why he did dis to me................????

Question

I went to pune 4 some work.Dere i met a old frnd of mine[used to b d hunk of our school]. On 31st dec he gave me a present[a dress- it ws a micro mini n a sport bra size top, n asked to wear dat] .Den he took me to d disk,dere i ws drunk [i took it 4 d 1st time]........n when i woke up all his n mine cloths were on d floor n he ws sleepin with me in my blanket. He said he is sorry 4 what he did n wants 2 give our relationship a name.He tried everything 2 make me comfortable.He even told me dat he used 2 like me 4m our school days. Bt i ws really stressed out ,i dont know what happened 2 me n i had sex with him
now i hv some feelin 4 him bt cant 4get what he did
i really dont know what 2 do??
one thing more
my last period ws on 12th dec bt dis month my periods did came [my date is fix n dis is 4 d 1st time]
i am 22 n he is 23

Answer 1

it is your fault too......when he gave you the micro mini and bra set and you wore it....means you are "game". don't try to act so shocked and all.....you were expecting this, i bet! also, you are over 21 and knew what you were getting into....both of you were conscenting drunk adults....

oh, by the way, if your period hasen't come yet and the last time you had your period was december 12, wait till the end of january and have a pregnancy test.....you can buy test strips in any drug stores...

another thing... do you text a lot? i mean via cell phone? it seems to me you do as you write like you are texting.

Answer 2

This is a hypothetical case or a figment of your imagination. But i take it as a case n try to solve it!
1] If it was sex without your consent, then its rape. go n report to the cops and file a case!
2] Even when drunk , if you have agreed to have sex with him, then...... its aint rape!
3} first of all go n have some tests done like pregnancy n HIV n STDs for your own good!
4] at 22 years of age, you are still 13 n you act n behave like 13, time to grow up intellectually and mentally!5
5] Our time is valuable too. so please stop seeking attention on the net by fabricated stories!

Answer 3

I am not able to understand what is your exject problem.
He did this or u have feeling this or what you will get a proper answer if u can findout the actual problem. He did all this as you provide him a chance. So i think as you know to u very well so can find out the pro & as well as solutin in a better way.
Or as per one scolar, you need 3 days to solve any pro & there are 7 way to sole any pro. If you would like can sak in a proper manner. Regards

Answer 4

From your own statement it appears that if that person was a dog, you were the real *****.
It also seems that you were aware of his intentions in advance, as you have already accepted his gifts and gone with him for party. It only shows how much crazy you yourself was for his company.
I bet you, no men will skip this chance of screwing you. Once you got screwed, you are now worried about your future life. Don't worry get your preg and HIV test complete and then plan for next round of .........
Note: Always use condom to have safe sex

Enjoy the life with safe sex, don't try to blame some body else for your own deeds and itchindgs

Answer 5

dont worry dear every thing will be fine ok
told that boy what he did, come to ur home explain to ur parents
if he really do then he feel his mistake and ready to marry u other wise kick him out from ur life . he is at 23 that means he is not so mature but what he did is very shemfull

i directly told u that please dont be friend of him he may again use u. just slap him on public place and make police complaint against him for teasing u. that is the way u can punish him and
but dont open what he really did that makes his life close and ur future is also in dark. just forget this thing and get merry with an other boy who loves u allote.

good luck have bright future

Answer 6

Babes...this guy's a total jerk n u still have feelings 4 him?? i don't get this! he mite have liked u but i hope u got it, wat he liked u 4??? he obviously wanted 2 sleep with u which he did successfully n remember this guy will never turn back on U & wud've already 4got abt u. u juz need 2 4get him. u being a woman who's 22 shud have thought b4 even accepting his gift. if u really r grown up then don't do this kinda mistake again coz theese kinda mistakes will cost u heavily mind it! just learn 4rm it n try 2 move on.

Answer 7

You're 22 and you talk like that?! Hmm perhaps maybe you should grow up and not wear things for someone you haven't talked to for a long time, an i'm surprised you fancy him after what he did to you! He basically raped you! Imagine how many other girls he couldv'e done that to? I'd get checked out if i were you, he probably has something!

Answer 8

This guy had sex with u when u were not aware of what he was doin to u. If he liked u and all that surely he would have asked u while u were not drunk instead of getting u drunk. his intentions were bad from the minute he gave u the very revealin dress.

Answer 9

I know this is a serious matter and it should be treated as such but woman you need to learn how to spell, type, and speak the English language. I mean damn it was painful trying to figure out what you were saying. I can't give you any advice because I don't know what's going on.

Answer 10

sound just like anxiety. r u guy still doing it? or was that the only time and u freaked out and never talk to him again? sex is a beautiful thing but if ur not aware when he poke into u then its a rape. his intention is not too clear so maybe hes preying on ur feeling for him. he took advantage of u so, iono... he sound fishing. first u should make sure to get urself check for any STD. make sure ur clean- no baby popping up any time soon, then go and talk to him. if he give u any bullshiet, any lil crap then he's fuc king with u.