why is it that i can tell someone i don't know too well more about myself than i can tell my best friends? i mean i trust my friends.
2007-01-14 03:46:36 · 15 answers · asked by rainyday<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The risk of telling someone you dont know very well isnt very great. If they think bad or different of you then who cares,but if a trusted friend thinks different of you, you might lose their respect. But if your friends really are good friends they will accept you as you are. Sounds like you need to talk about things in your life to get oppions from others,to confirm what you think about your feelings . Hope this helps.
2007-01-14 03:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by ezrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think sometimes it is easier to talk to a stranger. For example, look at all of us here in Yahoo Answers. If we say something and someone judges us, who cares? We don't have to interact with each other on a daily basis like we do with friends.
2007-01-14 12:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by leahcutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not say you trust your friend if you can not tell them about yourself. you afraid of their judgement if they know about you. this is the right time to know whether they are your friend or not.
i tell all my friend about myself. in fact my life si like a story book where my frieind can see and read it. i never hide things from my friend. and if they have problem with it then it's their problem not mine. as long as i don't do bad things then i see no reson for not telling them.
you can always find new friend if you think they are not good enough for you.
2007-01-14 13:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by daniiisme!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you do trust your friends to an extent, but it sounds like to me that you are afraid they may judge you or ask to many questions, maybe be to nosey in to your business, or they may give you an opinion that you don't want to hear becuz they know you better than a stranger.
2007-01-14 11:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by alleybug_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it easier to talk to someone that you dont have that level of intimacy (sexual or not) with. your best friends know so much about you and the way you think about yourself....usually a stranger doesnt know all of your details...and manipulate them to tell you want you want to hear
2007-01-14 11:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by outofmymind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those closest to us tend to judge us more and are more critical. A lot of times we feel we less to lose with someone we have no connection to.
2007-01-14 13:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by TritanBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you won't see them again. maybe because they care a lot less about you so let it go in one ear and out the other. could be a lot of things
2007-01-14 11:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by swamp elf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the stanger doesnt know your friends, to tell them what you say.
2007-01-14 11:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacuse we are too self conscious of what our best friends would think of us.
2007-01-14 12:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by blaak_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you felt like that sumone is trustworthy.. it happens lots of times especially when your friends are not around and you cant talk to them... your instinct just tell you that sumone is trustworthy...
2007-01-14 11:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋