should i run away from home?

Question

i cant stand my parents anymore.....i definetly cant stand my siblings, everything they say and do gets on my nerves! i dont feel like im happy or comfortable living with them...its a pain to wake up in the morning knowing that nothing new is going to happen, and if something does happen it isnt worth waking up for. I dont even want to study anymore.....this is my third year of college and theres definetly alot of work that im suppose to do. Its not that i dont understand my lessons because i do, its just that ive lost interest all of a sudden. nothing seems worth anything at all.....im sooooo bored i cant stand it

Answer 1

dont run away from home. i cant stand my siblings or my parents either but i still stick it out.Find a place that you can go and just sit and read a book,talk to friends on the phone, or just gather you thought. I go to the field in are sub...its so peacful there...and about college i cant really help you to much there because im still in high school.but if you dont think the college life is right for you right now then take a break and try other things..hope that helps

Answer 2

If you are in your third year of college then you can't run away from home but you can leave home. So if you are old enough to leave home and want to do so then you might be prepared to totally support yourself. So are you ready to get your own place, buy your own food, pay all your own utilities, pay for a car, car insurance etc. You can't just pack and move without some kind of plan and financial backing.

Might I suggest taking a break from college or changing your course of study. Have you tried talking to your parents and letting them know what is going on in your life and how you are feeling?

Don't jump into anything without thinking it out completely or else you might find yourself more miserable and deeper in trouble than you feel you are now.

Answer 3

If this is your third year of college, you are around 20 yrs old, so you aren't technically "running away." As an adult, If you don't want to live with them anymore, then leave. As long as you have enough money to pay your rent every month, food, clothing, medical expenses, utilities, etc, I don't see a problem. Your other option is to see a school counselor. Most colleges offer counselign services for free or very low cost. A counselor can help you sort things out and cope with the problems you are having at home.

Answer 4

Move on your parents are paying for your education. If you can manage with out anyone then just move youre an adult. If you are in college and have a job then maybe you can transfer to another state and remain estranged from your family. Right now you seem angry. You should be smart enough to know that this behavior is unhealthy and never solved anything. If after talking things over with them and if nothing changes get your own place.

Answer 5

Run away from home and then what? Sometimes making such decision is a perfect start for happy life... sometimes it is a mistake. I quess you will still have ability to come back if you left your parents, but I am almost certain it is going to hurt them. You say you are bored and dont want to make all usuall homework... hmmm, how is with your day plan? I guess there is time to chat, meet with friends, go dance somewhere, make some art (I recomend such hobby), do something crazy. I guess you just should focus how to cheer you up. Good luck :)

Answer 6

You are way to old to run away so MOVE OUT if your that unhappy. Or do your parents support you? sounds like your a spoiled brat and things aren't going your way. you are in your 3rd year of college it's time to be an adult. No one but you is responsible for your happiness. Think about how your parents or siblings feel, maybe they can't stand you either.

Answer 7

I was in a similar predicament when I was in my teens & I ran away from home for 2 weeks. I felt excited and happy when I was away and I did not think of home, school or family for that matter. I was free and everything was new and fun to me but gradually, I realised I was alone. The friends and people that I hanged out with had a place and family waiting for them at the end of the day. Eventually, I returned home and started working things out with lots of help from family and friends. Today, my parents & I are very close but there are also times, when we give each other breathing space and room to manoeuvre. I do not regret running away from home; I had to do it to discover what was important to me.

Answer 8

u should consider getting an apartment but dont runaway. if you cant get an apartment offer to your parent to stay with some relative the rest of college to kind of get the feeling of being on your own. but if you cant get away that way then every day thinkof some thing to look forward to like a boyfriend or a party you cant wait to go to

Answer 9

don't run away - that's not a solution.
3rd year of college? why not try and move into the dorm? or get roommates and move into a house or apartment?
get something to look forward to instead of focusing on the negative.
when you say "nothing new is going to happen" is that bad?
what new things do you want to happen?
what are you doing to make them happen?
nobody else is responsible for your own boredom - if you're bored it's because you are boring yourself. do something!

Answer 10

Even though I think college is worth it all maybe you just need a little break to think things out and just relax a bit. Or maybe take a little vacation away from the family to enjoy yourself. Sometimes a little vacation does wonders. good luck to you ;o)