Well my friends pressured me into 3-way calling / 4 people talking on the phone. They have a problem with this girl. They litsened in while I had talked to her. Do you think I should tell her whats really going on. Am I a bad person? I feel so guilty. Should I have done that to me friend?
2007-01-14 04:10:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, why would you do something like that? What kind of friend are you? You honestly think that this whole situation will make you feel better if you tell her what was really going on? I'm not trying to fuss at you or anything but you should have thought about that before you've done it. These so-called people whom you call your "friends" are not your friends. You should dump them and find new friends who will not make you do anything against your own will. Then, you could tell her, if you decide to. It is all up to you. Try putting yourself into her shoes. This would really hurt her. I really wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-14 04:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are now feeling bad over what you did, and to make your self feel better about it you want to tell her?? what you should be doing is telling these so-called friend that had you do it that they are not real friends and stop hanging out with them for starters. then only after doing that should you go to your other friend and tell her what you did and say that your sorry( is you even are) and tell her that your no longer going to hang out with these other girls.don't be surprised if you don't have her as a friend either. but to me if this happens that she nor any of the others are your friends then you have truly learned a lesson.
2007-01-14 12:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have a problem with this girl let thme deal with it do not make it your problem too. You should not have done that to your friend but we all get pressured into things we later regret. If she is your friend stick up for her, would you want to be treated that way?
2007-01-14 13:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by TritanBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldnt have done that to your friend..whether you tell them or not is on you..but how would you feel in their shoes..Ill say thats some pretty shady **** and I wouldnt be friends with you..honest opinion here..
2007-01-14 12:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really bugs you, you should tell them that. If it bugs you you know that's it's wrong. If they don't believe that then maybe you hanging out with the wrong people.
2007-01-14 12:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and quit playing games , players only lose in the end
2007-01-14 12:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by BajaRick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend are you if you dont tell her, you should think about that.
2007-01-14 12:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u are a bad person
2007-01-15 17:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by ben h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never have done that to your friend. its very low. she trusted you. now i say you tell her everything and hope she forgets you
2007-01-14 12:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bruno S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some one did that to mee and i was hurt and i didnt talk to them again. so tell her wats goin on its better for her to find out from you than another person. i wish for u to never do that agian because i wen threw that hurt and i dont want any other girl to go threw wat i did. please tell her. nad dont do it again
2007-01-14 12:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by binky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋