Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

okay at the third year of high school I was a shy,quiet girl who becomes friends with another quiet,shy girl lets name her monica.After a while we were like best friends forever,but she became really annoying she was really negative and she basically ditched me and when she wanted to go home because she didnt feel good I told her to go home but then she said I dont want too and ditched me,shes so insecure and negative!well I stopped talking to her,and the fourth year of high school I became depressed because of some personal stuff and I always feel depressed and lonely eventhough I have more than 15 friends and are always with me.Is this karma?

2007-01-14 04:24:55 · 2 answers · asked by Blueoctober M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I saw a woman for the past 9 months. She lied to me about her past and when she told me the truth, I took her to God and I am convinced she is a Christian. I have forgiven her for not telling the truth about her past, but she also flirted with 2 guys while we were going out. The problem I have now is the following: My brain tells me that it is impossible to flirt with someone while you truly love someone else. I am now worried that she never truly loved me, and that there is no way that she will be able to leave me now, because of all the hurt she put me though. And at the same time, if she leaves me, she will have to explain her past to the new boy friend again. I saw her today and it was great, because we didnt talk about the flirting problem, but inside it haunts me to death, wondering if she is with me because the loves me, or because to her I am such a strong support that can, with the help of God, help her through anything.

2007-01-14 04:24:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Friend of mine told me last night that he spent three houndred bucks on a chick last week on a date. That dumb punk is seeing that chick since last one month and he hasn't seal the deal yet. I told him that I felt sorry for him. I told him that if he manages to get a lay with that chick, then don't mess with that chick anymore coz she is a golddigger. My friend got mad at me and told me that I have no respect for chicks. He got upsets and told me that he loves that chick. I laughed and walked off saying that chick was using him. Should I feel sorry for him coz I told him the truth.

2007-01-14 04:24:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that there is someone in your life who cares about you more than he/she cares about himself/herself???

Do you believe in such love? Where you would love someone and care about him/her more than your own self, and he/she would feel the same towards you???

2007-01-14 04:23:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Gf and I have been having hard times communicating with each other as she claims to be depressed. Yesterday I ask her out to a movie as if it were our first date... three hous later she text me on my cel that she was at the beach with her cousin and husband... no apology , nothing... she has yet to call me up. Should I forget about her or the incident?

2007-01-14 04:23:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im really nervous and i dont no how.

2007-01-14 04:22:44 · 5 answers · asked by GoBlue!MikeHart! 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a relationship and we had a baby like 8 months ago. I checked his phone records because I have already in the past found him to be unfaithful. So in these phone records I find out that he's repeatedly calling females. He called one the day I had the baby. And it shows that every time he goes out he is calling other women on top of this I found a picture of a girls hmm....."thang". Nice big close up shot of her "thang" send from her to him. I confronted him and he denies a lot of things. There's a day in particular that he was suppose to be some where and clearly wasn't he won't tell me anything except he can't remember. He said he wants to start over he is sorry. But it is on my mind ALL OF THE TIME!! I am on a constant alert "What is he doing? Who is he talking to? Where was he at? Is that her over there I think he looked at her?" It's like I'm now in hell. My mind has me in a prison of it's own. It's physically and mentally making me sick. I don't' know what to do!!

2007-01-14 04:21:52 · 16 answers · asked by Uriko 1 in Singles & Dating

height, weight, age and sex? It's for my son's statistics homework, so you can tell the truth, lol!

2007-01-14 04:21:06 · 7 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Singles & Dating

10 year old live-in Step Daughter moved in w/me and her dad . We met at that time b/c she was in another country, culture, religion and spoke zero English. Now she's been here 1 year and here's a sampling of her questions: When given a gift “Where did you get this? How much did it cost?” She sees your prescription meds “What are these for?” Or “Why do you have a Dr appt.?” Seeing a picture of your best friend who's heavy-set and weighs apprx. 300 LBS, “Oh my God why is she so BIG?! (In disgust). She asks “Why don’t you have a job?” if you work “How much do you make?” When you are on the PC she’s constantly trying to see what you're typing and/or read your email. The new-agey parents who claim that I do owe her answesr to these intrusive questions, b/c she has a right to know why I don’t work (outside the home) or what meds I take. I tend to disagree b/c an adult asking me these things would get cussed out. Her father won't address it and says no counseling. How would you handle this?

2007-01-14 04:20:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-14 04:18:45 · 10 answers · asked by rupa k 2 in Friends

lately my husband has been trying really hard to go fishing with one of his buddies (who is a jerk to his own wife and always cheats on her) and he finally went this morning. he never goes out becouse we usually do things together. he was being very rude to me this morning when i asked him not to drink (he is still underaged). he didnt even say bye when he left. lately we havent been intimate ever, and even if i try i get the sholder. he is such a lier. he always lies but i catch him because guys are bad liers. what is your opnion? i have tried talking but i just get mocked because he never takes me serisisoly...

2007-01-14 04:18:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i broke up with my boyfriend about 4 years ago. i went 2 an old church i used 2 go 2 then i saw him their. i was with my friend thier then he just cut in between us 2 hug my friend. my friend said their is stephanie and he said the last time i saw her she did not want 2 talk 2 me. then he came 2 me and huged me and said hi and how r u doing. i told my friend that i wanted his number she said she will ask him if he want 2 give me his number. and he said yes. i called him but he just came from work and he wanted to take a shower and go 2 bed. i said ok i will just call him the next day. i did he had 2 go out i said whatever i will just call him the next day i did but there was no answer. i was thinking does he even want 2 talk 2 me. if he did not want 2 talk 2 me why would he give me his number. what should i do? should i still call him or just leave him alone.

2007-01-14 04:17:59 · 2 answers · asked by stephanie s 1 in Singles & Dating

ohk theres this boy in my class and i really like him but he is always makin fun of me sometimes i wonder why i like him but sometimes he is nice to me,and well i am lost because he thinks i am wierd.and he is going out with my best friend.i need help here..!

2007-01-14 04:17:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My name is Chanel and I'm 15. I had sex with this guy named Ben who is 26, and now I'm pregnant (3 months, the doctor said).. He told me that he will take me home from work but he took me to his house. He started telling me things and I believed him... I told him I should not be here but he just pushed me on his bed and started doing things to me that I shouldn't be doing till I'm married.. But I didn't know what to do, I just layed there letting him do that to me.. My dad is going crazy right now.. telling ben that he is going to kill him.. I'm scared and I don't know what to do..... Ben also told me he was going to hit me in the stomach.. Can he do that??

A lot of people said its rape but I don't know.... I don't wait him to go to jail, because he is very nice to me and is my friend...

Ben and my father were friends, but now they are not.... Is this all my fault?? I'm a bad person...

Can I put the baby up for adoption?

2007-01-14 04:17:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have a language student staying through a language school. We get paid for it and provide half board. He is from Korea, 26 and is pleasant enough. However, in 3 months in Brighton he has hardly been out apart from going to lessons in the mornings. He sits in his room and does not go out to do anything. I have asked him why he does not go out but he just shrugs and said he would go sightseeing in summer! Is this normal behaviour? Why doesn't he go out and enjoy being here? Should I not bother? I find it annoying as feel it is a waste of money him being here and not taking any interest in the culture or what the country has to offer. Should I say something or just leave him be?

2007-01-14 04:17:17 · 13 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my gf have a problem. we are wanting to be together more than anything but their are majob problems. she is the sole income for her aunt and shes tired of supporting her aunt but shes a good person and wont leave her to rot (sorta speak) she is a person that is a pleaser and likes to please everyone. her job is causing her alot of trouble and so much stress but she cant leave because of what i said before. and she is on the verge of a nervous break down and im just about long side her. please i need help what do i do. do i go get her and take her with me to my place to live, do i ask her to do it, do i go live with her, im just so confused i need help. please help me. i want to be with her and she wants to be with me and i want her to be happy more than anything and i want us to be together. help us please

2007-01-14 04:17:00 · 12 answers · asked by lxahlers 2 in Singles & Dating

on a business trip a few months ago, i met a sales rep who is in my line of work. we hit it off immediately, and we ended up making out heavily, no sex, for several hours. well, since that night, he hasnt left my mind. i dont get it, hes married and i know it, but i want to see him again, the chemistry was so strong, it was like nothing ive ever felt. he lives about 5 hours from me, and i dont want him to leave his wife and children,but i miss him terribly and i want to see him. help?

2007-01-14 04:16:56 · 31 answers · asked by gingerb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just saw a show about a soldier who was burned beyond recognition by a suicide bomber. His wife is sticking by him. I'm just wondering if that is always the case?

2007-01-14 04:16:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 04:15:53 · 19 answers · asked by kay,kay 1 in Family

Okay, I want a divorce.. Problem is , he does not know this yet. I have been saving money, I have my name on a waiting list for an apartment. That way, I am ready to move out when the time is right. Do I hit him with the divorce first or the separation first?
This entire situation makes me very nervous. I dont know how he will take this news. Has anyone been in this situation before?

2007-01-14 04:15:49 · 15 answers · asked by lucky_one_happy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live with my boyfriend in his house.
I don't pay my way simply becuase he doesn't let me have a say in decorating etc. It has to be his way.
He always states that its his house. He paid for it, and won't ever put me on the mortgage.
I've bought brand new appliances i.e kitchen untensils, new fridge freezer etc. and now he wants me out because I occasionally forget to pick up the jumper on the floor or decide to rest because I work from 4 in the morning instead of constantly cleaning up.
What should I do?

2007-01-14 04:15:32 · 25 answers · asked by leffers55 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lately my friend has been boring and her jokes are so not funny,shes so annoying and rude to me acting like a smart ***(sorry for the language)what should I do?I dont wanna hurt her feeling.Did this ever happen to you?

2007-01-14 04:13:47 · 21 answers · asked by Blueoctober M 1 in Friends

I was shocked to find out how complicated the whole process was after reading this article. I'm not sure why it's such a big deal since it's not really hurting anything, but I was curious how others feel.

Do You think it is ok for a man to take his wifes last name instead? And Why?

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/16599140/?GT1=8921

2007-01-14 04:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by angelkiss95670 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 04:12:33 · 27 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is just a chain of usage...... a girl rachel used a guy named Gage to get to a Guy named Alex, and alex used rachel to get to me. So do you think he is really worth dating? ( this all happened in less than a month)

2007-01-14 04:12:22 · 16 answers · asked by Tweety girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 04:11:48 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like in movies they are like ive got baggage .....!?

2007-01-14 04:10:44 · 9 answers · asked by Crazystuff <3 1 in Family

Perhaps you havent found a use for it or you have too many of the same stuff....

2007-01-14 04:10:39 · 31 answers · asked by Krishna 4 in Singles & Dating

5'2''-5'5'', 5'6''-5'9'', 5'10''-6'2'' , 6'3''-6'6'' , 6'7''-6'10'' , 6'11''-7'1'' or anything higher

2007-01-14 04:10:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my friends pressured me into 3-way calling / 4 people talking on the phone. They have a problem with this girl. They litsened in while I had talked to her. Do you think I should tell her whats really going on. Am I a bad person? I feel so guilty. Should I have done that to me friend?

2007-01-14 04:10:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends