Lately my friend has been boring and her jokes are so not funny,shes so annoying and rude to me acting like a smart ***(sorry for the language)what should I do?I dont wanna hurt her feeling.Did this ever happen to you?
2007-01-14 04:13:47 · 21 answers · asked by Blueoctober M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I have three bestfriends, but lately one has become extremely annoying and she talks alot when it is really not needed. I am getting tired of her. My other two friends are just fine, they are cool and I never get bored with them, I just can't stand the talking my other friend does so much.
2007-01-14 04:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Diabla 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter how much you love your friend, if you spend too much time with them, you will probably get bored of them. spend some time alone, or with other friends. suggest that she do the same. be very careful in how you say it, though. you dont want to hurt her feelings, and this can be a touchy subject. perhaps the reason that she is being a smart *** is because she is getting sick of being around you all the time too. take a break from each other. that way, when you do hang out again, you will have new experiences and things to talk about.
2007-01-14 13:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some times it happens. This is not your fault, in fact we some times don’t understand one's character so well, and later on as we get to familiarize more with her, then we feel she is not the one we want to be with. You can just make excuses as not to be with her, and show a bit more of seriousness. By the time she will understand why are you escaping from her, and that will not hurt her feelings either.
Or, if she is an honest type of person, then don’t loose her friendship, instead tell her directly what bothers you about her, and see if you can reach to a mutual understanding. Remember there might be some points she doesn’t like in you, and she is hesitating in telling you too. That may bring you two a bit more close in friendship and reduce your stress about her too.
2007-01-14 12:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by Alkahest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it did happen to me and still does! I think the best is to slowly distance yourself, not completely, but maybe socialise with another group, this will give you new things to talk about. If you are always together you run out of news and things do get boring.
2007-01-14 12:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by bevbester 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same position we both hurt each other this time i been trying to reach out to her only to have her give me attitude she is rude and keeps playing on my emotions too. its happening to me right now i told her i'mr eady to say good bye too bad we had alot in common and i got to know her well now everythings changed sad that's life i did all i can do to save that friendship if she wants to grow up so we can talk fine i just give up. sometimes ya gotta move one.
2007-01-14 13:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea actually this has happened to me and ma friends she was saying rude jokes so one day she crossed the limit and at lunch when she went to sit ith us we said the table was full so she left crying then we alll went to her and explained the problem how shes been acting and she understood and know where all b.f.f. again
2007-01-14 13:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by Te Amo PaRA SIeMPrE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure has and usually I put some distance between them and I. I spend less time around them and then I am less annoyed. If they get real bad I tell them so because if it gets to out hand everything gets destroyed.
2007-01-14 13:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by TritanBear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the more time you spend with people who are close to you the bigger the chance you will argue or fight with them. it's part of the relation itself. if you can settle it then it will make the relation stronger.
but sometime you need to be on your own. and at the time like this, you just need to be on your own for awhile. then when you meet up again with her, both of you would have so much story to tell each other.
2007-01-14 12:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by daniiisme!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that sometimes I think you're maturing that's all. I mean you should tell your friend how you feel and that sometimes you want your space or be left alone and if she can't handle that she doesn't deserve to be your friend
2007-01-14 16:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that once.I just ingored her for a while.Then,it would get worse.I just told her about it,and I told her to not take it in a bad way.
2007-01-14 13:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋