Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

treats you like trash,divorce is not an option for now please.

2007-01-14 21:51:38 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am totally in love with one of my families friend's son's who lives in Italy(he is Italian), we have known each other since I can remember and my parent's have sent me to stay with his family every summer in Italy since I was 12, and when I go there all me and him do is hang out together(and hook up). He is the sweetest guy I have ever met and we love each other, and we have decided we cannot be apart anymore so we have decide one of us needs to transfer colleges and countrys, but we cannot decide who ?


So my question is:
-How can we decide who should move ?


Other Details:
-I am 18, he is 19
-I see him every summer and sometimes during the holidays, which is why we want to live together
-I speak Italian at an intermediate-advanced level
-In the next 10 years our plan is for both of us to finish college, get jobs, get married, have children and then for me to be a stay at home mom (I know we plan things out alot lol)

2007-01-14 21:50:45 · 4 answers · asked by Natasha S. 1 in Singles & Dating

What if your boyfriend told you that he loves you but is not in love with you, he doesnt want to marry you and he doesnt want to have children with you BUT he wants to be with you and try but cant promise. I want to try but cant stop thinking that he is not in love..... its really difficult for me!

2007-01-14 21:49:50 · 17 answers · asked by Lilly 2 in Singles & Dating

I've got about 26 people at my wedding with 3 kids. Since I was little I always wanted the big church wedding but my partner and I are just hardworking normal people who couldn't afford it. We have everyone that matter though. (except my dad who passed away last year) My mum keeps saying it's too small to be a traditional wedding and doesn't think there should be a bridal waltz or bouquet toss. I want to keep it as traditional as possible but can any of you guys think of what would be effected by not having a lot of people? I"m so worried it's just going to turn in to a p*ss up. Also I want to have a place set for my dad at the table even though he's gone. Mum doesn't agree.. What do you guys think?( If you couldn't already tell, my mother has kind of taken over a little but she's helping financially so I'm happy to humor her)

2007-01-14 21:49:48 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

my boyfriend who i ve been with for 10 months now is still going through a divorce and says he wants to propose to me as soon as the divorce comes through how can i show him that i dont want him to wait or shall i just wait???

2007-01-14 21:48:48 · 15 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help finding dating sites

2007-01-14 21:47:07 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone I need a suggestion and a great plan from your hearts for this Valentine ’s Day on how to make this an un forgettable day in my wife’s life, ours is a love marriage and I want this to be a great outing

Please don’t make suggestions like kiss her and spend the whole day in bed with her, suggest me something which is more sensible.

I will be in Hyderabad (Andhra Pradesh) for this Valentine’s Day so come on Hyderabadies open your minds and flush me with your ideas, this doesn’t mean that the suggestions from the people in other cities will not be considered, you suggestions are as important as the suggestions from the yahoo users in Hyderabad

2007-01-14 21:46:51 · 8 answers · asked by kittu 2 in Friends

is it so wrong for a lady to ask a man out.ive never had a female to even send word by another female that she liked me whats up this is the 2000s

2007-01-14 21:43:24 · 20 answers · asked by lawson403 2 in Singles & Dating

hahaha

2007-01-14 21:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by bonjing 2 in Singles & Dating

to just simply not like the fact my partner points out hot chicks while we are out. I tell him because of my weight issue i wish he doesnt point them out. Instead he asks me what I think of them. He tells me im insecure and he will still point them out. By the way im 20 and he is 21. He also has to make the point "My friends NEVER get this problem with their girlfriends"

Do you think I am insecure?

2007-01-14 21:41:54 · 10 answers · asked by ca4btts 3 in Singles & Dating

its almost like people pick the answer they think is right for them instead of picking the best answer.

what gives?

:-}

2007-01-14 21:40:51 · 5 answers · asked by sodajerk50 4 in Singles & Dating

Me & my gal gets along quite well, but the problem is i want more of her. I wana get kinda physical [ No Sex ].... i have given hints to her many times but she ignores & moreover she and i talks about sex etc... but she i guess not willing to get physical with me.... i dont wana do anything without her permission, so makingup and touching is ruled out 4 me.

As i am not able to stand my great GF not letting me gettin physical [ Touching etc.. ] i say to end the relationship.

My problem is what shall i tell her the reason? I cant tell her such a reason for ending it. (Doesnt sound good)

Please suggest what to say in a peacefull & nice way without getin much hurt.

NOTE: We people just kiss nothing more!! and yes she is not shy 4sure.
Talking with her anymore is no use - So this option is also ruled out

2007-01-14 21:38:19 · 13 answers · asked by Noel 1 in Singles & Dating

im sick of making a complete tit of myself....how do i stop this and rid myself of the feeling of being totally inadequate and worthless

2007-01-14 21:35:33 · 21 answers · asked by trixiecat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have liked this girl for a number of months now. She seems to take time out to come and talk to me and constantly laughs at my jokes whilst spending that extra bit of time in our conversation. I suppose it's a fear factor that stops me asking her out due to the fear of rejection. How do I get a better idea of what she thinks of me? And is there a no-lose way of asking her out, or getting an indication of her intended answer should I ask?

2007-01-14 21:34:40 · 8 answers · asked by Some Random Bloke 1 in Singles & Dating

Please give the title of the song and the singer. Old songs and new songs are welcome.

2007-01-14 21:32:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my cousin sam fancies one of my friends. he likes her alot but i dont know how to get them together. she likes him to, they just wont admit there feelings to each other.

2007-01-14 21:31:22 · 8 answers · asked by honor b 1 in Friends

My brother is a drug addict, 22 and still lives at home. My parents are constantly fighting about it. He steals from us constantly and my mum is so stressed I am sure she will have a heart attack soon. He has hit me before and I am scared he will hit my little sister. My Dad wont kick him out cause he doesn't want him living on the streets. What do I do???

2007-01-14 21:30:08 · 19 answers · asked by angellover6056 5 in Family

i am about 2 stone heavier now than when i met my hubby 5 years ago,2 kids,comfort eating etc. I am going to the gym 3 times and swimming also each week. Why does he offer me sweets and choc is he testing my resolve or sabotaging my efforts. i have very little willpower as it is. I am 10 years younger than him,is he worried?

2007-01-14 21:30:07 · 22 answers · asked by heebygeeby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

regarding love?

2007-01-14 21:29:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She is pretty attractive I'll give you that though, anyway..

Its actually a myspace thing, but bare with me here.

A few months ago I contacted this girl on myspace because we both went to the same school. we talked for a little bit and than eventually she gave me her number.

I tried calling her repeatedly but with no success. I contacted her on myspace about it but I never got a reply back.

So now, Months later, I moved on and decided that I would trick people into thinking I got my hair done. I actually had this super cool wig.

This is my natural look http://myspace-039.vo.llnwd.net/00816/93/07/816517039_l.jpg

This is what I look like with the wig on
http://a311.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/41/l_3ce06759a89592a001340aa582ec8a36.jpg

So, apprantly, putting on this wig and taking a few pictures intrigued her interesting, of course everyone on myspace thinks it real! lol

So, she message me, asking for my number and such, I gave it to her...

So, tell me, is this a good idea?

2007-01-14 21:27:15 · 17 answers · asked by DarkAaron 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to married a young girl.but there is a difference of 10 years between us. That is why I am re-thinking about this matter. Actually I am in confusion.

2007-01-14 21:26:51 · 18 answers · asked by Hari 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl is my classmate nd i know her since 2 yrs...buy i've came bit close to her since 1 month. now, i knew that i like her but how do i confirm whether i love her or not. how can i check for myself that i love her?
i'm 21 by age.

2007-01-14 21:26:35 · 5 answers · asked by xtravaganza20 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont have any friends that i chat with alot neither hang out or go out alot which makes my lilfe completly dull and unintresting. i think alot about this girl..well thats preety much all i think about. But when i talk to her i cant seem to think about anything to talk about and it goes silent which is very awkward. i want to talk to her alot but i just dont know how because my mind is like blank.

2007-01-14 21:25:29 · 8 answers · asked by jibberjabber85 1 in Friends

Why is it I cant find a guy who wants a relationship? Guys seem to see me as a mere plaything. Its annoying. Every guy i meet and know wants to have sex with me but i cant find one who wants more then that. Ive made it clear to everyone that im looking for a relationship and i dont want any f.w.b. but they still keep trying. Why dont guys see me as girlfriend material?

2007-01-14 21:25:14 · 15 answers · asked by i_dont_get_it 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend is 6' 4" and an athlete
I'm 5'10" and play sports, but not at high school
I feel nervous around her sometimes and a little intimidated even though I like her
my friends keep telling me to break up with her but i dont want to
1. she outweighs me by 25 lbs. 175<200
2. like i said i like her
what should i do

2007-01-14 21:23:52 · 8 answers · asked by West Coast Bias 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok ladies i need help i like this girl more than you can possibly like someone and its not like i havent gone out with people before but this person is special theres just something about her but im to nervous to ask her out and she is so beautiful so someone is bound to ask her out ladies i need help big time please and sorry fellas but i only trust girls in this department sorry

2007-01-14 21:23:19 · 12 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Singles & Dating

myboy friend is angry with me.tell how can i make him happy.since two days he was not giving me a missed call also. what to do.

2007-01-14 21:21:49 · 17 answers · asked by SAPNA D 2 in Singles & Dating

at a young age?

2007-01-14 21:20:02 · 19 answers · asked by e7daniel 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy watching a girl washing her car or a girl watching a guy washing his car? i know it depends but can it be categorized that way or not?

2007-01-14 21:19:49 · 16 answers · asked by Pyro 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 21:19:21 · 11 answers · asked by matrimony x 1 in Singles & Dating