Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

in response to my previous question 'I live in my boyfriends house'

I do most of the cleaning day in day out, even thought I'm up from 4am daily.

2007-01-14 04:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by leffers55 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this friend who's really excited about getting into real estate investing. Recently, she confirmed on buying a property, but the house will only be hers in 2 months time. I feel like I wanted to tell her it's a bad deal, after I went and check it out. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that the place needs a lot of work. The house was built in the 1800s, and the basement was terrible, and need lots of work. I'm not being -tive abt it, but I really don't think she can do this. She's gonna hurt a lot! I'm willing to help her do all the paintings and fixing up, but I'm not confident that the house is gonna worth anything. And also, the house is located in a bad neighbourhood. Should I tell her about all this, cos she seems very excited to do the project now? Or should I support her all the way to the end. We're not THAT close, and I almost feel it's not my place to say anything bad about the property.

2007-01-14 04:37:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-14 04:37:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my question is we hadnt spoken in almost 5 years I found out a couple months ago we werent leagally married. And I found out he died from an ex-friend who hooked up with him. Before he and I split. So Im not sure how to feel? Do I feel sad or is it ok to to not really feel bad? I had and still have alot of ill will towards him and her. And now she wants to br friends again. Do I just let it go now because he's dead?

2007-01-14 04:37:10 · 7 answers · asked by Heather H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 04:37:06 · 14 answers · asked by Lindsey S 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl and frankly this is my second time feeling to go for it, well, this ain't any ordinary cases...I only get the chance to see her for 3 hours each day and I don't really get the chance to talk to her since she is always busy with her work and all...And the most frustrating part is, she is going to leave for another 3 weeks!
Looks like luck isn't on my side at all!Anybody please....

2007-01-14 04:35:25 · 4 answers · asked by Nivek 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So Im w/ somebody and so is this other girl. We'll use my name as "D" and hers as "K". She likes me, alot, and Im starting to really like her too. We talk alot, and have been hanging out w/o the 2 people were both w/ knowing. Her boyfriend happens to be one of my friends though, not like my best friend but were alright. Hes had my back in alot of sh!t the past few weeks and Ive had his on other sh!t too, fighting side by side; haha sometimes getting our @sses beat but sometimes beating the dudes to hell and back.

I dont know what to do though. He really likes her, but I do too. She doesnt really like him anymore, and its not that I dont like my girlfriend, I do. But yeah I dunno I really like this other girl that happens to be w/ my friend. Shes always talking about her brekaing up w/ him, and me breaking up w/ my girl so we can get together but I dont know if I should do that to her boyfriend. What can I do here?

2007-01-14 04:35:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the other day my best friend that she love my boyfriend what should i do.

2007-01-14 04:35:04 · 7 answers · asked by sporty chick 1 in Singles & Dating

I am now 29 years of age and have been in many relationships but they all end up with the same issue. I am being honest and would appreciate a little caring...so if you must make fun, please go elsewhere. I have a very large penis, I mean a little over 15 inches and approximately 10 inches in diameter. Most women or at least all of the women that I've been with get a kick out of it and to some it is a turn-on until the reality hits and it becomes an issue. This has pain me all my life to the point that I've seeked medical attention without any results. I think that I am falling in love the woman that I am with now and we have been very open about everything except my issue. It has been fairly difficult to not try anything with her (its been 3 months)...I am tired of being lonely but at the end, it is impossible to keep a relationship without sex...Any opinions as to how I can break it to her without losing her?

2007-01-14 04:33:49 · 8 answers · asked by Know what you mean 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is in the highest level of choir at our school. He has to dance with this girl during one of the songs they sing. A slow-dance type of dancing but a little more difficult then that, with added movements that you have to memorize. So he's going to be working with this girl for a few weeks and it makes me really uneasy, even though I trust him. Whenever I think about him and some other girl touching while dancing it makes my stomach hurt plus I have this pain in the side of my head. I know nothings going to happen(we've been together for 6 1/2 years) but I hate it when I know some other girl gets to touch him, especially dance with him in that manner! And the fact that he will be touching her. I don't care who she is, or how innocent it is, it just disgusts me to the point of actually being physically ill.

2007-01-14 04:33:25 · 4 answers · asked by tranquil.dream 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have read a lot and have seen a lot of things on here but i want to know for myself. what is it that women expect out of their husbands/

2007-01-14 04:32:53 · 26 answers · asked by young grown man 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 04:31:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In my past, I've had quite a number of Italian women ask me out....more than any other nationality. I was wondering what REALLY do Italian women look for in guys? Do I have some qualities that they really like? I'm not saying that a particular nationality or background likes certain things in the opposite sex, I'm just asking if there are certain qualities that Italian women like in men?

2007-01-14 04:31:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do all teenagers get annoyed with their parents? when i was younger, i never cared what they said to me, but now i get annoyed for the slightest things. i mean, it's as if whatever they do annoys me! i love them, but still i feel like running away or something. i feel like i just want to get away from them even though i don't want to feel that way. does everyone go through this stage when they're teenagers?

2007-01-14 04:31:09 · 17 answers · asked by i like turtles 3 in Family

2007-01-14 04:31:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf of three months is a strange fellow
He is always always busy so we hardly talk for for five ten mins each day and sometimes not at all. He returns my calls,fine and calls me too. But his calls are always short. Then when I am sure he is seeing someone else or something else is wrong, he would call up and sound so vulnerable and 'in love'. He never makes any plans to meet, when i make plans, he usually obliges. WHAT IS HAPPENING HERE.. How can anyone every be sooo busy!!

2007-01-14 04:30:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If there could be a song written for you and all you've been through what would be the title of the song?

2007-01-14 04:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not really one for getting involved in all this celebrity stuff but the very romantic and at times naive side of me always thought JT and Cameron would be together forever ?

Have you ever mutually split from someone and still remained friends or did you just say it was so to get everyone off your back ?

2007-01-14 04:28:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or young i should say. i know.
er be honest but try to be nice about it please. go to my 360 to see. thanks

2007-01-14 04:27:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 25 and my husband is 28. We have been married almost 7 years. I am at a point in my life where I am done with being a "kid". We have a son who is 3. I am very responsible and grounded and ready to settle down. All I want to do is pay my bills, go to school, work, and take care of our son. Well it seems as though he hasn't "grown" up yet. He never pays his/our bills and its VERY aggravating. After he screws everything up (money), I fix it or try to fix it and then he does it again. All he cares about is sex. And he thinks sex fixes everything. I am currently living at my parents house because we cannot afford to heat our house. It doesn't even bother him. It seems as if he doesn't care. He just gets in his truck (truck driver) and leaves and he acts like everything is "OK". Should I try to work this out or cut my losses? I am currently supporting my son and I without help from him. I do love him but I don't want to be like this the rest of my life.

2007-01-14 04:27:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was w/my kids father for over 5 yrs. He was talking to this girl from online which was no biggie. Until i happen to read im's they were writeing to eachother. I love u& cant wait to you come here for 2 weeks so we can have sex ect....So I emailed her saying we were together & stuff, but she can have him cuz I dont deserve to be disrespected like this.She wrote back thanks but I dont need your permission anyways. Anyways they are planning on moveing in together they never met. I dont think it will last she is 18 hes 30. She is very immature I can tell by the way she talks over the mic & the stuff she does on webcam. What gets me mad is she dont know me & is running her mouth about me. Yeah I am alittle overweight I had 4 kids she is about same weight. My point is I gained all my weight from my kids. Whats her reason. She will say over mic or whatever that I am 4 ft. 200 lbs im not close. I try not 2 let her bother me cuz she is immature. Do U think she has low esteem? or think her?

2007-01-14 04:27:47 · 3 answers · asked by missy e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend, of nearly two years, took advantage of the trust that was given to her. I caught her dissing about me behind my back. Twice. With some other male stranger-I'm not pissed with the guys though. Denzel in distress, is a good thing-helps them get laid.
Recently, I caught my gf, going out with her ex. And that definitely draws the line. This isn't the first time. And I doubt it'll be the last.
I've braced myself of what's to come. I just want the ending to blow on her face.

2007-01-14 04:27:25 · 36 answers · asked by SilkStuy 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you feel about growing one year older?

2007-01-14 04:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf is great but we keep getting in fights revolving around the same topic. We make up after but then the same incident occurs and it repeats all over again. What should I do!?!?

2007-01-14 04:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by twinktoes7 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I take REVENGE on this jerk who's betrayed me from day one of our relationship?
This jerk still insist being in my life, refusing to give my house keys back and ignoring my decision to break up. He lies, breaks his promises, occasionally stands me up, talked bad behind my back, moody and hostile. Seven months ago, he smothered me playing
Mr. Nice guy, helpful, giving, patient, polite, and EXTREMELY interested in whatever I was involved in. He was incredible until three months ago when I'd fell....in love?. I'm NOT a trusting person but he somehow made me feel he was safe to give my heart to but almost immediately after I'd began feeling affection for him, he completely changed--he's exactly the opposite person who'd persistently pursued me. Now he acts as though I'm obligated to him along with his lying, 2-faced, promise-breaking, game playing treatment. I want to take REVENGE. Should I?

2007-01-14 04:27:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She always stands up for her broke *** son and gives him money. When her daughter is the one that takes care of her and pays her bills,takes her to appointments,etc. Things she can't do anymore she does. But whenever she complains to her about all the bad he's been doing, all my grandma does is nothing. But her son can complain about anything and she'll yell at her daughter and grandkids for nothing! So how should i tell her that she's being used by her son, because he's stealing from her and geting paid for basicly sleeping on his butt all day!

2007-01-14 04:26:53 · 9 answers · asked by spirit22poet 2 in Family

2007-01-14 04:26:52 · 9 answers · asked by funny girl 1 in Friends

On average is 6 or 7 a good size? Honest answers only please.

2007-01-14 04:26:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel the most popular is divya followed by priya ....what do u think

2007-01-14 04:25:37 · 14 answers · asked by vinodsjain2000 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, there is this guy named jonathan, all of my friends and his friends say he likes me, but im not sure. recently, ive been noticing things he does to me and for me. here are some of the things.
1. he likes to touch me, grabbing my shoulder, touching my arm, and putting his arms around me, sometimes.
2. he is always really nice to me. one time, after gym he runs up to me and puts both of his hands on my shoulders and said to me, you were awesome today!
3. after band (i play saxophone, and he plays trumpet and he sits directly behind me) he always ALWAYS waits for me, even for no reason. one time i had to wait an extra 5 minutes and he waited for me, even tho he was late to his next class. he invited me to a church event, and a some other events. he always looks at me, and stares at me. i think i might like him to. i see him tonight again at 6. wat should i do to tell him that i like him to? and do you think he likes me?

2007-01-14 04:25:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating