how come women dont ask men out?

Question

is it so wrong for a lady to ask a man out.ive never had a female to even send word by another female that she liked me whats up this is the 2000s

Answer 1

Asking people out is rough: You get rejected much more than you get accepted. Most women can't deal with rejection as well as men can. Women who I've talked to about this, even mature, adult women, cite a fear of rejection that to me sounds similar to a 12 year old boy's fear of rejection.
Dealing with this rejection takes time and experience. You just have to grit your teeth and get through it at first. You have to not take it personally and not let it hurt your confidence or self-image. This also takes experience. If a woman hasn't done this then she'll most likely never start.
Look, if I was asked out as often as most women are, I wouldn't be the asker either. However, most women don't realize that if they asked men out, they'd actually get a "yes" most of the time. It's sad that most won't risk the rejection to try this.

Answer 2

I have a saying that I use all the time. A man cheats because it's there, a woman cheats because it's not there. For the most part, like you said, if a man thinks he's not going to get caught and has some woman all in his face, the chances are pretty good that he'll go for it. Even if he has the complete package at home. A woman (with a few exceptions) will only cheat if she's not getting the love and affection that she needs at home. I have to feel sorry for the good guys out there that truly want to find love and to be faithful the rest of their lives. The horror stories that come out of the untrustworthy guys relationships wreck it for them.

Answer 3

It May be the 2000's but it's been centuries that men have called the shots in dating. Women have always been considered forward if they ask a man out. Women are afraid it'll scare a guy off or that they'll think she's easy. Unfortunately, it's still a man's world. Perhaps by reading your question, some women will be braver.

Answer 4

Well, actually sometimes they do. Even though we live in modern times, men are still men. If a woman asks a man out mostly he will run for his life and she will never see him again. If not, he is likely to be the kind of man who will take everything a woman has to offer and give nothing in return. Usually all a woman has to do is make eye contact, smile and say hello. That is enough to encourage a man to ask her out if he wants to. Good luck.

Answer 5

GREAT QUESTION!!! well i am a gurl and i think they reason we dont is that because for so long it has been known for the guy to ask the gurl out. i think it is more of sign that the man wears the pants in the relationship, therefore he should ask her...even tho i have asked a few men out, i would much rather a guy ask me...about the whole gurl telling another to tell you..that is actually really common now-a-days..expecially in highschool...a lot of gurls tell theier friends to tell the guy that they like that thye are interested. but someday i think us gurls will come around it will be an accepted thing for gurls and guys to ask each other out. i think it will just take sometime. hope this clerifies your question!

ambi

Answer 6

Because women are more deeply affected by rejection than guys. When we reject ya'll, ya'll feel bad for a bit and move on. When ya'll reject us, we look at ourselves and try to figure out was wrong with us and what about us don't you like. Then we nitpick all of our problems and get depressed. Our emotions are much more fragile and sensitive. It doesn't matter if it's the 21st century or the 101st century, It's rare to find a woman with enough "balls" to ask a man out

Answer 7

Some women are still old fashioned and feel the guy should make the first move. And others might feel desperate making the first move. But there are women out there that prefer to make the first move. Ull find one who will ask you out, just dont give a woman the impression that u gonna ask her out first

Answer 8

its part of our manhood buddy, you my friend just proved bob's thesis that white boys manhoods are smaller then other ethnicities, even asians AND boys in the U.S main land tend to have smaller manhoods then boys from other places, other then europe.

Now then a manhood is not a penis, do not confuse them, there was this misunderstanding earlier and bob was cussed out.

Incase you do not know what a manhood is, it is what tells you that:
only f a gs hit girls
girls dont ask out guys
guys dont shave down there
guy is taller then his girl
dont wear tightie whities past the 5th grade
Those are just 5 fundemental rules that a manhood teaches you.


NOTE manhood is subject to change depending on the size and belief of your manhood along with personal preference.

Answer 9

Women are scared that they'll get turned down and be humiliated. Women have self esteem issues and a guy turning them down would tear them apart. Men just let it go and look for the next girl,

Answer 10

it's tradition. i've no idea where from but it will seem a little forward for a girl to ask a guy out. believe you me, if a girl did that, most men would think her desperate. it may be the year 2007 but some habits die hard.