Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

I met a guy at work, he is good looking guy, the guy that all girls from my work got crush on him. But the problem is he god crush on me and he knows that i am merried (not availble). He is all the time nice to me, even when i am not nice to him. I like to be his friend but i don't think that what he wants, he wants more then friends...please help me somehow i don't wanna say somthing to hurt his feelings or distroy my merrige.

2007-01-14 03:51:34 · 15 answers · asked by Mely 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here's the thing, my wife and I got married in October and things have been fine for the most part. I'm 22 and she's 20 years old and we both have good jobs. Lately things have been getting to me big time with her. For instance, she gets about 15 calls a day on her phone from either her sister, her mom, or someone else under a restricted number and it's getting old. I told her i was tired of it but she just said that it's her family and I have to deal with it. Also, last night at work she had a guy ask her out to a movie knowing she was married and pregnant, and she didn't say a word to him. So that kinda got under my skin and we got in an arguement. So doing what she always does when that happens, she leaves the house and goes wherever. Well when she did that she got car problems on her brand new eclipse, and instead of calling me, she called her dad for help and for him to pick her up. I cannot deal with this anymore from her! She's acting like a child, what should i do?

2007-01-14 03:51:00 · 19 answers · asked by Brian L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 03:50:54 · 4 answers · asked by whtmt501 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 03:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by philisophical 1 in Singles & Dating

We all have pet peeves and habits.

2007-01-14 03:50:21 · 18 answers · asked by Goodfella 1 in Singles & Dating

My b/f is in ohio visiting his Family he really didn't want to go...he gets back the 16th and than he leaves for training in missouri on the 18th he won't be back til april and this was the last weekend we had to see each other . Before he left he told me "if you want me to stay i will I told him to go because i would go if it was my grandma. Well he went out with an old friend from high school and he told me about it i was fine til i found out it was a girl i didn't let him know it bothered me. I trust him i just don't trust other women. I knew he would go out and hang with some of his old friends but should i have told him i wanted to stay? I mean we won't see each other for almost 3 months

2007-01-14 03:49:57 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I kinda let myself go over the last few years. I use to have rock solid abs but now it is more of a keg looking gut......I am not obese but need to lose about 30-40 lbs.....does it matter to you women? I am very clean and smell good.

2007-01-14 03:49:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lis it looks?? personaity?? ......u tell me

2007-01-14 03:48:34 · 6 answers · asked by kate m 1 in Singles & Dating

Help! My boyfriend and I have been living togehter for 3 years and now he wants me to help him pay his child support. All of our living expenses are spit down the middle and then we are each responsible for all of our own bills...credit cards, car insurance, car payments etc. I don't think It is my responsibility to have to pay for his kid!!! When we moved in together we talked about what bills we would share and which bills we would pay ourselves. Child support was one bill I would not agree to share! How do I tell him I am not helping him with his child support I have my own bills to pay and I am on a very strict budget with my money. Everytime we discuss his child support we get into a big fight.

2007-01-14 03:47:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why is it that i can tell someone i don't know too well more about myself than i can tell my best friends? i mean i trust my friends.

2007-01-14 03:46:36 · 15 answers · asked by rainyday<3 3 in Friends

how i get him to talk to me again.. sigh...we met online however, its been weeks sinces he stopped talking to me .. now i dont know what i did to deserve this.. what i do?? he doesnt reply to my emails.. i jus miss him.. need some1 to talk to :(!! I need some1 to be friend even maybe?? i dont know.. to much to ask for prob..

thanks anyways

shawn

2007-01-14 03:46:32 · 10 answers · asked by Shawn Miller 1 in Friends

Seems like I always end up being the nerdy-type guy and having emotions...I wanna be stronger like some of these other guys I see

2007-01-14 03:45:59 · 18 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 03:45:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl was my best friend for a while, then one day i acsidentially called her stupid, which is compulsory for me and she knew that. but when i had reallized what i had done, i appologized immediatly, but she just slapped me upside the head as hard as she could and walked away. I didnt want her to be mad at me so i appologized again later, but she just yelled at me, and hasnt talked to me since then, and this was late november, early december of last year, what should i do?

2007-01-14 03:44:01 · 19 answers · asked by smartree16 2 in Friends

I just recently made a new male friend at a little party. We exchanged numbers as friends. Just a few days ago I called him for the hell of it and he asked me if I wanted to hang out. It was kind of late, but I was bored. He picked me up we talked and drove around then I went to his place. We were just blabbing and me losing my virginty and me wishing I didn't was brought up. He was comfoting me, and held my hand. We went into talking about his pervious reletionships. He was being nice and patted/rubbing me on the back a little. Was he hitting on me? Was he just being nice? His friend I met him through told me after they left he said I was nice. He's been single for 2 years. He's 25 and I'm 20 and will be 21 in 3 months. I would maybe like to get to know him more, as a friend. Does it sound like he likes me? Was he flirting?

2007-01-14 03:43:38 · 3 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Friends

That is the last time i give her £2 to feed her and the kids .
She bought Birds Eye and Heinz instead of buying smart price so i only got 30p change..

Do you think she was to extravagant???

sh.t i just dropped my chinese takeaway on my lap

2007-01-14 03:43:09 · 35 answers · asked by William H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm wondering how much free time most working people have per day after all of the bills are payed, household chores, and errands are done. Is there any websites or books or anything that suugest ways to get more free time? Who has more free time, single or married people? What about two income households?

2007-01-14 03:42:35 · 3 answers · asked by LanceMiller77 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-01-14 03:41:48 · 3 answers · asked by Faby 1 in Friends

2007-01-14 03:40:56 · 19 answers · asked by DeeAnn w 2 in Family

Some of my friends become rude or selfish after they have girl/boy friend. Why they became like that? Until few of my friends forgot me just because of few month didn't contact, why?

2007-01-14 03:40:22 · 3 answers · asked by whyman 1 in Friends

2007-01-14 03:38:48 · 3 answers · asked by krip402002 2 in Marriage & Divorce

About 10 years ago I cheated with a married man I got pregnant he then left his wife and married me we now have two children together. I was talking to my girlfriend and she told me that my marriage is not valid in God's eyes is that true.

2007-01-14 03:37:55 · 13 answers · asked by Divine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My GF asked a smooch from me . . .. . .. and this wud b my first time and may be hers tooo.......

I wanna know should i start smooching her .. . . .. .

2007-01-14 03:37:38 · 25 answers · asked by Aki 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3+ years has been working overnights for the last month and some. He's hated it, and he finishes the overnight stuff in the middle of February. We are already getting a nice hotel room to spoil ourselves for Valentine's Day, and he's taking the week off to enjoy being on a normal schedule.

But I want to do something really nice for him. I don't care too much about price (well, something under $150 ideally), but I was thinking something less material.

Yes, I know. A bj is always an option.

Ideas? Guys, feedback? He's a computer nerd if that helps any. He's also in his mid-30s, so no ideas good for teenagers, please.

Thanks!

2007-01-14 03:36:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My half sister isn't that close to me. She told me last year that she was pregnant and I was very excited for her. 10 months later I get a blank card with the baby's picture on it, no message, no phone call. I don't seem to mean much even though I try to make every effort. I suppose it's because I had her father as I grew up and she didn't? I wish I could be friendly with her. Is this common with half siblings? Any suggestions to connect with her?

2007-01-14 03:36:15 · 10 answers · asked by salieri.mozart 2 in Family

I have just found a series of texts on my partners phone which confirms she's very 'popular' with the men at her work. She denies any impropriety and says she "does'nt know why she sent the texts". Because of other known lies, coincidences and contradictions over the past two years I have reason to seriously believe that at least one colleague has been the subject of her attention. However, she is right in one respect....I do not have any concrete proof (as she says). Do I really need 'Concrete Proof?!!).

2007-01-14 03:36:02 · 30 answers · asked by JohnH(UK) 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She is married and her and my neihbor had an attraction to each other. She is not happy in her marriage and my neighbor compensates for the husband in his attention to her, which she loves. She finds so many excuses to come to my house to see him, sometimes at night. I suspect they had sex but don't want to ask. I am concerned because this neihbor got sex, and now I see him with another woman. I told my friend and she got upset. My neighbor said he was just friends with the other woman yet I see she spent the night last night. I think my neihbor is just using my friend for sex and possibly trying to break up the marriage. How do I get her to believe this?

2007-01-14 03:35:57 · 13 answers · asked by Teddy Bear 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Well theres this guy that i met during the summer and we were wicked good friends. We like had like a really special bond together(as friends). Even when he found out i had a crush on him everything was the same. But then school started and he never talked to me.O ya were both in 8th grade. My friend asked him on the bus if he liked me and he said he did a little. Though even when i walk right by him he never says hi. During february vacation i'm going to the camp where we met in and i'm afraid how hes going to react. What should i do to get him to really like me?

2007-01-14 03:35:48 · 2 answers · asked by singyourheartout =) 1 in Singles & Dating

I have answered a lot of questions on here... but this is something I tried to help with and I'm not sure it worked.

A friend was upset about an online overseas relationship that didn't work out (surprise, surprise), and said she wanted to kill herself. I explained to her that it wouldn't solve anything, it was like driving a car into a ravine because you lost your job, or shooting yourself in the foot because you stub your toe. It doesn't make sense, and all her friends and family would be so hurt and upset and feel just horrible if she were to do so. I explained that feeling bad is better than feeling nothing at all forever.

I tried everything I could think of to convince her, but honestly she started to make me scared and upset, and right now I am absolutely an emotional wreck. I can't even talk to her right now because of how deathly serious she was.

What the hell do you do in a situation like this when nothing works?

I don't know her full name so I can't call the cops.

2007-01-14 03:35:06 · 7 answers · asked by askthepizzaguy 4 in Friends

cos am too quiet and he is not use to girls like dt

2007-01-14 03:34:40 · 14 answers · asked by Wey 1 in Singles & Dating