My girlfriend cant **** good. She always starts crying everytime we have sex and complains about how bad it hurts...what a wimp! Is there a way to numb the vagina?
2007-01-14 21:53:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMFG! what a dipsh!it! you are so rude..if it is hurting her you should take it slower and be more gentle. you guys dont understand what it takes to be a momen! we have to go thru periods EVERY MONTH! we have to go thru the pain with sex the 1st couple times...and we have to have the kids! what do get? the pleasure of having sex! FU*K you dude! U r so rude! if i was ur gf i would dump ur sry a$$!
ok i just got ur e-mail but u dont accept e-mails from other yaho users so ima tell you on here:
maybe you werent trying to be rude but.... to me i just thought it was rude the way you came across...i would hope that you would have more respect for her than that! if you were not trying to be rude i am sry for going off on you like that i just get a lil heated sometimes lol. expecially about topics like this!
2007-01-14 21:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 1⤋
Her muscles probably became tense.You guys should take a shower together or do some petting before having sex so that she'll feel more comfortable.Sex should be an enjoyable experience for both parties.Take it slow.If she starts crying again, you should stop immediately and ask her if she wants to continue. She might be a victim of sexual abuse.Like any major trauma it takes time, support and usually therapy to work through the issues that arise from being victimized.
2007-01-16 15:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by nelson28 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
With a boyfriend like you, who can blame the girl for complaining, it would hurt me to be in a room with you for more than 5 minutes, never mind sleeping with you!! AND just for the record, sex is supposed to be pleasurable for both parties, therefore your obviously doing something very wrong- does this not bother you? Most MEN i know would like to make sure the woman was having fun, as this is usually a turn on for them aswell, think your getting your kicks from all the wrong places - insensitive b*stard!
2007-01-19 01:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so rude and I honestly think that she should leave you. If it hurts, then you shouldn't be calling her a wimp. You should be more gentle and concerned about her and her feelings. Sex isn't suppose to cause pain it should be pleasurable. You are probably doing something wrong. Try taking it slower and gentler if she hasn't left you already.
2007-01-18 12:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Britney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, time for you to go to work here. You need to do more foreplay with her. You need to use your hands and your mouth to get her excited and wet.
You also need to let her control the pace and intensity of the sex. You might want to do it hard and fast from the beginning but ask her what she wants.
Another, larger issue: You don't sound like the most sensitive of men. She's not your sex toy; she's a person with feelings. She's having some sort of problem and you just want her to shut up and please you, when what you really have to do is talk to her and work with her to solve this problem.
You want to "numb" her vagina? What about her pleasure, her feelings? Is sex with her just about your pleasure? Are you sure that you're really mature enough to have sex (or that she is)?
2007-01-15 06:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
If you don't apriciate the way your girlfriend has sex with you, maybe you sould find another sex partner. I mean, not all girls like the feeling of it the first couple of months or maybe even years. If you really love her and is not just using her for that then work with her, take it slow and enjoy it for what it is.
2007-01-17 20:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by tabby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, sex is supposed to feel good for both people...maybe you need to start out more gentle and listen to what she is telling you..calling her a wimp is being selfish. you aren't the one having a hard object shoved into a tight hole. it takes time for girls to get used to how it feels, just be patient with her. she will enjoy it in time. if she feels you are annoyed she is going to tighten up and won't be able to relax, therefore making it more difficult for both of you.
2007-01-18 14:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by gaga g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, i cant belive with an attitude like that that you even have a girlfriend!! U obviously wasnt ready to start having sex as you REALLY dont no much about it!! ... Why would a girl want to "NUMB" her vigina??...then whats the point in having sex... just stop being immature, and take it slow, get her relaxed and it wont hurt her!!...Really she should just leave you and you should stick to wanking!!
2007-01-15 06:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by West-Lnds-Finest 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
My sources say your technique has many flaws. Your only objective from here on out is to learn how to please this woman. From your post you need lots of help. Take my advice quickly or you will lose her to someone who has the right skills. You really sound like you need professional help. If you can't afford it, try a book store.
2007-01-16 22:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by eee_aww 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isent getting wet so its dry when ur trying to put it in and hurting her..?, u should try using some lubrication next time..
2007-01-18 06:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by littleboypit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋