WQ 1 in Singles & Dating

i never asked this before to anyone and i thought it would be a godo idea to ask and find out, im kinda shy, and i want a way that i can still have fun during sex, and not be shy.. sounds kinda weird but when i haev a guy "play" then it is easier to get off but, i wont do it to myself, how else can i get off, if i dont "play" if ya think im weird for askin im sorry btu i had to find out... can anyone help..if not its ok..oo and im nto much for toys, ill use em on my own time but not with a guy, I NEED TO GET LESS SHY AROUND GUY DURING SEX, LOL SOMEONE HELP ME OUT HERE!!!

2007-01-14 23:04:19 · 16 answers · asked by lil cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

My sisters husband keeps on pestering me for an affair.I have told him no .I dont want my sister to know coz shes not strong and might get depressed and might blame me when iam not after her husband.He often comes to see me with the permission of the wife who does not know why.I have so much respect for both of them.Threats to tell wife dont seem to mean anything to him.I live alone and think its not safe for me.Please help.

2007-01-14 23:04:16 · 22 answers · asked by jus-tus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 23:03:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tanu s

2007-01-14 23:03:12 · 11 answers · asked by tanu s 1 in Friends

My friend has set me up on this guy we met last weekend
and he made a date with me that he broke. This is because he went to a party the day before and was tired. He did not call to cancel so i was waiting not knowing what to do. I called my friend and she called my date. He said he was really sorry and he now got up. later i got a voice message and a tex message for him saying he was really sorry and he will call me later and hope that i will answer my phone. What do you think give him another shot?Or do you think that he just did it to please his friend and really is not interested at all?

2007-01-14 23:02:58 · 9 answers · asked by Ans 3 in Singles & Dating

There’s a guy where I work who I’m very attracted to. He’s around 35 and single. I’m 29. He gets nervous when I am near him and talks very fast and loud if I ask him a question. Yet he seems relaxed when he talks to other women. He always gives me a really lovely smile when I arrive each day, so long as I’m standing about 10-15 feet away. Recently, at a party for a co-worker’s birthday, he didn’t speak to me at all though I saw him out the corner of my eye, gradually moving from the other side of the room and heading towards the group I was talking with. He walked past our group a couple of times but didn’t join us. He said hi to a couple of people but didn’t look at me at all. I don’t want to come on too strong and scare him away, but I want to do something to get to know him better.

2007-01-14 23:01:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, they say they just want to sleep around, but they are more likely to have a lot more sex whilst in a relationship, then when they are "trying" (being the operative word) to **** anything with legs? Makes no sense to me.

2007-01-14 23:00:47 · 12 answers · asked by Gen 1 in Singles & Dating

im still inlove with my exhusband but i didnt accepted him the last time he wants to come back with me.we were separated now cause his a cheater and a lier.he hurted me so much thats why i told him enough between us.but still i love him..and now i admit to myself that i still need him and love hi.i made a letter for him telling how much i love him after all what he done to me cause i dont want to have regret in my life that i never be true to myself and its just make myself difficult not to admit for myself that i do love him.the reason wht i made a letter is just i dont want to have regret and atlist i accept the fact what my heart telling to him.even its too late atlist i said what i want to.and now i feels like lighter than before.its easy t say something to anyone than i dont care about him anymore but its hard to fool our selves..thanks for understanding me..god bless

2007-01-14 23:00:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents do not support me in this marriage, but I really love her and therefore want to marry through a court. I live in New Delhi. Can anyone PLEASE help me and give me details about what documents I will need and what are the process charges, the mode of payment, time required, and any other information that might prove helpful.

By giving this info, u will b helping me in making my life, so please help.

2007-01-14 23:00:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

with my boyf and to make myself feel more confident Iv changed my image a bit.

Now everyones askin me who have I got my eye on?
I havn't done this for everyone else Iv done it for me and it was long overdue!

My question is why cant people (usually men) just accept Iv done this for no-one apart from me?

2007-01-14 23:00:13 · 28 answers · asked by monkey-nuts 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 22:59:20 · 13 answers · asked by Gen 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 22:56:20 · 12 answers · asked by slyman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 22:55:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 22:55:23 · 31 answers · asked by all that jazz 3 in Singles & Dating

today , my gf checked my wallet , and she found a photo of me and my ex-gf. She then started to talked about it. I somehow felt angry cause i felt that she don't have faith on me. I then scolded her and now she ran away. I won't see me , she won't reply my sms , she won't answer my calls. I missed her , i don't even know what i should do now. I can't live without her......

What should i do now ?
or is there anyone i could chat with rite now ? < msn >
some temporary friends that could comfort me

2007-01-14 22:55:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

looking for people to chat with-i am new this computer thing so i need help ther,too.I work alot but am trying to get my life in order to start having some fun again

2007-01-14 22:55:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive tried letting my bf know that it is hurting me when he lies and says he doesnt have a party to do(dj) and turns around and do one. he gawks at women when we are together. he knows i cry and he just acts like nothing is wrong. ive been going thru this for 2 yrs. i love him and dont want to loose him but he also lies sometimes about where he is. so what do i do. he also does parties for his family. they called him one day to do a party and me and him was planning to do something and he just up and left me. im tired and want this to stop.

2007-01-14 22:53:57 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 22:52:11 · 3 answers · asked by nicole_elise88 1 in Family

everybody thinks we dont match...but hes so sweet and caring. i kinda like him but i also hav a long time crush wat shud i do??? help me!!!

2007-01-14 22:51:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

recently when i came home from college, I noticed that my mother had cleaned my entire room. When i thanked her for cleaning my room, she told me that she found a jar of vaseline under my bed. The next time you use this' make sure you lock your bedroom door. What the heck is she talking about???

2007-01-14 22:51:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating