ive tried letting my bf know that it is hurting me when he lies and says he doesnt have a party to do(dj) and turns around and do one. he gawks at women when we are together. he knows i cry and he just acts like nothing is wrong. ive been going thru this for 2 yrs. i love him and dont want to loose him but he also lies sometimes about where he is. so what do i do. he also does parties for his family. they called him one day to do a party and me and him was planning to do something and he just up and left me. im tired and want this to stop.
2007-01-14 22:53:57 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-14 23:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by emerson m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you continue to put up with him hurting you. My husband is a DJ too and I kind of know what you are going through.except for the gawking part.I didn't go to all the parties because I choose not to. But now whenever he gives a party i go.You should try going to some parties with your boyfriend and maybe you will feel a whole lot better.Plan on spending time with him at the next party that he does and stop sitting at home crying.& feeling sorry for yourself.Go with him maybe you will enjoy yourself.That's what I started doing and i started feeling much better about things. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-15 00:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with a liar for? How can you even trust anything that comes out of his mouth? If he lies about small things, think about what he has lied to about before or what he will lie to you about in hte future!!
Seems like he is more into his job than he is his girlfriend. Break it off and find someone else who deserves you!
2007-01-14 23:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by 88776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 04:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, this guy does not care for you. Sorry!
Dump the loser. I know you love him etc etc, but do you really see yourself living like this forever? Try talking to him about it. Tell him how you feel and give him an ultimatum. But Hon, life is too short to be miserable for what little time we have. Get out there and give yourself permission to be happy! You will find someone who really cares for YOU. (been there, done that!) If he can't listen to you now, he never will.
2007-01-14 23:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already tired with his behavior in two years, try to think can you you tolerate or live with his behavior for the rest of your live. My suggestion dump him, and find someone else. Love should be a beautiful thing not something that can bring allot of problem.
2007-01-14 23:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant change men like that and you are worth much more then that. Theres nothing you can do, if he doesnt see it hurts you now then he never will. Leave him, i no it hurts but thats pretty much your only choice. Unless you want to be a door mat forever.
2007-01-14 22:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by emesumau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comunication is the key, tell him how u feel, how you h8 it wen he does it but remain calm dont giv him an xcuse to get angry, speak the truth and be str8 up with him, stand your ground, dnt backdown. if he stil continues hen tell him u cant handle it and that its over btw u 2, if the relationship means anything to him heel stop doing wat hes doing and fight4 u, if he dusn then uve had a luky escape and altho it myt hurt at first ur better off without him in the long run. tc gud luk
2007-01-14 23:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by A Decent Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious he doesn't care about your feelings. He is selfish and unconsiderate.
He will never change. It's time to dump that jerk and find you someone who will treat you with respect and love you and always put you first.
2007-01-14 22:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop crying.. you need to be strong and take a step forward, there is only way to talk to him face to face and tell him to stop lying. Tell him about your and his relationship. what is goes wrong with our relationship and why lying to me.
2007-01-14 23:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋