Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

To hit or push your mother? Better explination- My friend got into a fight with her mother and hit her last night. She came over crying and really upset but she said that she could not take it anymore. My friend is 24 years old. I did not know what to tell her because my views is if you hit me i hit back mom or not Can anyone help on advise to give her?

2007-01-14 03:00:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im currently pregnant and im living in NY..does anyone know where i can go to get a free blood test and a sonogram to determine what day i was concieved ??? i currently have no insurance any advice would be bery helpful thank you...

2007-01-14 02:59:49 · 10 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

6 months ago I met a really special girl. I'm not very good with women and havent had many relationships. I have a real confidence problem.

I met this girl at my local dominoes club and we clicked straight away. We've been out on a few dates and have had some heavy petting but we've never slept together. She's putting pressure on me to have sex and I really want to. But I'm so scared. She doesn't know that I have an incontinence problem.

How do I tell her that I wear nappies?

2007-01-14 02:59:34 · 16 answers · asked by citrusbingbong 2 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend has no self confidence. He's 24 and has had it very rough, being homeless, money trouble etc. He has no family around and only a couple of friends. He is really trying to get back on track now, even giving up smoking which i am so proud of him. But like he says he'll never get a girlfriend cos these days they only want a guy with money and top jobs etc. I keep telling him that is not true but he won't have it. Thing is i have developed strong feelings for him but daren't say anything cos of the way he is. I also believe he really likes me but he won't say anything either cos of it too. He's often said if i say i like a famous guy that "he wouldn't be good enough". I know he feels confident around me, he's always mucking about an joking etc and he talks to me openly which is good but how can i make him see things differently? I think i've also made the mistake of flirting with him a bit too much but it was only to try and make him see i like him, what else can i do?

2007-01-14 02:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i moved from my country to switzerland, for my husband. we got married, and i got a job where i just started. now he wants to pay all the bills half him, half myself, even if he makes almost twice my salary. and he uses one of the rooms as his lawyer's office at home (he has an office downtown as well). And i am away more than he does, about 4 hours a day more than him, and i spend about 5-6 days a month away from home because of my business trips. Oh, and even if now we are 2, the rent is the same, in fact all the bills are the same as when he was all alone. thanks.

2007-01-14 02:58:44 · 28 answers · asked by Alexandra O 1 in Weddings

2007-01-14 02:58:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She hates when I go out on her but in reality shouldn't I be happy and if she doesn't like it then she needs to learn to.

2007-01-14 02:57:30 · 28 answers · asked by randall 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 02:55:53 · 16 answers · asked by andrei b 1 in Singles & Dating

like get a hair cut that makes me look my age (20, i look 16) wear make up, dress up a little, will guys notice this? I think it will also help my confidence. I know im cute (not conceited at all) but I just dont put the effort in

2007-01-14 02:55:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Short story. I am 40
My ex hid porn around the house for 15 years. Even though I was ok with being in the house. He had the desire to hide it.
My new bf talks to girls on IM behind me back. He knows I have a big issue with hiding things.
I know he has female friends on the game site he plays but some are not. I have asked him if he has nothing to hide to do it in front of me. He won’t. He never opens Yahoo IM or Yahoo mail when I am around.
He asked one of these girls out to lunch last year but that “girl” was me and he was busted.
He is talking to another girl now he met off the hi-5 website.
I can check when he logged in last but other than that I have no idea what is going on. I asked him about it and got no response. She is also his friend on Yahoo 360 so I am sure he has her on IM also
Is this cheating?
Again it is not the fact he has female friends it all has to due with him doing this behind my back.
When I am at work my friends check and he is on Yahoo IM

2007-01-14 02:55:09 · 25 answers · asked by G L 4 in Singles & Dating

I always thought the embarrasement of being reject by girl when i express my feeling, what should I do to minimize those feeling?

2007-01-14 02:54:38 · 13 answers · asked by rudy d 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well.I am in love with my best friend. Ive told my other friends that i like him, but then took it back, and said that i didnt like him anymore.I even tried to tell myself that idont like him anymore.but i just cant move past him.he likes someone else too, and it tears me apart. trhings will become insanely weird if i tell him.
what should i do?

2007-01-14 02:54:17 · 9 answers · asked by the ultimate lacrosse player 3 in Friends

2007-01-14 02:53:15 · 4 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't have any curtains in my kitchen. I keep giving the old guy next door a peep show. Is it ok not to tell my bf? Or should I stop before I kill the old guy?

2007-01-14 02:53:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 02:51:57 · 7 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

my oppinon is that I havent even tryed all yet..but the colour isnt important..its who and what he do that mather...

2007-01-14 02:51:54 · 21 answers · asked by sofiaa_k 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had to choose ONLY 1 for your friend, wish one would it be?

1) A healthy life
2) A famous life
3) A happy life
4) A life with his/her "soult mate"
5) A Successful and wealthy life
6) A life of service
7) A hard life
8) A life full of adventure and discovery

Javypeds,
Florida, USA
:->
http://360.yahoo.com/javypeds
javypeds@yahoo.com

2007-01-14 02:51:22 · 27 answers · asked by nowhere 3 in Friends

it is amazing how you think you know someone but really don't. I have met so many beautiful women who have weird thoughts and strange strange behaviors after I get to know them. Are there any NORMAL women left in this world?

2007-01-14 02:51:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 02:51:04 · 20 answers · asked by cool nerd 4 in Singles & Dating

I am engaged with a Navy Sailor, who would be transferring to the next duty station pretty soon. I would want to get married to him and go with him whever he will be stationed at. However, I am in a middle of education, only a half way done with a bachelor's degree. I also have a lot of things and jobs I want to try. Will being a military wife limit my future career? I would love to have advices from the experienced ladies!! I am getting very stressed because of this uncertainty and frustration between love and reality.
Help!

2007-01-14 02:50:23 · 14 answers · asked by Yoko 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee has a friend who was visitng over Christmas and stayed at our house for over 3 weeks. His family lives in our town and all he does is stay in the spare bedroom and sleep or play on the computer or lounge in the living room watching football. When he is in town my fiancee and him maybe hang out once every three days for an hour or so, but the remainder of the time it is like my house is a hotel for him where he doesn't have to pay a thing. My fiancee extended the long welcome without discussing it with me and when it came to three weeks I said he needed to go, but my fiancee doesn't understand my needing some space and the idea of overtaying a welcome. Just curious to see what everyone thinks is an acceptable length of time for someone to visit before they overtay their welcome? Thank you for any help!

2007-01-14 02:49:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-14 02:48:59 · 20 answers · asked by rosemary r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We're not a close family and so I saw a lot of relatives that I haven't seen in years. In particular I really clicked with my uncle's wife. (whom I havent seen since I was a small boy). After lots of alcohol we both ended up very drunk and were flirting with each other even though she is 30 years my senior. We drank too much and she had an argument with her husband, who left. She suggested that I meet her in her room later.

I got sidetracked and went up to meet her much, much later. Her door was unlocked and I crept in to bed beside her. We didnt have full sex but I did do some other things - I don't remember much.

Anyway I left to go to my own room after. In the morning after much commotion the maid discovered my aunt still in bed. She had passed away. I'm only just coming to terms with that but when I think back to that night I realise that she didnt make very much noise or move much when I wanked her off.

Did I poke a corpse?

2007-01-14 02:48:34 · 10 answers · asked by citrusbingbong 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The man I slept with for 2 yrs told me 3 wks ago that he up and left because he saw no future for us and now has emailed me to say Hi. Why would he do this if he basically told me it was over?

2007-01-14 02:47:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 02:47:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 02:46:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bubble baths, candles, dinner by the fire; what do you think is the most romantic way?

2007-01-14 02:46:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I live in a rural town with a population of 400, and this girl lives just out of town. For those who have fancy resaurants or theaters to go to on a first date, we don't have this stuff here. I'm 14, she's just a few months younger. I don't talk to her much, just a "morning" in the morning at school, most of the time. What should I do to get her to have more feelings towards me?

2007-01-14 02:46:15 · 16 answers · asked by Chris W 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 02:45:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

And you can't remove yourself from the situation due to current circumstances beyond your control, otherwise you would have already done so. Yet said person drives you to constantly have malicious thoughts that you would never have otherwise. And everyone you talk to about the situation tries to convince you that you are making the whole thing up simply to get attention because they don't believe this person could possibly be capable of such.

2007-01-14 02:45:30 · 5 answers · asked by Cinnamon 6 in Family