My boyfriend is in the highest level of choir at our school. He has to dance with this girl during one of the songs they sing. A slow-dance type of dancing but a little more difficult then that, with added movements that you have to memorize. So he's going to be working with this girl for a few weeks and it makes me really uneasy, even though I trust him. Whenever I think about him and some other girl touching while dancing it makes my stomach hurt plus I have this pain in the side of my head. I know nothings going to happen(we've been together for 6 1/2 years) but I hate it when I know some other girl gets to touch him, especially dance with him in that manner! And the fact that he will be touching her. I don't care who she is, or how innocent it is, it just disgusts me to the point of actually being physically ill.
2007-01-14 04:33:25 · 4 answers · asked by tranquil.dream 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do you trust him? you should it just means you love him but you also need to let him do his actives too as long as you guys have a strong bond and trust you will be OK
2007-01-14 04:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by mary m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship cannot exist long without trust, your jealousy and possessiveness indicated this. Common sense tells you, you cannot shadow another person 24/7. If you don't trust them enough to believe that it is strictly work, they you will soon lose him to another girl.
2007-01-14 04:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a green eyed monster and must be dealt with. You must trust him this time and if you marry him many times hereafter. You don't own anybody. He is only yours if he wants to be yours. Remember that.
Jealousy, possessiveness and YOU FORGOT CONTROLLING.
2007-01-14 04:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your immaturity shows right through.
2007-01-14 04:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋