Should I move to Italy or should he move to the US ?

Question

I am totally in love with one of my families friend's son's who lives in Italy(he is Italian), we have known each other since I can remember and my parent's have sent me to stay with his family every summer in Italy since I was 12, and when I go there all me and him do is hang out together(and hook up). He is the sweetest guy I have ever met and we love each other, and we have decided we cannot be apart anymore so we have decide one of us needs to transfer colleges and countrys, but we cannot decide who ?


So my question is:
-How can we decide who should move ?


Other Details:
-I am 18, he is 19
-I see him every summer and sometimes during the holidays, which is why we want to live together
-I speak Italian at an intermediate-advanced level
-In the next 10 years our plan is for both of us to finish college, get jobs, get married, have children and then for me to be a stay at home mom (I know we plan things out alot lol)

Answer 1

well I see why you cannot decide! maybe you should wait until you finish your school. after all you are seeing each other every holiday. when you finish this college, you could go to Italy. or you could there now( I think Italy is much more beautiful than US). but on the other side, he could come to US, 'cause schools are much better than there, and he could get job easily, when he finishes the college, in US than in Italy. Good luck. I wouldn't like to be in your skin...

Answer 2

you shold move to Itally without having any doubts because you can be more adjustble to his enviornment since u have spent a lot of time over there and as career and seltle ment for future is concerned Italy is a better place to see your family live and and kids grow than usa .

Answer 3

That's something you guys need to work out between your selves, nobody can make that decision for you best of luck what ever you decide

Answer 4

whome do you want to go to Itily? Do what you want if you think you would be better there then do it