Me & my gal gets along quite well, but the problem is i want more of her. I wana get kinda physical [ No Sex ].... i have given hints to her many times but she ignores & moreover she and i talks about sex etc... but she i guess not willing to get physical with me.... i dont wana do anything without her permission, so makingup and touching is ruled out 4 me.
As i am not able to stand my great GF not letting me gettin physical [ Touching etc.. ] i say to end the relationship.
My problem is what shall i tell her the reason? I cant tell her such a reason for ending it. (Doesnt sound good)
Please suggest what to say in a peacefull & nice way without getin much hurt.
NOTE: We people just kiss nothing more!! and yes she is not shy 4sure.
Talking with her anymore is no use - So this option is also ruled out
2007-01-14 21:38:19 · 13 answers · asked by Noel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need a good reason to break up with someone if you want to break up with them, just do it.
2007-01-14 21:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you want is cuddling, hand holding and such...
Perhaps she's uncomfortable making the first move. Perhaps you should try doing it. Take her to the park and hold her underneath a nice tree.
When you're at the mall, spontaniously reach down and hold her hand, or walk behind her with your arms around her waist. When she's sitting, sit behind her, wrap your arms around her and rest your head on her shoulder.
Initiate contact and see how she reacts. Perhaps she's waiting for YOU.
2007-01-14 21:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the real question is how long have you two been together, and how experienced in relationships she is. If you're together a couple of months, and you're one of her first boyfriends, you might want to give her time to adapt to having physical contact with you. If you love her so much, that is. But as I can see, you're not very in love, because you want to leave her because she's not physical.
2007-01-14 21:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of it..now! girls are like a bus....another one comes along every 10 minutes or so...you deserve to be loved, hugged and such.
2007-01-14 21:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by X me Out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her staright that
''Dear, I wanna do ''this & that'' mean ''''what u wan to do'''' , but for sure not without ur permission'' &
also say to ur GF that
'' Pls tell me truth what u wanna say.. I'll dont mind..... but take care of my emotions too''
I personally wanna say that """"""""May be she is not sure whether u r there for her all the time OR for some time..........''
Tell her that u r there for all the time and only for her
(SAY THIS IF U REALLY MEAN IT)
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-14 21:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to break up with her for that, at least be a man and be honest. Lying about it would just add insult to injury.
2007-01-14 21:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been dating her? Its kind of hard to answer this question with the info you provided. Everyone moves at their own pace when it comes to physical intimacy.
2007-01-14 21:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by wileycoyote_the_supergenius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the reason u should tell her so and not think that it doesn't sound good,
2007-01-14 22:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just not ready to go further than kissing then... u can either wait until shes ready (if u love her enough to wait) or tell her that u want more...
2007-01-14 21:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u dnt feel comfortable with her n b assuring to her that theres plenty of ppl here she can gt along.
2007-01-14 21:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋