im still inlove with my exhusband but i didnt accepted him the last time he wants to come back with me.we were separated now cause his a cheater and a lier.he hurted me so much thats why i told him enough between us.but still i love him..and now i admit to myself that i still need him and love hi.i made a letter for him telling how much i love him after all what he done to me cause i dont want to have regret in my life that i never be true to myself and its just make myself difficult not to admit for myself that i do love him.the reason wht i made a letter is just i dont want to have regret and atlist i accept the fact what my heart telling to him.even its too late atlist i said what i want to.and now i feels like lighter than before.its easy t say something to anyone than i dont care about him anymore but its hard to fool our selves..thanks for understanding me..god bless
2007-01-14 23:00:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wtf
2007-01-14 23:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by lilac. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though i'm 26 years old, i do know a lot about what you're going through because i've been there. It's hard to let go of your first love and you probably feel like i did that i'll never find someone as "good" as him, but honey you will it just takes patients. My mom always says "Good things come to those who wait" and you know what, I believe her. I believe god has a plan for us here in this life what, I don't know i can't figure it out. Anyways, be strong, I've found that excersising can be a great stress reliever and a great self esteem boost, plus if you go to a gym, Your chances of meeting people are great. I have 3children and and i thought no one would want to date me at this age with 3 kids, but i was wrong! Things will look up for you! Think about it it's a new year why not start a new you and get rid of the old! Nothing was your fault, He was just a pig!
2007-01-14 23:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by whitesel_rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you do still feel love for him and you may always have some feelings for him deep in your heart. At the same time, you have to look at the reality of how he treated you and how it made you feel. You said he was a liar and a cheat. Do you really want to spend your life like that? It was good that you got your feelings out. Just remember that just because you have feelings for someone doens't mean that they are the right person for you. Think long and hard about this and look at both the bad and good of your marriage. You deserve to be treated with love and respect by your husband and shouldn't have to put up with lying and cheating.
2007-01-14 23:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. You are up to your neck in love and lonliness.
Sister it is important to the rest of your life that you show yourself more respect.
He hurts you and you believe he is meant for you.
Be brae and try to hold out a little longer.
By throwing yourself at him he will feel more powerful in the relationship.
You are worth more than that.
I dont see any peace of mind to be gotten by continuing this relationship..sorry
God Bless you
2007-01-18 20:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BURN THE LETTER!!!! Girl, he is obviously so bad for you its not funny the heart wants what it wants but its time for the head to step in and throw some logic on the situation. he hurts you and cheats on you why do you want this in your life? you are worth more than that and deserve better in the end that letter will make you feel worse not better about yourself ad you will end up hating him in the end forgive him yes but don't forget what he did and do not allow this man back in your life
2007-01-14 23:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Natashya K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out more to help forget him a cheater will always be a cheater honestly you know he was sleeping with some body just before he read your letter be strong and discontiue conversion with him
2007-01-14 23:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he's a liar and a cheat, those were your words, I think you might be afraid to be out there on your own, trust me if he is what you say then go out and explore you deserve so one that is honest and someone who is loyal the man that was meant for you, don't ever just settle
2007-01-14 23:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a cheater if he did i once he will do it again, leave him alone move on with your life it will get better.
2007-01-14 23:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated and he lied.
And you want him back to cheat and lie more.
We can't help you if you accept that.
2007-01-14 23:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditto above - wtf?
2007-01-14 23:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋