i never asked this before to anyone and i thought it would be a godo idea to ask and find out, im kinda shy, and i want a way that i can still have fun during sex, and not be shy.. sounds kinda weird but when i haev a guy "play" then it is easier to get off but, i wont do it to myself, how else can i get off, if i dont "play" if ya think im weird for askin im sorry btu i had to find out... can anyone help..if not its ok..oo and im nto much for toys, ill use em on my own time but not with a guy, I NEED TO GET LESS SHY AROUND GUY DURING SEX, LOL SOMEONE HELP ME OUT HERE!!!
2007-01-14 23:04:19 · 16 answers · asked by lil cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do it yourself during sex... It turns guys on.
2007-01-14 23:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Different strokes for different folks! If you dont want to play with yourself during sex, then its up to you. If its you being shy that's why you don't play with yourself during sex, then maybe you should try some alternatives with your partner. Maybe you guys can have a little vibrator you both can use while having sex (which takes the playing with yourself out of your hands and into your partner) or the simplest solution to your shyness would be that you turn off the lights while you guys do it or you get blindfolded. Believe me, the lights off and the blindfolding works. =D
2007-01-15 08:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by kristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's why you should be with someone you love someone you are so comfy with, but hey why would it hurt to play while having sex? turn the lights out, trust me it will only turn him on so much more, and its no fun if you don't get off right?and yes its very normal
2007-01-14 23:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 07:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im having issure with ou being shy and having sex with more then one guy. Sorry I do not want to sound like your mother but dont you think you should be comfortable with youself and the things you are going to do with someone else before you start dong them .?
2007-01-14 23:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a question of whether its normal or not it's about doing whatever you are comfortable with. If you decide to try it, then you will definitely feel weird the first time but it will bring your sexual experience to another level...you won't regret it. But again, don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. LOL
2007-01-14 23:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by scorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes some extra effort on your part to play with yourself during sex. If you do this you'll get off alot more and orgasms will be much stronger if you do this.
I make all my women play with themselves while i'm doing oral on them. they get so hot, start moaning, screaming when they come. It's just so hot to watch them do this too and they get really into sex alot more once they start doing this to themselves.
2007-01-14 23:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take your time and start slow don't go for the whole pie try just touching other sensitive areas and go from there stop when you don' tfeel comfortable anymore
2007-01-14 23:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by Natashya K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are with the right guy it will all come natural to you. Don't do anything you don't want to do, that's what the guy is for.
2007-01-14 23:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
assume a guy's penis as ur own toy , so tht u dont feel shy...ok
2007-01-14 23:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by date doctor MR. thala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋