everybody thinks we dont match...but hes so sweet and caring. i kinda like him but i also hav a long time crush wat shud i do??? help me!!!
2007-01-14 22:51:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think it's you who dating your boyfriend not your friend, so why bother. If this is a true friend I think they should understand about your decision.
2007-01-14 23:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on *why* your friends don't like him. Who has known you longer, your friends or this crush? If your friends know you well, and really love you, they may see something in him that you can't because you are in love with him. This happened to a friend of mine who was engaged to marry a man that she loved but that all her friends despised. We saw how hurtful and indecent he could be to her, though because she was in love with him she didn't. Eventually, they broke up, and she was thankful to us (her friends) for telling her those things and encouraging her to break it off. Now she's very happy! So be careful, though it may hurt to hear bad things about this guy, you should at least hear what your friends have to say. Are they just jealous (not likely), or do they have genuine concerns for you or your safety with him?
2007-01-14 22:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Writer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible because in the long run your friends are normally right and guys they don;t think are good enough for you normally turn out to be jerks, unfortunately if you like a guy no one else's opinion mattters and you noramlly just see it throuogh then ask them not to say I told you so after it's over.
2007-01-14 23:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by Skippy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make your own decision, but here's some advice. First, does your boyfriend have a bad habit(no ofense) that your friends don't really like(e.g. alcoholic, pranker, ganster, just kidding). Second, are your friends just unreasonable? Try talking to them and ask why they think you're not meant for each other, if they don't listen, do you really consider them as your true friends? Good luck!
2007-01-14 23:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by pink_posh101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him, does he like you good then don't mind your friends they might be upset for a little while but they'll come around if they are your friends. However if they bring up reasons why they don't like him such as he was abusive in a past relationship or hes controlling you might want to examine your boyfriend a bit closer
2007-01-14 22:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Natashya K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you can't let your friend decide how you live your life. However, you have to atleast take into consideration what your friends tell you. They may notice bad qualities in him that you don't becuase you're blinded by love. You can still hang out with your friends just do it without him. We all need time for ourselves
2007-01-15 01:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by prettyboldblonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when do your friends tell YOU what to do? You're running your own life and have your own road to success. Share your thoughts with some you can trust, but talk less. There's a saying.....it's better to listen at times than speak.
2007-01-14 23:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of my friends agrre with my boyfriend, they are always trying to make me break up with him. but after seeing how happy he makes me they are slowly getting used to the idea. just explain to ur mates that you think the world of this guy, that you are hapy when you ar ewith him, and that they should accept it for you. you can also say that if they dont accept it that is ok as long as they dont say a bad word agaisnt him. this shows that you care for them n him
however with this crush you shoud decided who would be better for you and listen to you and care for you. with this crush you have to think would you ever be able to get wit him?
just make your mind up n stick with it, just make sure the decision is made by u n not ur mates
good luck hunni. x
2007-01-14 23:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by samantha j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If for immediately you do not see each person your interested in than thats high-quality, yet once you do discover someone you want and commence relationship them 17 is an age that should be high-quality for relationship sit down consisting of your moms and dads and refer to them in case you truly love that individual they ought to understand.................. yet do not go searching for a boyfriend in simple terms because your individuals have a boyfriend in case you concentration on desiring a boyfriend you should encounter the first individual who looks interested in you and he ought to not be the right one for you........ desire that facilitates bya = )
2016-11-23 19:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to u, as long as u feel u match. Ur friends would accept that if they were true friends
2007-01-14 22:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
datz only ur friends opinion... if they are really ur friends.. they should be happy for u... when my bf and I were juzt new my friendz also say we dont match.. but still now... we are together.. if u think he is d ryt guy then go for it but ne sure ur ready to be hurt...I also hav a long tym crush... but itz only a crush... luv-like nd crush are different... : )
2007-01-14 23:04:54 · answer #11 · answered by miz G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋