Should I take REVENGE on this jerk who's betrayed me from day one of our relationship?
This jerk still insist being in my life, refusing to give my house keys back and ignoring my decision to break up. He lies, breaks his promises, occasionally stands me up, talked bad behind my back, moody and hostile. Seven months ago, he smothered me playing
Mr. Nice guy, helpful, giving, patient, polite, and EXTREMELY interested in whatever I was involved in. He was incredible until three months ago when I'd fell....in love?. I'm NOT a trusting person but he somehow made me feel he was safe to give my heart to but almost immediately after I'd began feeling affection for him, he completely changed--he's exactly the opposite person who'd persistently pursued me. Now he acts as though I'm obligated to him along with his lying, 2-faced, promise-breaking, game playing treatment. I want to take REVENGE. Should I?
2007-01-14 04:27:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have any large, violent male relatives, send them round to have a word.
You can borrow some of mine if you like! I've got loads!
2007-01-14 04:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no need to take revenge.. justice will come in time when you're with the right man and you're happy and secure in your relationship with no game playing going on. It will take time. I went through exactly the same thing but stupidly let it go on for 4 yrs?! It even sounds like the same guy! lol! It was hell and i was left with so much anger inside and many times, like yourself, i wanted my revenge just to make him fall small and worthless for once.. i never did and im glad i didnt. I concentrated on getting myself back on my feet and the greatest result came from it.. i am a happy secure loved person and he is still a miserable game playing good for nothing loser doing the same old thing hes always done. He hasnt managed to hold a relationship down yet.. because girls become wise to him. Put all your energy into making yourself happy, dont waste your time on plotting revenge. Good luck, i hope hes outta your head soon!
2007-01-14 12:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by peachesandcream 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge takes too much time and effort!
it is satisfying at the time but in hindsight Ur sinking to there depths
So best get rid, threaten him with the police (or some heavies u know) for Ur house keys or change the locks
Hope all goes well xx
2007-01-15 16:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by littlemermaid_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your door locks. Homedepot will re-key them for you at a small cost.
Block his number from your phone.
But take no revenge. YOU are the one that put up with him. He will get his by and by. Find a good guy, there are plenty out there. I would suggest that you find nice little church someplace to join or a volunteer group, etc. There you will have a better chance of finding a real person. Kick this jerk to the curb. If you run over him you will invite retribution from him and his friends. It is not worth it.
2007-01-14 12:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously enormously self-important already. Treat him with total indifference. He doesn't warrant your time or even thinking about. Change your locks and your phone number and basically ignore him completely and get on with what's important - your life. The most appropriate revenge you can take will be to relegate even his memory to the waste basket, and realise how completely inconsequential he is.
You have the rest of your life, and people in your life who are and will be important. You don't have time for him.
2007-01-14 12:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take revenge it will hurt you more. One day when he's out change the locks, put all his stuff in black bags outside. You have not been with him too long the hurt you can get over. Just think too yourself now do I want to stick this out if the words come to your head no i don't get rid of him now better sooner than later
2007-01-14 13:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by mt1uk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you know his details, call up anything between 5 to 50 restaurants and have them deliver takeout to his house- in his name of course-and a time you know he will be home. For best results you need to be around to see the look on his face. Tried and tested!
2007-01-14 13:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is silent treatment. DISAPPEAR for a few days.. Like totally disappear and see what happens then. Go stay with a friend, switch off your cell and completely stay away and clear things in your head. Then when you return, dont answer his questions and just pretend he doesnt exist. Lets see what happens then. Tell him very clearly "I AM NO LONGER IN LOVE WITH YOU",,,, very very precisely.
2007-01-14 12:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him the time of day. The best revenge that you could take is:
If he won't give you back your key....change the locks.
Move on....go out with friends and meet/date other people.
Ignore his pleas of sorry, I'll change, because he won't, he'll only get worse.
2007-01-14 12:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Would revenge lower you to his level?
Revenge is always ugly, always childish and always something decent people regret later on.
Get rid of him and congratulate yourself that you have an open enough heart for it to hurt like that and prepare yourself for risking your heart again. It is the only way to find love...even if sometimes we only find something on the soles of our shoes!
2007-01-14 12:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋