my boyfriend who i ve been with for 10 months now is still going through a divorce and says he wants to propose to me as soon as the divorce comes through how can i show him that i dont want him to wait or shall i just wait???
2007-01-14 21:48:48 · 15 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should wait. If it's going to happen anyway it will be good when it does. If you are serious about eachother a few more weeks wont matter. If you really dont want to wait tell him, why wait lets do it now. Whats meant to be will be and everything will turn out ok in the end.
2007-01-14 21:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by honeybee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait til the divorce is over that is the right path and safe for you cuz the divorce if takes time can bring problems for you because you will be in a commited relationship which has no future till he gets the D done . so be practical and dont allow your insecurities get expressed .
2007-01-14 21:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters if you slept with him history is going to repeat itself i hope you havent because that says alot about you
second why would you want a man who has not divorced do you know how many men play this game and dont intend on getting divorced
and third any man who wants to marry another woman immediately after a divorce is a adulterer which says alot about him
history repeats itself i suggest you wait until you get the papers in your hand, and then wait another year until he cheats on you because he will after all he's done it to his wife already with dealing with you.
honestly
2007-01-14 21:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact he's been divorced once already should make you take your time. He is obviously someone who rushes into these things.
If you want to spend your lives together take your time and make sure its the right thing to do. Rushing into something like this is madness.
People have illusions about marriage, it wont make your life any different, its just going to leave a big hole in your wallet and change your surname.
2007-01-14 21:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be a good thing to wait - he is going through a rough time and probably has lots of emotions that go along with divorce (even if he not keen on his ex) we all do and i know i did, all types of emotions. i think you are lucky that he is willing to commit and get engaged so soon after his broken relationship and to respect him and so not to ruin any chances of it all going wrong wait
2007-01-14 21:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot get married until his divorce is through so why don't you wait...? You know he's going to ask...
2007-01-14 21:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't rush things... wait. that's the best thing for you to do. wait until his divorce is over. after that you can live a fairytale with him already... and besides, you've been with him for just ten months, right? think twice. i mean reflect... measure how much you love him. if you think you love him so damn much, then grab it! best wishes for the both of you... =)
2007-01-14 21:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by CB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he is ready if you push him to proposing to you before he is ready you could end up losing him no matter how much you want him to just give it time and it will happen when he is ready he has just got out of aaa marraige dont push him into another one until he is ready it will happen
2007-01-14 23:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why rush it? He can't marry you until his other chapter is closed anyways.
Then again he could just be feeding you that to keep you around. You've been dating this guy for 10months and he's still waiting for his divorce to clear??? Sounds fishy...
2007-01-14 21:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 months!?
You two barely know eachother.
Slow down! Get to know eachother a little better, and maybe in another year or so if thigs are still going well, you two can talk about marriage.
2007-01-14 21:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋