plz help it all started a year ago me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 days HELP
2007-01-14 23:10:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him! it will probably turn him on..it's turning me on. especially if you will share your female friend with him.
2007-01-14 23:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by X me Out 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...seriously...if you guys have only been going out for 2 days...it's not that serious. But if it is to the point that no knows except for yourself. The best way is to him flat out in a serious manner and tell him what is up. He can either take it two ways. But just hope he goes with the positive. But be ready for the negative.
Good luck!
2007-01-15 23:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by MC like WHAT! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a BF is a good thing. Now you have the opportunity to analyze yourself and know for sure if you are a lesbian. You could be a bi.
This may sound harsh, but you do need time. Keep him around until you know for sure.
2007-01-15 08:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you clarify this - what started a year ago and how long have you been together?
If you've only been together two days (as it seems to say), just tell him it's not working out and you need to be apart while you decide what you want from a relationship!
2007-01-15 07:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Extra_Sweetcorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him its only bin 2days he'll live, u dont ave 2tel him the truth just say ur not ready for a relationship instead of telling him ur a lesbian!
2007-01-15 07:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a card that reflects a Lesbian and show the hint. Then one day when your talking with him he might just turn to you and ask and then you say yes. Now it wasn't that bad was it?
2007-01-15 07:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be real sweet to him do the crying thing. Then tell him with whole honesty. He'll feel sorry for you and he would want to help you. When you do this by being sweet and with the whole crying while confessing thing, there's a 90% chance he would not leave you.
2007-01-15 07:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him you are a lesbian, just tell him you don't want to see him anymore. Just tell him he isn't your type.
There is certainly nothing wrong with being a lesbian. I'm married to one, but we don't have a sexual relationship of anykind, we only married for professional purposes. She has her life and i have mine. But we do alot of things together travel, go to dinner, plays and stuff of that nature.
2007-01-15 07:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it started a year ago, why do you have a boyfriend? Don't encourage him to think there is any more than friendship.
2007-01-15 07:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell the bf that you're bi-sexual not a lesbian. If you were a lesbian you would'nt have a BF! Think about it. You're attracted to males as well as females.
You need to communicate this to the new BF.
Communication is the key!
2007-01-15 07:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are very lucky at this point seeing that you've only been together for 2 days.. tell him now up front and honest before this turns into a long time from now lie :) :) :)
2007-01-15 07:15:41 · answer #11 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋