Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

My best friend is dating a girl who although is probably nice has changed him a lot. he is slacking at work, messing up his divorce which is costing him money and neglecting his friends especially me. he wont see any of us without her around, and although he talks to me on the phone 3 or 4 times a week he has not seen me alone once in the last 6 months and only seen me 4 times during then with her. His personality has changed everyone has noticed, hes very happy though just unreliable and not a goo dfriend anymore. So much so when i got bad test results and he wld normally have come over to see if i was ok he didnt bother and didnt really seem to care which was hurtful. i have finally told him i need to talk to him alone and he is coming over tonight to talk.... what is everyones viewpoint - hes lost all his other friends they have moved on as have i but a part of me thinks i shld give him a chance to change or understand whats going on i think he is oblivious. hes a nice person .

2007-01-14 22:22:13 · 13 answers · asked by confused 2 in Friends

2007-01-14 22:22:11 · 6 answers · asked by SHUBHI J 1 in Singles & Dating

and why is she loose? And what kind of name is Lucy anyway?

2007-01-14 22:21:01 · 16 answers · asked by Lisa s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 22:20:54 · 18 answers · asked by imti 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy that I met (he's 21 and I'm 16) and when we met he was so sweet and helpful; the next day, however, when I said "Hey, aren't you the guy I met last night." He gave me this look of resentement. What is his deal, I like him and I think he's acting like a fool. Do you think he picked up on the fact I liked him and his way of rejecting me in the cold shoulder?

2007-01-14 22:20:12 · 10 answers · asked by surani_ud 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it so wrong for me to feel jealous, hurt, and angry? I feel like maybe it's not my right to be upset because they deserve to be happy and all...but then again, he knew about the feelings I had for her and how long I had had them...he didn't even ask me or tell me, I had to find out on my own. She also didn't seem to care that it was my best friend. Most of my closest friends are in an inner circle, and we've all remained friends for years even after graduating and going off to college, etc. However, I just can't be around this friend of mine and this girl he's dating I used to like...I get way too torn up inside. My friends feel like I'm abandoning them by not being around. They're trying to get me to "work things out" but I don't know how. I've tried to change the way I feel, I really have, but I just can't! Also, this friend of mine is probably going to get very mad at me now that I've told him just how I feel. Help?!

2007-01-14 22:17:07 · 7 answers · asked by The Doctor 3 in Friends

2007-01-14 22:16:06 · 9 answers · asked by Too shy to seek 1 in Singles & Dating

... had phone $ex with a stranger you met online?
And did you enjoy it? would you do it again?

2007-01-14 22:15:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 22:12:52 · 8 answers · asked by jono3528 1 in Family

2007-01-14 22:11:36 · 13 answers · asked by CB 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-14 22:10:35 · 21 answers · asked by karen. 4 in Singles & Dating

Have been friends for 5 years...

2007-01-14 22:09:15 · 15 answers · asked by harry p griff 1 in Friends

2007-01-14 22:08:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to email you as you suggested, you said you worked for abused childrens homes id really like your help but you're only listed as 'answerer 15', can you get back to me so that i can email u please? thank you very much xxxxxx

2007-01-14 22:08:07 · 5 answers · asked by Tiger18 2 in Family

I went to pune 4 some work.Dere i met a old frnd of mine[used to b d hunk of our school]. On 31st dec he gave me a present[a dress- it ws a micro mini n a sport bra size top, n asked to wear dat] .Den he took me to d disk,dere i ws drunk [i took it 4 d 1st time]........n when i woke up all his n mine cloths were on d floor n he ws sleepin with me in my blanket. He said he is sorry 4 what he did n wants 2 give our relationship a name.He tried everything 2 make me comfortable.He even told me dat he used 2 like me 4m our school days. Bt i ws really stressed out ,i dont know what happened 2 me n i had sex with him
now i hv some feelin 4 him bt cant 4get what he did
i really dont know what 2 do??
one thing more
my last period ws on 12th dec bt dis month my periods did came [my date is fix n dis is 4 d 1st time]
i am 22 n he is 23

2007-01-14 22:06:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

let's see what creative responses I get.

2007-01-14 22:05:57 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 22:05:46 · 20 answers · asked by I'msobored!! 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner asked me to live with him 3 years ago so I did, and now he tells me he loves me, I make him very happy, but that he needs more and wants me to leave!! His wife left him for another man and he still has feelings for her ( they were together 25 years), and wants someone like her (a professional person, private education, cambridge education, like my man) I tell him as long as we love each other and are happy what more is there? He says I'm different from his ex and so much better - so why does he want to go back to someone like that. His parents even say I make him happy and he looks so much happier. What more is there???

2007-01-14 22:02:39 · 25 answers · asked by blue_sapphire07 2 in Marriage & Divorce

some people on here give good honest answers and help alot but alot f people on here just try and make you feel paranoid or turn you agains people...why?????is it coz they are unhappy themselves or something...seriously think bout what u r doing before you give a stupid and pathetic answer.....

2007-01-14 22:02:28 · 13 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-14 22:01:26 · 10 answers · asked by running 1 in Singles & Dating

Can my girlfriend lack of wanting to have sex have something to do with her modeling, she is constantly online more now than before we moved in togther. She still love me but I would like to know that if she has her thoughts on finding modeling careers could this take her thought off of have sex with me. Also we have had sex in long time she doesnt want anyone else but me and I feel the same way after talking but she says she just doesnt get horny anymore like she use too. I have asked her about depression and I know she has alot of things she dislike about her body even though she her body is perfect, she isnt overweight and has a very nice shape, I mean she models but she doesnt see it every one tells her how beautiful she is all the time and how they want to get her shape, she has seeked help for depression but she doesnt know why she is depressed and the docs cant help her, she has taken meds for it but they done nothing for her. I just want to make her horny again and get her back

2007-01-14 21:58:39 · 16 answers · asked by Army soldier. 1 in Singles & Dating

LET ME KNOW ,PLS

2007-01-14 21:58:24 · 9 answers · asked by JENNY 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 21:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by muky 1 in Singles & Dating

so what does everyone prefer rough fast and quick motion sex or slow intimate sex that lasts for hours..

2007-01-14 21:55:18 · 15 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 29yr old woman he is a 33yr old man... and I've tried talking to him letting him know how it makes me feel... the fact that apparently I'm good enuff to touch him but not good enuff for him to touch... and sex is a rare thing in our house... we do good to find play time... Sorry if this is too Explicit for you... but I really don't know who I can turn to for this... my best friend is his cousin, and my other best friend well she is dating his cousin... so I'm turning to total strangers for help... if you have ANY advice PLEASE PLEASE I'm begging you to help me... thank you... Sexless in Tulare, CA

2007-01-14 21:54:20 · 12 answers · asked by Bride to Be 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 21:54:01 · 21 answers · asked by Juliette 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend cant **** good. She always starts crying everytime we have sex and complains about how bad it hurts...what a wimp! Is there a way to numb the vagina?

2007-01-14 21:53:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mum and him didn't get along and I'm worried I might upset my step dad who raised me from the age of 8. I just love my dad soo much and miss him terribly. He didn't exactly treat my brother and I all that great but I've found peace with it all but my family havn't yet... Any ideas?
CheersI lov

2007-01-14 21:53:06 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

^_^


on my mind no worries
everything is all good right now

2007-01-14 21:52:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have this friend named Rebecca... i want to court her and everything but i do not know... and when i ask her if she likes me she said as a brother... she is really nice and pretty to me... and i asked her if i could court her and she said no... she just wants to be her bestfriend... but i want to be more than just best friends... what can i do?? do i still have a chance??

thank you

2007-01-14 21:52:37 · 8 answers · asked by Karl G. 3 in Singles & Dating