to just simply not like the fact my partner points out hot chicks while we are out. I tell him because of my weight issue i wish he doesnt point them out. Instead he asks me what I think of them. He tells me im insecure and he will still point them out. By the way im 20 and he is 21. He also has to make the point "My friends NEVER get this problem with their girlfriends"
Do you think I am insecure?
2007-01-14 21:41:54 · 10 answers · asked by ca4btts 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The way I see it is, my man can LOOK all he wants. Men WILL be men. They're genetically coded to look. Men are breeders. They're meant to seek women that they deem worthy to breed with (NOT saying he will. :))
Just as long as he doesn't actually GO for them, I'd be comfortable. If you trust him and love him, just forget about his silly antics. He's with YOU, isn't he? That must account for something. Weight or no weight. He apparently loves you.
2007-01-14 21:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U do have the right not to like that, my ex used to compare me with people like beyonce and mariah carey and i'm asian so could never look like them lol.
But since we've split up I've found that guys now like me for myself and don't compare me with other girls, so the problem sadly is with ur bf and not u. If he carries on making u feel so bad then u should leave him and find a guy who appreciates u for who u r and not what he wants u to be.
2007-01-15 05:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing, he shouldn't be looking at other women, especially since he has you as a girlfriend. you have every right to even get a little frustrated and mad at him. it's compltely understandable.
every woman has their own insecurities. even the most beautiful women hate at least on thing about them. uniqueness in beauty should be celebrated.
2007-01-15 05:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by impasse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boy friend is wrong to point out hot chicks even if he's not with you.if you 2 are going together you should be the only hot chick in his life.
2007-01-15 05:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "partner" is a self-absorbed, sadistic prick who enjoys hurting your feelings. What are you doing with someone like that? You can find someone better, trust me, I don't care how severe your weight problem ist.
2007-01-15 05:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think he is being disrespectful to you and what does it matter what his friends do with their girlfriends. If he doesn't stop bet him at his own game.
2007-01-15 05:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes.....so figure out why you are insecure...if it is a weight issue, only you can fix that...good luck
2007-01-15 05:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats man nature my dear. they wnt 4get it. ya u r a bit insecure just dnt tell him anythg, he'll stop glaring at them
2007-01-15 05:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to make you jealous just say to him when he ask you just say they are not better then he will stop
2007-01-15 05:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by palmtreesareheaven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no more than anyone else. but he's a real shite for doing that to you. dump him. you can do better.
2007-01-15 05:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋